AbhiM is redeemed.. Akshara how and when? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Anu234

Oh so thats the reason why abhimanyu told she is better person than him means he didn't consider her responsible now for the things happened but his own doing. But alas many won't get it and call it was whitewashing.

It is ofcourse whitewashing. With that evidence anyone would have proved abhi's innocence. Akshara was not at all needed for this. But ofcourse makers had to show that woh apna dard bhulakar abhi ke liye lad Rahi hai!!! First of all if she loved abhinav immensely, instead of grieving with abhir, why was she more interested in punishing abhi!!!!

Abhi was and is the better person than Akshara from day 1.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

It is ofcourse whitewashing. With that evidence anyone would have proved abhi's innocence. Akshara was not at all needed for this. But ofcourse makers had to show that woh apna dard bhulakar abhi ke liye lad Rahi hai!!! First of all if she loved abhinav immensely, instead of grieving with abhir, why was she more interested in punishing abhi!!!!

Abhi was and is the better person than Akshara from day 1.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

All this false narrative to keep one guy relevant

AbhiM is projected as villain becos otherwise the other guy loses his acha tag. Uske khudh ka kuch nahi hai. He decided to help another pregnant woman and in doing so, decided to agree to her decisions simply becos they benefited him hugely. Look wer it led, Abhir is in depression! 😵

This false narrative is makers hoping audience considers Abhi villian..people who have watched season 3 from start know who Abhi is...he is flawed but most truthful and genuine out of everyone..many people currently feel FL acts like a vamp.. I hate makers for WD as they ruined Abhi only for creating space for cameo otherwise he wouldn't even be relevant to story...and for being self proclaimed achha..Nav wasn't a bad person but he was equally selfish ..he got chance of instant family and grabbed it..the least makers should do is Akshara realising changing Abhi as a Father was ethically wrong

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

It is ofcourse whitewashing. With that evidence anyone would have proved abhi's innocence. Akshara was not at all needed for this. But ofcourse makers had to show that woh apna dard bhulakar abhi ke liye lad Rahi hai!!! First of all if she loved abhinav immensely, instead of grieving with abhir, why was she more interested in punishing abhi!!!!

Abhi was and is the better person than Akshara from day 1.

But kya kare for abhimanyu akshara is better person. And also abhimanyu when he lost neil instead of grieving he was showing all his anger on her and punished her harshly for that. he truly loved neil yes he did then why was he so much into punishing akshara for all that this many years ?.

For me akshara has always been the better person when she knew she did wrong by blaming him she apologized to him asked a chance to rectify it. But after all this he said that she is a better person yes I liked the fact that he apologized to her but has he done anything to rectify that pain he has caused her ? No only we have to see infuture if he truly will stand with her in difficult times or again blame with her. If that happens then I would yes abhimanyu has become a better person. And also akshara with her realisation were she went wrong will apologize to it and rectify it especially by fixing father son bond.

Originally posted by: Anu234

But kya kare for abhimanyu akshara is better person. And also abhimanyu when he lost neil instead of grieving he was showing all his anger on her and punished her harshly for that. he truly loved neil yes he did then why was he so much into punishing akshara for all that this many years ?.

For me akshara has always been the better person when she knew she did wrong by blaming him she apologized to him asked a chance to rectify it. But after all this he said that she is a better person yes I liked the fact that he apologized to her but has he done anything to rectify that pain he has caused her ? No only we have to see infuture if he truly will stand with her in difficult times or again blame with her. If that happens then I would yes abhimanyu has become a better person. And also akshara with her realisation were she went wrong will apologize to it and rectify it especially by fixing father son bond.

Abhi has actually apologized and rectified his mistakes several times. If you missed first leap then the track was similar to where he found the evidence and took back the case on Kairav as well as apologized to everyone. So not sure what you mean. Its not about who is the better person, to me, they are both pretty avg to below avg people. Its about owning up to mistakes and setting the narrative straight.

At this point Abhi has accepted his mistakes and moreover everyone else has talked about his mistakes to no end. But Ak's mistakes are constantly being whitewashed and that is the problem. It shows us that the character has had zero realization of anything. If she does finally accept her mistake, even that is enough for me. I don't need her to fix the father son bond cause I think they will do that themselves.

Originally posted by: Anu234

But kya kare for abhimanyu akshara is better person. And also abhimanyu when he lost neil instead of grieving he was showing all his anger on her and punished her harshly for that. he truly loved neil yes he did then why was he so much into punishing akshara for all that this many years ?.

For me akshara has always been the better person when she knew she did wrong by blaming him she apologized to him asked a chance to rectify it. But after all this he said that she is a better person yes I liked the fact that he apologized to her but has he done anything to rectify that pain he has caused her ? No only we have to see infuture if he truly will stand with her in difficult times or again blame with her. If that happens then I would yes abhimanyu has become a better person. And also akshara with her realisation were she went wrong will apologize to it and rectify it especially by fixing father son bond.

After finding proof of innocence she fought for him. That’s the ONLY thing she’s done good which any decent human would do. She has to be hailed for it?? She apologised for Abhir rejecting to stay with Birlas but has she apologised for Father exchange? Didn’t see it. I never skip Abhimanyu scenes so she hasn’t.

Mrs Sharma hasn’t ACCEPTED her blunders yet. Realization and actions to rectify/redemption is too too far away. Let’s agree to disagree as our views are completely opposite 🤣

I am feeling disgusted by Akshara. For some reason, her willingness to defend a man who betrayed her trust and whose family made her suffer gave a very disgusting feeling. She could have just given the evidence to his lawyer and let them handle it. She could have stayed away with her son and not get involved in this. But…..aisa nahin karegi toh ITV bahu kaise kehlaayegi!!? Upar se abhi award ceremony bhi aa raha hai. She needs to work hard as a bechaari abla naari to win the prize.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

But what about the trauma and wounds she cause him.

Starting from abandoning him for a year with no clue and never saying sorry for letting her siblings get involved in husband wife quarrel more than needed.

Even, If we give her a pass on what she has been doing from last few months as an aftermath of WD still what about before that day. There has been a lot of incidents where it is clear Akshara has given him trauma and wounded him as well.

If AbhiM hasn't reacted the way he did will it justify that her impulsiveness has cost him the life of his brother, one baby.

What happened before wd ,

It was settled between them that's why the baby happened right ? Before that akshara also supported him against arohi right ? Before that neil stood up against abhim but akshara supported him? Before that akshara was against Neil arohi marriage for the sake of Birla family ? Bec she knew arohis intentions aren't right? Before that they promised eo a lot of things when kairavs name was cleared ? Before khera kaand he also accused her of exposing Neil's paternity but that was also done and dusted..before that he accused of mingling in his family affairs and parents divorce but thats also done and dusted..

Again..wd..no it doesn't justify her impulsiveness but there is no need for justification .... Things happen, shit happens , mistakes happen.... Abhim didn't think ahead that drinking on the cliff will cause abhinavs death..kairav didn't think anisha will actually jump and he will be a convict ...he admitted that he didn't take a stand for her that time , it proves he was wrong that day inspite of what akshara did.

Originally posted by: femmefatale09

I am feeling disgusted by Akshara. For some reason, her willingness to defend a man who betrayed her trust and whose family made her suffer gave a very disgusting feeling. She could have just given the evidence to his lawyer and let them handle it. She could have stayed away with her son and not get involved in this. But…..aisa nahin karegi toh ITV bahu kaise kehlaayegi!!? Upar se abhi award ceremony bhi aa raha hai. She needs to work hard as a bechaari abla naari to win the prize.

Yeah..its a fact ..they twisted this shit to show akshara as a the savior when there was no need...it cud be anyone clicking the videos there n come up with the proof in court.

Dkp is a master at it..anupama aunty after giving hours of lecture on self respect lands up in her exs house just bec she can't live without her mil , ex and kids abusing her verbally.

How exactly can they make a show with 2 principle characters for 2k epis if the fl walks out on abusiveness? 🤪

Originally posted by: Krinya

What happened before wd ,

It was settled between them that's why the baby happened right ? Before that akshara also supported him against arohi right ? Before that neil stood up against abhim but akshara supported him? Before that akshara was against Neil arohi marriage for the sake of Birla family ? Bec she knew arohis intentions aren't right? Before that they promised eo a lot of things when kairavs name was cleared ?

Again..wd..no it doesn't justify her impulsiveness but there is no need for justification .... Things happen, shit happens , mistakes happen.... Abhim didn't think ahead that drinking on the cliff will cause abhinavs death..kairav didn't think anisha will actually jump and he will be a convict ...he admitted that he didn't take a stand for her that time , it proves he was wrong that day inspite of what akshara did.

Coz Abhinav choose the cliff. Yeh ghoom phir k saari responsibility AbhiM ki hai kya? Abhinav adult nahi tha? Abhinav responsible nahi hai dusre k liye chodo apne liye toh hona chahiye tha. Sad he wasn't even that.

Before that Aarohi was blackmailing AbhiM with what? Oh yes Aksharas'report? He was trying to protect her, he asked her to be careful.

And just because he is always giving her a benefit of doubt be it her abandoning him or just him saying sorry for his mistakes doesn't eliminate her end of faults. Not for a part audience atleast.

And as you said it was settled then WD is also settled then why is still the conversations are going on infact the show isn't talking about this as well but seems like forum is still stuck there.

You claimed in your comment that his sorry isn't enough - for you as it's certainly is enough for Akshara in the show similarly as audience some of us are not convinced with the lack of remorse from Akshara be it for her abandoning him and not apologising, her impulsive actions leading to Neil's death and instead of sorry her maine kuch nahi kra, her behaviour ever since then.

It cannot be a one way street where only one person who is actually saying sorry is blamed while to the other it's a clean chit. Yes maybe in show they will as it's a show they have to someway or the other but as audience we will choose what we like or what we don't. It's Simple. And I personally don't like the fact that FL doesn't have the basic courtesy to say sorry for the mistakes that she did, the words she yells.

P.S: Saying sorry doesn't mean that other person wasn't at fault. It means I realise where I was wrong and I am sorry for it. i hope we never have to be in that situation ever again but if we are I will behave better I will not repeat the mistake I made before. -- This is what a sorry means.

Which btw is lacking from Akshara and Kairav.

When Kairav was proved innocent. Everyone said sorry to him but here 🤣🤣

Hence proved, Goenkas have no manners, no basic courtesy. And willingness to accept their mistakes