Yes its with Akshara, I think I understand Abhi so far. He has long stopped thinking about himself. and today he again repeated that he is getting a chance to undo his mistake. That's all he wants and to be able to take care of Abhir.Originally posted by: lagjagale
Then your issue is with Ak, which I also have. Obviously she is manipulating Abhi and I really don't care about her perspective anymore. To me, in this instance, even though Manjari's reasons were correct, her resolution was not. She should have told them to take time and plan marriage after a year basically. Do a long engagement, lots of people do that, and Abhira should have done that the first time around anyways. What is with this quick wedding nonsense? She should have told them to figure out their relationship with this baby in the picture and with everything else as friends without marrying right away. I don't think Abhir would have had an issue if they simply told him that the marriage date is set for next year. He even asked that if I remember.
The problem here is that Abhira haven't talked, haven't discussed their relationship enough, haven't developed that faith in each other that is needed. Its been two months since Nav's death. Already this shadi was way too soon. But now with Ak pregnant it just looks wrong. Its like they are all so scared that things will fall apart they want to get them marries asap. But that's not how marriage should be approached anymore. Abhira aren't kids. Both of them spent six years pining after each other. Both of them have accepted that their destiny lies with each other. So now is the time to understand each other. To spend time, go on dates, maybe even fall back in love with each other. With marriage there come a lot of responsibilities and we have already seen them fail at handling everything. So in this situation, the solution is not to invite more MUs and guilt by killing the baby, its to think and process and talk about everything.
I think by not giving a scene where they both try to explain to Abhir and also by ramping up the tempo on Abhir's reaction to the cancellation of the marriage, they believe they have given a strong premise to fact that the marriage has to happen immediately. The Goenka's shamelessly supporting this in front of Abhi just adds fuel to the fire. It was made to seem as if there was no choice.
But for some reason, until few days back the two people who used to be dost and talk every small thing and co-parent Abhir no longer talk to each other because Akshara is busy in pooja's. Abhi has been asking her to let her know thoughts, but none came. He is stuck. In fact MJ spoke to him more.
If Akshara had become irrelevant before, she has become non-existent now.
beautifully said ..people here made me realise his name Abhimanyu was kept with lot of thought..it never occurred to me..I can't believe I am saying this but I don't want Abhira together..she clearly doesn't love him..she just can't take care of her kids alone ..she needs a father as she looked in Nav..and Abhi hurt one person who selflessly loved him and didn't look back..I wanted them to get seperate in initial days of wedding that time I wanted Abhi to focus on Akshara more..tab Akshara ko family ki padi thi....I know what's Manjari did was wrong to manipulate Abhir..I can't justify it..but I don't like Abhi leaving her and not looking back...his death will make sense and now I am looking forward to him dying...May be Akshara can finally realise his value
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