Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 31 - Page 82

Originally posted by: N_n_n_n

So one baweja took revenge for other baweja 😂😂😂

Garry used to put false accusations on Sahiba, Rumi on Angad.

Originally posted by: arnavkushi14

Sorry Re accepted iam solo pissed off after seeing bts and the way Coward moongas behavior today my phone auto correct 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

No need to be sorry sister. I got it, forgot to edit my quote.

I understood after quoting you it is another one of your happy birthday suji moments

Uff some people are literally spewing venom. Manbeer, Seerat ki yaad dila di 😂

I don't think Sahiba should go back to Mongas. If Angad has recently gone to such lengths for her, faced what he has for her, any sane person will give him a benefit of doubt. So Sahiba must stand by him, talk to him and then put her foot down about the Seerat and his family situation. If he has a reasonable response to what she expects and can actually act upon it, then like any sane person, she should stand by him. And Angad must repent how Sahiba went through hell indirectly because of his failure in Seerat matter.

Rumi situation is first Angad's fault. She is in that hostel because of him and his lack of integrity in Seerat matter. Then it's Sahiba's fault, for not paying heed to what Angad suggested and landing them both in more trouble.

So characters should stay true to their flashbacks. Realize how they individually contributed to the situation becoming so horrible. However, Sahiba must put her foot down. If she or Angad are shown to dilly-dally in this matter, then writers deserve to be fired.

Originally posted by: Khaalidimaag

Uff some people are literally spewing venom. Manbeer, Seerat ki yaad dila di 😂

I don't think Sahiba should go back to Mongas. If Angad has recently gone to such lengths for her, faced what he has for her, any sane person will give him a benefit of doubt. So Sahiba must stand by him, talk to him and then put her foot down about the Seerat and his family situation. If he has a reasonable response to what she expects and can actually act upon it, then like any sane person, she should stand by him. And Angad must repent how Sahiba went through hell indirectly because of his failure in Seerat matter.

Rumi situation is first Angad's fault. She is in that hostel because of him and his lack of integrity in Seerat matter. Then it's Sahiba's fault, for not paying heed to what Angad suggested and landing them both in more trouble.

So characters should stay true to their flashbacks. Realize how they individually contributed to the situation becoming so horrible. However, Sahiba must put her foot down. If she or Angad are shown to dilly-dally in this matter, then writers deserve to be fired.

I would say Rumis situation is entirely Sahibas fault because she spared him when she shouldn't have and Seerat situation is entirely on Angad, he got her home against Sahibas wishes and he asked her parents to not take her while hiding multiple ema offers.

I would expect everyone including Mongas, the police guy, especially Sahiba to apologize to Angad regarding Rumi situation and the false accusations. Sahiba has been shown multiple times to repent what she did by letting Rumi go and is trying her best to rectify it.

I know Angad will never feel guilty about Seerat topic because he voluntarily with his free will wants her in his life , he has never seen anything wrong with her actions.

So Sahiba talking to Angad about it will be talking to a wall, she has spoken multiple times and he never cared. According to him Seerat can change whatever she wants, his shirt, bed , but since he says his feelings won't change so everyone should agree.

Either Sahiba makes peace with the fact that he will always juggle between them both and stop whining or she separates fully.

Ps: by situation I mean Sahiba being kidnapped. That is on her. And like any normal human she feels guilty when a terrible decision causes hurt to people she loves, even though Rumi is the one actually responsible for them. The lesson should be to never spare rapey mindset people , leopard doesn't change its spots(I know her takeaway from all this will be to never oppose hubby, no matter who changes his shirt)

Angad should not have assumed from a WhatsApp photo that Rumi left, he was aware he was letting go of a dangerous man on Sahibas request, no one willingly hid anything to avoid hurting him.

Sahiba held that fire log in a stance similar to how Maa Durga holds her trishul (Or I saw it that way)

This is makers way of showing Navratri, lo tum bhi thoda women power dekhlo.

Mereko yeh nahi samjha woh lakdi phenk kyun di. Like Debji said, glucose supply kam ho gaya hai.

Originally posted by: hellodona

I would say Rumis situation is entirely Sahibas fault because she spared him when she shouldn't have and Seerat situation is entirely on Angad, he got her home against Sahibas wishes and he asked her parents to not take her while hiding multiple ema offers.

I would expect everyone including Mongas, the police guy, especially Sahiba to apologize to Angad regarding Rumi situation and the false accusations. Sahiba has been shown multiple times to repent what she did by letting Rumi go and is trying her best to rectify it.

I know Angad will never feel guilty about Seerat topic because he voluntarily with his free will wants her in his life , he has never seen anything wrong with her actions.

So Sahiba talking to Angad about it will be talking to a wall, she has spoken multiple times and he never cared. According to him Seerat can change whatever she wants, his shirt, bed , but since he says his feelings won't change so everyone should agree.

Either Sahiba makes peace with the fact that he will always juggle between them both and stop whining or she separates fully.

Ps: by situation I mean Sahiba being kidnapped. That is on her. And like any normal human she feels guilty when a terrible decision causes hurt to people she loves, even though Rumi is the one actually responsible for them. The lesson should be to never spare rapey mindset people , leopard doesn't change its spots(I know her takeaway from all this will be to never oppose hubby, no matter who changes his shirt)

Angad should not have assumed from a WhatsApp photo that Rumi left, he was aware he was letting go of a dangerous man on Sahibas request, no one willingly hid anything to avoid hurting him.

Agree with you mostly. Except the part that she shouldn't talk about the Seerat matter. Obviously she shouldn't go to Brar mansion by default. But if Angad insists then she needs to give him clear choices and put her condition for return out there clearly. She has been subtle and not confronted the family+Angad or put them in a spot.

Originally posted by: Khaalidimaag

Agree with you mostly. Except the part that she shouldn't talk about the Seerat matter. Obviously she shouldn't go to Brar mansion by default. But if Angad insists then she needs to give him clear choices and put her condition for return out there clearly. She has been subtle and not confronted the family+Angad or put them in a spot.

Not saying she shouldn't. But this would be a conversation you have with a guy receptive to the discussion. He has made it clear he sees no issue with anything Seerat does, even if it involves taking bedroom decisions for him because no matter what she does his feelings won't change.

So it will be another pointless scene that will annoy everyone. Sahiba knows mostly everything, either she accept the fact that she will always have to share husband with sister and make peace with it or she gets divorce and frees him to legally give wife rights to his bhabi.

Brars know everything, from Seerat cheating to Seerat openly claiming Angad should come to her and she wants to erase Sahiba from Angads life. Santosh directly told it all again in Gurudwara. Again it will be like talking to a wall, better she make peace that she will always be the rejected sister who got in due to a runaway bride or she chose to separate.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Garry used to put false accusations on Sahiba, Rumi on Angad.

long lost brothers ab parlok mein milenge...

Originally posted by: Khaalidimaag

Uff some people are literally spewing venom. Manbeer, Seerat ki yaad dila di 😂

I don't think Sahiba should go back to Mongas. If Angad has recently gone to such lengths for her, faced what he has for her, any sane person will give him a benefit of doubt. So Sahiba must stand by him, talk to him and then put her foot down about the Seerat and his family situation. If he has a reasonable response to what she expects and can actually act upon it, then like any sane person, she should stand by him. And Angad must repent how Sahiba went through hell indirectly because of his failure in Seerat matter.

Rumi situation is first Angad's fault. She is in that hostel because of him and his lack of integrity in Seerat matter. Then it's Sahiba's fault, for not paying heed to what Angad suggested and landing them both in more trouble.

So characters should stay true to their flashbacks. Realize how they individually contributed to the situation becoming so horrible. However, Sahiba must put her foot down. If she or Angad are shown to dilly-dally in this matter, then writers deserve to be fired.

Personally, I am of the opinion that Mongas should take Sahiba to their house instead of magically appearing when she is dead. At least for once prove that they are her parents. Any sane parent would drag their daughter back to their house even if she wants to go back to a toxic household... specially after seeing her at the brink of death... Not once but twice.

Secondly, it will save us from some cringe Seergad moments. Angad needs Sahiba when she is away... and if she is forcefully taken away to her maika.. he might pursue her.. kyunki do naav mein sawaari karna hein na usko..+ he would be concerned about her safety. This track would have a lot of potential. Isliye...

Angad also let Romi go. Sahiba is feeling guilty that she didnt listen but its not like Angad tried too hard to actually rectify Romi situation. He was super confident he had handled it. If he cared so much about his wife and even his own safety he could have put his foot down and got Romi arrested. Since when does he listen to everything Sahiba says 🙄 usne bola Romi ko chhodo, usne chhoda. But didn't she also tell him to put Seerat in place firmly - uska kya hua?!

Sahiba is always made to feel like everything is her fault by Brars and it will happen again. But will Angad ever feel guilty and apologize in the Seerat matter and more importantly do anything to fix it ?! The one time he did try to address the situation- it was to the wrong person he proposed so cant really count that. The previous times too when he did feel bad and try to rectify things - wasnt about Seerat- and its always after something crazy and major like shop on fire, Sahiba getting character assassinated over Kiaras pregnancy, Sahiba getting blamed for Garys deeds, Sahiba almost dying after his mom's doing. In all these situations Sahiba has been kind despite having enough reason to hate him. She still understands his pov and forgives his behavior.

Sahiba essentially left because of his indiscretions with Seerat. Yes its possible Romi would obsess over her even if Sahiba didn't move to hostel and as much as Sahiba is to blame for letting Romi go, Angad is too.

He's trying to rescue her now but that doesn't prove he loves Sahiba nor does it show us that he repents what happened with the Seerat issue.

As ML and supposedly dil ka accha dude, he's expected to help anyone who is kidnapped and in mortal peril so what he's doing for Sahiba now is something he would do for Seerat or Pam or anyone else too.

Moreover in a sense its his ass on the line too. The only way to prove himself innocent is to show Sahiba is alive. And technically when he does he can still be punished for taking the law in his hands by not cooperating with police - keeping a cop as hostage, etc etc. But we know that won't happen. Everyone is gonna regret being harsh on Angad , especially Sahiba but will our mahaan Angad feel any guilt, shame and at least now set boundaries with Seerat?!