Originally posted by: lagjagale
I get that we are all very disappointed with Abhi right now, but I don't see any other way out for him right now. To me, this decision was not just based on Akshara, but also Abhir. All of the pressure on Ak to abort the baby, has also been pressure on Abhi to figure out a way she doesn't have to. He explained it clearly today that she won't be happy if she does this and he cannot be happy if she and Abhir aren't happy. Long term, this would have led to a lot of resentment for everyone. Abhir is a delicate child and if we all were asking why Akshara isn't putting him first, why isn't she considering his wishes over Navra baby, then the same is true of Abhi as well. He also needs to put his family first, and that includes Ak and Abhir. It always has, and always will. They have been a unit throughout everything and its impossible to act like this can change or there is a chance for Abhi to move on with someone else at this point.
Manjari is wrong about the abortion. She has been wrong about many things in the past too, always with clear and valid reasons, but still wrong. She goes too far and doesn't realize it. And Abhi has defended her countless times. I don't see why its wrong for him to tell her to back down now. And he wasn't rude to her or anything. He explained things clearly and they just have such a big difference of opinion that it cannot be resolved in time. Abhir is already sick, and Ak is weak.
I don't think he broke her heart here. I don't think their relationship is so weak or fragile to be affected by this disagreement. I doubt Manjari will hold onto anything for too long and same goes for Abhi. They didn't fight, they weren't mean to each other, both of them understand that the other is talking from a place of love. Infact both of them also understand each other's POVs. But this is something Abhi has to do. And Manjari has to understand that.
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