Katha Ankahee -- #14 daily EDT [DT NOTE PG 121] - Page 98

Originally posted by: G259

Too much Aarav in everything is irrritating me.Hence decided to take a break.

Originally posted by: G259

Too much Aarav in everything is irrritating me.Hence decided to take a break.

Originally posted by: G259

https://youtu.be/QHgAQehg6z0

Itna accha scene chal raha tha,Aarav ko phirse kyun include kar diya yaar! This seems more like parenting drama than a love story.

I am 🤔 thinking, honeymoon also Arav will follow them or what !

🤣🤣That honeymoon will be funny Aarav will call Teju, Mr&Mrs Gharawal ... it will end up a " mass honeymoon trip"

Aarav Beta you must start sleeping early , let them have some fun ... Don't be an little old man always

Originally posted by: G259

I am dropping the show for sometime.Will read WUs and watch scenes which I deem fit.Spoilers post karti rahungi.

Same here, didn't watch last two episode. Right now Aarav might seem annoying but, I am sure rewatching these episodes with couple of future episodes, these episodes will actually feel nice. Its just that we can't wait to see more Kaviaan so, any interruption is frustrating. Even though it might feel natural after few episodes😊

i found the episode mostly wholesome.

Now that I saw the teaser of episode because youtube was recommending it on my face looks like I need to drop the idea of dropping the show. It was sooooooo wholesome uwu. I just can't stop smiling

Also whether you believe it or not, after watching previous episodes, I have realised Aarav is a catalyst not an annoyance in this love story. I am enjoying him. Although, I felt annoyed when I watched him interrupting Kaviaan in trailer but, in teaser, I think Kaviaan got proper screentime I don't how much more Kaviaan people want😂

Katha discussing her fears, they planning their future and Viaan handling Katha's fear with such perfection was just so wholesome.

Also, Katha saying "Jeise hamare writers ne koi unreal sa shortcut le lia hai aur seedha hum destination pr pahuch gaye" cracked me up. I like it when writers talk to audiences like this😊. Also, Viaan's pun "Suffer kitna lamba tha"😂. Truly, I love the sense of humour of the writers. It is perfect, may not work for everyone but, is perfect for the show and this setup.

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After today episode , think next week it will go away in functions and celebrations only .

Now coming to fears of Katha and her instinct , I feel something is gonna happen in one of the functions , not sure whether wedding will be stopped . Being aware of what happened in the OG - Binbir Gece , writers may go towards similar approach and what I feel should happen !

1. Katha might be questioned ( by Maya didi as it is obvious ) about the arrangement of 1 Cr for Aarav treatment .

now i want this to be played out in front of Viaan - so that he will subtly defend Katha as well ONS won’t be revealed . Like giving few details but not revealing the exact thing ,as in say , saying no one gave her the money , asked for bank loan and even her Ex- FIL , mr Garewal declined to help and then she came to him and even him declined/ questioned her why is it needed without concealing the ONS and Then defunding Katha what she would do ( can skip what Katha did ) and just ask Teji , why he did not help Katha or why he did not ask why she nedd the money . Then the comparison happens between two mothers Teji , how she manipulated Viaan in childhood and kept him in dark and that lead to his assumption on the women characters . On the other hand , he says about Katha , being a mother whose son is fighting for his life , did everything to save him . We should not question her and by the way he knows how she got the money ( so no one else questions her ) this way without concealing the black night .

I guess this is a way for Teji to introspect ( though at this moment won’t happen unless ONS is revealed to her eventually - that is the only way for redemption for Teji ) . But another aspect of me ( keeping OG in mind ) this is the situation or say trigger point where Ehsan mind strikes and he decided to find out how Katha got to the 1 Cr . He will get to that eventually and ONS reveal will definitely happen at some point of the story .

Hence I think then marriage will go through and further subplots can be explored as per the tracks in OG .

I'm 99.9% sure the wedding will go ahead, and the ONS thing will come out afterwards, possibly leading to their separation for a while.

I think the wedding will finish around September so the next few weeks will go in that. Obviously, Maya will bring some drama into this whole equation (Keeping my fingers crossed for the right kind of drama), but I'm not sure what. And if she doesn't try stopping the wedding, Teji most definitely will, and if Reet turns up, that'll be more drama.

There are a bunch of subplots to be explored after the marriage as well. For instance, in the OG show, FL eventually opened her own Architectural firm. Even if they do continue to work together professionally, there is still a lot of room for story progression. For instance, keeping personal and professional life separate, they won't agree on everything on either side of their lives. There are other dynamics as well. The story is still likely to be interesting afterwards as well.

Like everything is going too well right now, they are bound to have problems testing their trust and faith in each other and together as a couple. As Katha said, she's been alone and independent for so long. Even when you love someone and want to be with them, you don't just slip into the role of sharing easily. These are habits, and habits change over time with effort.

Additionally, there is bound to be the Vanya and Ehsan track. If Ehsan goes ahead and decides he wants to be with her, there is no way in hell Farah will be on board with it. She may pretend to be, but she won't be. And because Katha and Viaan will support them, the woman will try to take revenge by breaking up Viaan and Ehsan. For some reason, I feel that is inevitable because Farah is one shrewd woman. She's the real antagonist material here, changing colours like Chameleon, and whispering in everyone's ears like the devil. That may be how the ONS will be revealed.

I hope we do get to see more of Katha's POV and her thought process because, so far we've mostly just seen Viaan's. Katha's POV is lacking right now.

Originally posted by: misfit007

Okay mini story time, related to the current storyline. It's a bit personal but it's shaped my perspective so for context, I'm sharing it.

As someone who grew up with a single parent (dad in my case), I grew to be mature at a very early age. I was actually around Aarav's age too.

I became extra responsible after seeing my dad struggle to take care of me. He would break down because he didn't know what to do. So I consoled him and tried to care for him and myself while managing everything around the house to help him. Everyone used to call me Dadi Ama because I was always dropping pearls of wisdom everywhere and bossing around everyone, including my dad, especially in cleaning up. 😅

Anyhow, eventually, my dad remarried. it took time for us to adjust to new roles. I was used to being the grown-up, and my dad was used to being both mom and dad. We all had to create space for Amma in our lives. It was challenging for all of us, and it took time, but we adjusted.

At first, we spent a lot of time together so we could bond as a family, and I also spent one-on-one time with both of them. It was necessary to do it this way because we were a unit, it wasn't just about the two of them, and it wasn't just about me and her or him and her. It was about all of us. My dad had to learn how to share. I had to learn how to share. I mean, share everything - each other, responsibilities, problems, emotions, etc. Amma had her share of learning to do as well in all of this.

The crux is that blended families need more than typical families do. They aren't just formed; they are woven together carefully and painstakingly. Rights, trust and love aren't just handed on a platter, and they don't come naturally; they are earned and given in good faith on all sides.

It wasn't easy for us or all roses, we all had thorns, and we all stepped on each other's toes. It was like different gears shifting to fall into place.

My Amma and I still joke that I'm her friend, daughter, sister-in-law and mother-in-law all rolled into one. (I mean, this is a good context because I'm the one she turns to when my dad's getting on her nerves, and she can't figure him out. Yes, it's not normal, but there is no playbook for this kind of relationship. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, you experiment until something does.)

Now the point of this little session is that even though many people may find Aarav weird, I get him because I've been there. Just because he feels "abnormally mature" doesn't mean that it's unreal. It's just different.

I literally handed out mithai to my classmates when my dad married, greeted the guests, and helped organise his wedding. It was all because I knew my dad needed someone, I couldn't be his companion, and he would be happy if I were happy. Kids can sense when their parents aren't happy and when they aren't enough for them.

Now I don't know whether the CVs have put as much thought into the story as I've put into analysing, but to me, it all makes sense thanks to my experiences. I think it's a great way to show that just because something is unconventional, it isn't any less right. Alag logon ki alag kahaniyan hoti hai aur alag cheezon mein khusiyan hoti hain. Especially people who come from damaged or broken families.

Personally, I think they're taking the characters forward in the healthiest way and setting great examples of what healthy relationships look like, which is much needed due to negative and toxic examples in real life and media.

Katha and Viaan will get time (well they should if the writers write it right), but I don't mind them including Aarav now because it's not just them getting together as a man and wife; they are also coming together as parents and a family. What they are creating together isn't a typical family. They are choosing each other as a family, and I think that is beautiful to watch. Things like this aren't highlighted enough in TV shows very often, not with this detail and sensitivity, so it's refreshing to see it done right.

That's all for tonight. Ab meri katha idhar khatham, thank you for tuning in, and i hope you enjoyed lol 🙏🏼

Cheers, and I hope ya'll have a good weekend and week ahead. 🫶🏼

But seriously, I hope you guys take away something positive from this little too-personal-info share sess. this Buddi ruh can't not share her pearls wisdom, adat se majboor hoon as burde log are 🙈

Firstly, thank you for sharing your story. Warm hugs and kudos to you for being so big hearted. I’ve seen my niece lose her mum when she was five, but made space and welcome her new mum when my brother remarried. She’s much calmer, composed and careful than most of the kids her age. While it’s heart warming to see her storm such tragedy with so much strength, the carefreeness and childhood tantrums are no longer there. We cannot analyze every kid out there with our respective childhoods as a scale. Not every child can afford to be a child, unfortunately. More strength and love to you!