Originally posted by: lagjagale
I agree that it doesn't have a lot to do with widows and stuff, but it does have a lot to do with Muskaan's preconceived notions about Abhira's relationship and stuff. Here we are not talking about moving on at all. Ak has made no indications about moving on or giving Nav's place to Abhi. Over there Kartik was talking about marrying Seerat which is a different situation all together.
Plus Abhi is Abhir's father and that relationship has been established while Nav was alive and in part accepted by Nav repeatedly. Even Muskaan accepted that relationship earlier on and had no issues with it. Muskaan isn't objecting to anything real basically, its all in her head based on what she knows about Abhira and she is projecting that.
She is comfortable accusing Ak of this because of soceity's stance on widows. Her motivations maybe whatever, but she never even thought that Abhira want to be together before, even during her marraige when Abhira were friendly. This is all borne out of the fact that Nav isn't there and she doesn't trust Ak's character.
Saying from a realistic approach , no one would like his deceased sibling's spouse prancing with anyone from the opposite gender , and this is not from a regressive point of view . Any family would be distasteful to the sight of their recently dead son/daughter's spouse seeking company of opposite gender .
This has nothing to do with society' outlook towards widows . Would it be acceptable if a man seeks company of his lady friends shortly after his wife died ?
Had muskan been a complete stranger to akshara then her behavior could have been recognized as ill perspective towards widow , but that isn't the case as muskan is the dead man's own sister . Her emotions are understandable.
At the end of the day , it is a fact that muskan doesn't stand on the pedestal to morally or legally stop ak and abhir from moving on from abhinav . She had her right on abhinav but not on ak-abhir . The fact that abhir isn't abhinav's biological son further limits her position , girl needs to understand this fact . She has already spoiled her life by marrying a spoiled playboy brat kairav . Maybe now she will be able to understand abhimanyu's pain of suffering through the hands of goenka kids .
No problem with a person moving on , people move on all the time .... but if a person moves on from claimed soul love multiple times then that definitely is disheartening and distasteful.
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