Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona
White Day will be brought in because it is relevant to the story.
Abhimanyu basically agreed with Aarohi at that moment. Aarohi who has always held Akshara responsible for Seerat's death, is her mother. It is for everyone to see the lasting impression that had on Akshara. This along with blaming her for the baby's death and not to mention the obvious physical and mental agony she was in after the miscarriage. That is a punishment in itself especially coming from your husband. WOrse than anything else
Using fancy words will in no way lessen that Abhimanyu and his mother were downright cruel to Akshara that day. In no manner was WD any better than BD
The difference here is Akshara is at least trying to make amends, while Abhimanyu and his mother are yet to make an apology.
They are not the same, not even in the same ball park. I agree Abhi said some cruel things. But I think that is cancelled out by 8 months of cruelty and torture by Ak.
If BD is the same as WD, that means that the cycle is repeating. That means, now its Abhi's turn to hold a grudge for 6+ years for being called a murderer and kal ratri whatever. But Abhi is not shown to have even a little grudge for any of that. Infact, he is trusting her with his life. So....that means whatever Ak did as a response to WD was wrong and way worse than anything Abhi has done. Just to tally all of this :
Ak's trauma :
1. Divorced after miscarriage
2. Being called responsible for multiple deaths (due to stupidity)
3. Being reminded of trauma and pain she has carried with her whole life
4. Being kept from saying goodbye to loved one
5. Not picking up calls
6. Being told Abhi no longer wants you in his life
Abhi's trauma :
1. Being erased from son's life
2. Being kept from son even after he found out
3. Being denied father's rights or position and kept son in the dark
4. Being told he is the worst person on this earth - bad husband, bad father, bad everything, umar kaid, grahan etc.
5. Tortured for eight months by vile words spoken by Ak to break him down.
6. Repeated breakdowns leading to him wanting to die
7. Being told by his son that he does not recognize him as his father and doesn't want to stay with him
8. Being told his pain doesn't matter and he should be happy to just spend any time with his son, who does not want to be his son only friend.
9. Being blamed for the death of his friend who he was going to give back the custody of his son to.
10. Being kept from consoling his son or being there for him during a tragedy
11. Kept from performing surgery or caring for his friend.
And Abhi is coming out the other side as still the better person, still willing to forgive and forget, still wanting to care for Ak and Abhir.
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