Does anupama love anuj?

Anuj is mad behind anupama all know

For what he saw in her is a big mystery?

Neither shes educated neither working in big post nor successful in life, nor shes so beautiful in looks, nor she wears pretty clothes and carries herself well

Neither her talk is sweet ad soft even she talks very crude like gali moholla uneducated woman screaming crying OTT always, nor she cooks or ares or look after him and his house, nor she gave him a child(made hm father) CA is adopted, neither she taking care of his adopted baby CA, nor she ever cared for Malvika(allowed EMA by vanraj in front of eyes) and GK kaka

So why is anuj so mad after her and her ex in laws family shahs?

But i am not able to understand if anupama loves anuj or not? Why she married him?

As far as i can see she does not love anuj at all nor his family like CA, ankush, adhik etc

Anupama loves only vanraj shah and all other shahs and ignores all kapadiyas (if someone watches this serial you can feel anupam aloves vanraj not anuj shes always very happy with him and in shah house)

The way anupama talks to samar, toshu, pakhi, kinjal is different from how she behaves with kapadiya kids like sara, adhik, CA etc

The way anupama flaunts over ba a and bapuji is much more than over GK kaka and malvika or ankush anuj closest family

Anuj mom malati devi is gayab from hom yet anupam anever searched for her or gave police complaint shes busy making party plans for samar

Anupama does not even care for dimpy. I think she likes kinjal only because kinjal blindly praises her and is super rich unlike dimpy family

I think anupama is married to anuj because one she was alone in society someone to take care of her financially and in any problem so she married anuj no real love exists - its more a marraige for benefits for anupama than any love or liking

Shes secured her financial future and shahs financial future by marrying anuj kapadiya and anuj has obliged by making her business owner and all his property owner. I wish anuj had given 50% businss to malvika and house bungalow he had named malvika as owner than anupama as its built by malvika father

But anuj has become majnu mad in anupama love. In todays strert smart world no man gives all his business property to wife or one human who will than make him dance to her tunes and whims like anupama is doing

Ideally kapadiya empire 50% should go malvika 50% to anuj kapadiya and after him CA should be heir to his 50% shares. Any man/father in todays times will do will like i have told. He may give 5% shares or lumpsump few crores to anupama in her name but this giving 100% business to anupama when shes not loyal to him but vanraj and shahs no man will do in todays times.

If anuj had given 50% to Malvika and 50% to himself or may be 45% to himself and 5% to anupama than i doubt shahhs would have hovered like honey bees behind anupam and come to kapadiya house so often. Its but oblivous they are after kapadiya wealth like adhik/barkha they have no love for anuj or anupama for that matter. Vanraj was angry when anuj adopted CA because he wanted 100% kapadiya wealth to go to his 3 kids.

So anuj should have just stopped all this politics for kapadiya empire by shahs and adhik by given 50% to malvika and 45% to himself and may be 5% shares to anupama. After him CA should have got his 50% shares(anupama 5% too) as its kapadiya wealth not shahs to give them

I think she likes Anuj well enough- but her heart always was and always will be in the Shah household.

Before she ever found out Vanraj and Kavya - she absolutely ADORED being a mom, taking care of the house and her Baa baapuji. Yes she was getting abused and would feel very sad about it but was in denial or it- and ultimately… (As has been the theme in the show… ) Being a mother, and with her family, was absolutely the most important thing, and made her the happiest despite any of the other bad things happening in her life.

She also was very much in love with her husband… Remember how she would blush and try to match her clothes with him etc. etc. and she felt very lucky to be with him.

When she found out about the extra marital affair, her entire world fell apart… She never a imagined life in which she would have to leave her family home and kids… These are the central things to her life, and due to the circumstances she was forced to leave because she felt she had to stand up for her rights because she could not be with a cheater.

She never wanted to leave that home. Her heart and soul was in it, but she had to. Even on the show her character has self admittedly, said that she is stubborn and sometimes does things out of ego.

She did what she needed to do by getting a divorce and standing up for her right… But ultimately every other part of her heart and soul was still there and she still wanted that life with that family

anuj came and offered her a distraction and Healing … But she never dreamed of having a life with him. She has always an only wanted to be with her family.

I think Anuj played a role in helping her heal during a divorce but he’s never meant anything to her the way her family has.

so, in conclusion, she never wanted to leave that house, but basically circumstances “forced” her too, and she still pines /wishes to be back in that life that she was kicked out of by life circumstance

Anuj for sure knows everything regarding Anu’s life and Devika is also involved in this planning.This guy has been pining over a stranger he had a crush on 26 years ago.thats obessive af.He saw anupama dance at 17 years and fell in love with her and went hitting other classmates in hockey stick if they saw anupama (was he not dismissed or suspended in college for his antics)He ran to anupama wedding at 18 years to stop it so that he can marry her. He has no so much brain that hes undergae to marry anupama in college. thoughts? Anuj fell in love madly with her. In his love he also beaten one of the college student who ragged anu. Then he is the one who stole her magnets and also he actually enrolled her for a competition. Anuj wanted a family with anupama n when half of his dream came true so he went on to complete other half. He for sure knows everything regarding Anu’s life and Devika is also involved in this planning.

To simply answer your Question....Anuj thinks Anupmaa loves him....

Originally posted by: lakshmikumr

To simply answer your Question....Anuj thinks Anupmaa loves him....

Or maybe (clutching at nostalgic straws here...)

Hum ko maalum hai jannat ki haqiqat lekin

Dil ke Khush rakhne ko Ghalib ye khayal accha hai

- Mirza Ghalib

She loves certain aspects of Anuj. His meri Anu jaap, his wealth, his lack of self respect and his inclination to dutifully serve her and her royal Tamashah masters while bearing each slight. But she does not love him wholly as that place is reserved for her one and only pati parmeshwar

Initially I felt that she does love him but he would always be his last priority. Now, in my honest opinion I feel neither she loves nor does he loves her. Anupama’s one true love was/is and always will be Shahs. Because they feed her ego of being important. She loves being the centre of attention and everything has to be about her.

Anuj on the other hand is still under illusion. That man has no respect and care for his adopted parents, sister, or anyone apart from Anupama. He also suffers from identity crisis. Now, if he accepts that his so called love of 26 years is an illusion then he will start getting anxiety attacks.

In short both of them need self introspection and therapy rather than each other.

Originally posted by: PJFan777

I think she likes Anuj well enough- but her heart always was and always will be in the Shah household.

Before she ever found out Vanraj and Kavya - she absolutely ADORED being a mom, taking care of the house and her Baa baapuji. Yes she was getting abused and would feel very sad about it but was in denial or it- and ultimately… (As has been the theme in the show… ) Being a mother, and with her family, was absolutely the most important thing, and made her the happiest despite any of the other bad things happening in her life.

She also was very much in love with her husband… Remember how she would blush and try to match her clothes with him etc. etc. and she felt very lucky to be with him.

When she found out about the extra marital affair, her entire world fell apart… She never a imagined life in which she would have to leave her family home and kids… These are the central things to her life, and due to the circumstances she was forced to leave because she felt she had to stand up for her rights because she could not be with a cheater.

She never wanted to leave that home. Her heart and soul was in it, but she had to. Even on the show her character has self admittedly, said that she is stubborn and sometimes does things out of ego.

She did what she needed to do by getting a divorce and standing up for her right… But ultimately every other part of her heart and soul was still there and she still wanted that life with that family

anuj came and offered her a distraction and Healing … But she never dreamed of having a life with him. She has always an only wanted to be with her family.

I think Anuj played a role in helping her heal during a divorce but he’s never meant anything to her the way her family has.

so, in conclusion, she never wanted to leave that house, but basically circumstances “forced” her too, and she still pines /wishes to be back in that life that she was kicked out of by life circumstance

Everyone likes their best friends, cousins, relatives, neighbours, classmate, teachers etc those who are nice to them and care for them

Liking is different love is different

That too soulmate love is completely different from other love

I do not think anupama loves anuj like a soulmate

I think anuj loves her like soulmate and can do anything for anupama even leave his family mukku, GK for her sake

But for anupama anuj is just a friend or classmate hes never even a boy friend or lover ever forget an husband or soulmate

Anupama can never leave shahs or vanraj shah or baa bapuji for anuj sake even if they harm or humiliate him

Love is when you can leave everything for an human your wealth your parents and siblings your status your position even your own life

that is real love which only anuj does with anupama

In her mind and soul and heart shes still married to vanraj and bahu of baa and bapuji and shah house is her house

But after marraige her heart and soul must have considered kapadiya mansion as her house and anuj parents and GK kaka as her parents that is her baa bapuji and she should have treated anuj as husband not vanraj shah. By now she must have considered malvika as her sister not dolly ben and ankush as her brother if she truly loved anuj and considered kapadiya mansion as her home

That is whole problem of this serial being married to anuj staying in his house kapadiya mansion but considering vanraj as her husband his parents as her parents and his house shah house as her sasural instead(only for name sake to confuse society she says shahs house is her mayka everyone knows thats her saural not mayka)

If she had to do all this why marry anuj? Why destroy his life? Shes taken advantage of his blind love for her and using him and his wealth and power to bring up shahs status and wealth

Shes destroyed kavya life too by never allowing her to become bahu of shahs or wife of vanraj as everyday she goes and does kavya work in shah house

I would say kavya did ema with her ex hubby only because she never got love and respect as vanraj wife in shah house by vanraj orr others because anupama was interfering too much in shah house after she married anuj and left

Originally posted by: Historia

Anuj for sure knows everything regarding Anu’s life and Devika is also involved in this planning.This guy has been pining over a stranger he had a crush on 26 years ago.thats obessive af.He saw anupama dance at 17 years and fell in love with her and went hitting other classmates in hockey stick if they saw anupama (was he not dismissed or suspended in college for his antics)He ran to anupama wedding at 18 years to stop it so that he can marry her. He has no so much brain that hes undergae to marry anupama in college. thoughts? Anuj fell in love madly with her. In his love he also beaten one of the college student who ragged anu. Then he is the one who stole her magnets and also he actually enrolled her for a competition. Anuj wanted a family with anupama n when half of his dream came true so he went on to complete other half. He for sure knows everything regarding Anu’s life and Devika is also involved in this planning.

Anuj is definetly at fault here to keep tab on his lover for 26 years through someone

But here i blame Devika equally she has no right to go and tell abuout anupama personal life info to anuj in detail every week when he asks

No best friend will spy on her or his best friend life and tell her lover everthing like devika did

Its criminal what Devika was doing for 26 years

She misused anupama trust on her as college best friend

Usually we tell best friend our problems thinking they will not share outside or even if they share not every other day that too to our lover in school college office etc (whom we may or may not love)

Its called stalking and punishable under law

Devika has done a big crime or offence too. Anuj was anyway not right after anupama marriage he should not have kept tab on her at all

Imagine if all ex boy friends start keeping tab on others wives like this in real world it may lead to many issues and crimes too actually law does not permit all this actually neither does society because its wrong