Ranbir asks Alia to keep her voice low - Page 3

I teach the same to my kids everyday that you need to be kind even when you are angry. Many mindful classes have similar teachings.. what is wrong?

I was literally thinking about what went wrong with this statement? After watching the clip I just thought that I recently started following this because of my job. I work with customers alot where I literally need to tone down my voice and to be polite even if I am angry. There is nothing wrong with this advice. And I think Ranbir follows that too as he seems quite calm person.

watching people’s sheer concern for Alia blown my mind away. Wish they had shown this much concern about their own relationships too.

Originally posted by: piya2025

To RK's misfortune Alia thinks it's cute 😆 & Alo is having her rangeen chashma on so its her misfortune that she actually thinks it's cute + she wants to show off her marriage status, her having a husband who was also her boyfriend (literally the way she puts it) to everywhere even when she doesn't have to talk about it.

At this rate, people after a while might just start sympathizing with RK 'coz she is just .. lol I can't even call her dumb as she is far from being one.

Originally posted by: 1t1svat1t1s

She makes it sound like it’s a mark of his saintly nature. That’s the problem.

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

I am sorry but what exactly is wrong about what she said? People are just taking the piss now.. everything the guy says to her is scrutinised, even the ones that make sense.

I also think it is very important to stay respectful and kind to your partner even during arguments. That is actually one of the things I love about my fiance.. when we argue he is clearly annoyed but it still feels like we are a team and there is no you and me but us. That maturiy is required and what Ranbir said is in fact a very important trait we should all look for in our partners. Your partner should be the person you respect the most and don't want to raise your voice to while resolving any disagreement.

Originally posted by: Clochette

Did she ever say that she does it find cute or is it an assumption?

Because to me it sounds like snitching...or fishing for compliments/sympathy

That would be so, so much worse. :(

Why would you do that to a partner you love?

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

I am sorry but what exactly is wrong about what she said? People are just taking the piss now.. everything the guy says to her is scrutinised, even the ones that make sense.

I also think it is very important to stay respectful and kind to your partner even during arguments. That is actually one of the things I love about my fiance.. when we argue he is clearly annoyed but it still feels like we are a team and there is no you and me but us. That maturiy is required and what Ranbir said is in fact a very important trait we should all look for in our partners. Your partner should be the person you respect the most and don't want to raise your voice to while resolving any disagreement.

+1 , Thank you for bringing a balanced view here 👍🏼

Begani shaadi mein Abdullah deewana - people are hell bent around here to prove that they are in some kind of abusive and one sided relationship 😆

Just like how it’s “proved” here that DP RS are in some kind of open relationship 😆

Originally posted by: Nishita123

people are hell bent around here to prove that they are in some kind of abusive and one sided relationship 😆

Originally posted by: Nishita123

+1 , Thank you for bringing a balanced view here 👍🏼

Begani shaadi mein Abdullah deewana - people are hell bent around here to prove that they are in some kind of abusive and one sided relationship 😆

Just like how it’s “proved” here that DP RS are in some kind of open relationship 😆

It's the way Alia puts it. *Wipe it off.* *He doesn't like my voice above a certain decibel level.*

It makes RK seem controlling.

Some of it may be normal domestic scenes, but her phraseology does not suggest cute while her tone and expressions make it seem like she thinks it's cute 😆. The overall vibe is creepy, and Aloo is too dumb to recognize it.

Like someone said, if she keeps this up, even the haters are going to sympathize with RK eventually. 😆 I'm starting to. Each time the dude sees his wife's name on Twitter, he must be going, Oh, God, what now?

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

She tries to but it always backfires and she never seems to learn from any of it. I genuinely believe she's just trying to make people jealous of their relationship but it never lands as she intends.

True. She doesn’t realize how she was putting herself down through these silly anecdotes.