What is the reason behind AK hate and Abhi love? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Deltablues

So medal milna chahiye for obsessing over your ex after you prompt a divorce to end your relationship? Itna pyaar tha toh na deta divorce who was stopping him.

Yeah you are right, he should have let her stay to get more earfuls from Arohi and more insults from Manjari.

In incapacity to think about loosing his twins and about to perform the final rights of his beloved brother stopped him from thinking clearly,

Originally posted by: Deltablues

So medal milna chahiye for obsessing over your ex after you prompt a divorce to end your relationship? Itna pyaar tha toh na deta divorce who was stopping him.

Abhimanyu deserves a medal for sure 😂

FL moving on is not at all a new or pathbreaking concept in ITV - its happened a million times and people have loved those stories and the FL. Even in Harshad Chopda’s own earlier show - the Saubhagyavati one - FL moves on - ex is wealthier and the new husband is simpler and poorer compared to him! So no its not about moving on or second marriages that people are taking an issue with. Its the way it has happened, the narratives and circumstances around it - accompanied by lying, manipulations, hiding, forging documents.

Besides people enjoyed yrkkh for family values and relationships but especially since the leap and every adjustment made to the story to accommodate the new character - they have portrayed families to be the root cause of most problems- this hasn’t gone down well with a lot of viewers!

Its not that people would mind Abhinav as the husband or a lead - but nobody wants to support the idea that a woman hides important details from her family, doesn’t inform them about living with a stranger or being pregnant and the family never bothering about her - all this and more- this much criticism for the FL without even bringing in any defense for Birlas or Abhimanyu. The criticism for Akshara exists because of how Akshara is - its not because of love for Abhimanyu or the actor playing him! You may not agree with it but that’s the truth for most!

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

We already got its glimpses many times in the show 🤣

Arre!!!!! That's only the trailor....chotu choti jhalkiyan

Mrs sharma will be worst than Dr Birla

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

I feel Akshara is a butter person....

Butter is a water in oil emulsion resulting from an inversion of the cream, where the milk proteins are the emulsifiers. Butter remains a firm solid when refrigerated but softens to a spreadable consistency at room temperature and melts to a thin liquid consistency at 32 to 35 °C (90 to 95 °F).

Properties of Butter 👆

Properties of Akshara 👇

Akshara is an unpredictable material -in- yrkkh emulsion resulting from an inversion (flipshu) of her own character, where the goenkas are the emulsifiers. Akshara remains a firm solid when refrigerated (thats when she is in kasauli) but softens to a spreadable consistency at room temperature and melts to a thin liquid consistency at 32 to 35 °C (90 to 95 °F).(When in udaipur)

Amru 😆

You're back with your posts🤣

This one is too good 😂

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

FL moving on is not at all a new or pathbreaking concept in ITV - its happened a million times and people have loved those stories and the FL. Even in Harshad Chopda’s own earlier show - the Saubhagyavati one - FL moves on - ex is wealthier and the new husband is simpler and poorer compared to him! So no its not about moving on or second marriages that people are taking an issue with. Its the way it has happened, the narratives and circumstances around it - accompanied by lying, manipulations, hiding, forging documents.

Besides people enjoyed yrkkh for family values and relationships but especially since the leap and every adjustment made to the story to accommodate the new character - they have portrayed families to be the root cause of most problems- this hasn’t gone down well with a lot of viewers!

Its not that people would mind Abhinav as the husband or a lead - but nobody wants to support the idea that a woman hides important details from her family, doesn’t inform them about living with a stranger or being pregnant and the family never bothering about her - all this and more- this much criticism for the FL without even bringing in any defense for Birlas or Abhimanyu. The criticism for Akshara exists because of how Akshara is - its not because of love for Abhimanyu or the actor playing him! You may not agree with it but that’s the truth for most!

Naira did a similar thing in terms of leaving her husband and not telling him about their son, but the writers played out the arc and reconciliation way better, so people could tolerate and accept them getting back together.

This post is not directed to anyone. I genuinely wanted to know why people love him. What others are looking at that I cannot see when I am watching the show. Thats all.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

FL moving on will be highly accepted if done with dignity and self respect. For AK it was marriage of convenience to hide r childs true ID. The way Ak defined her love for Abhinav was sleeping on a separate bed, not putting sindoor and mangalsutra until Abhi showed up. I am not sure who she was convincing, Abhinav? Abhi? or herself?

Her current husband had high standards because he had not other responsibility, he did not have balance his professional responsibilities and family responsibilities of an extended family.

Birla house is toxic place to raise abhir but not Ruhi? It was the same place where a gem like Neil was raised.

Abhi will not be pale in comarison because there is no comparison.

Thank you but no thank you, no one wants AK to be anywhere near Abhi, she is a selfish, inconsiderate and deceiving person

Abhinav has not done any favors to anyone, he was a lonely guy who got a ready made family. Unfortunately he met AK who only used him for her own selfish reasons.

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I appreciate you putting your thoughts out here. :)

Arohi the ever practical one should move out of that house in the long run because of Ruhi's future, she shouldn't stay there (not just because of her grandmother but all the other crazy things going on there with Parth, etc. too). Abhim and Manjri failed Arohi in their promises of marriage and all the mess that surrounded. She was delusional at first but I loved it when they showed her finally understanding that there was no future and that she could retain her dignity by choosing to focus on Ruhi, rather than expecting anything from Abhim. She's actually shown some character growth, even though it doesn't excuse all the bad things she did in the past.

Abhinav being an orphan is not his fault. He had no blueprint of how to be a husband or father but was basically a good person so he did his best. He had been so used to a lonely life that Akshara and Abhir just completed him the way he had always wanted a family to. I am glad they showed some of his flaws but he was basically meant to be a good character with a strong moral compass who was there to set the foundation for Abhir (plus Akshara's grown and change of attitude in life). Consider it a transit stop.

As for high standards, I mentioned it from Akshara's perspective because this is how she explained it as well to Abhim. So for her to move on from Abhinav's love is going to be very very hard because he's always been good to her. It may not have been the kind of 'shiddat waala' pyaar she got from Abhim in the past but it's the sukoon waala pyaar that helped her stabilize and become stronger. Marriage of convenience is never a bad thing, she's not obligated to be in love with her husband and she and Abhinav were very clear about their dynamics, hence the term convenience. In the end she did fall for Abhinav but there was always a chance that it may never have happened. I see nothing wrong in that arrangement per se because she was at least at peace there. Also, the way Akshara saw Abhinav look after a newly born Abhir made her see the father in him for her son. In that moment it was not about hiding his identity because they had already tried to talk to Abhim and he didn't listen to them.

Neil was a good soul but when the truth of his father came out, he felt messed up too and it affected his mental health, which is not a surprise. Manjri did the same thing as Akshara by hiding his father's identity from him and Harsh for years and years. At least Akshara tried a couple of times to tell Abhir.

I don't agree with her not telling her own family about Abhir, though. They did deserve to know and they would have protected her and her kid. I see her more as being self-centered than selfish but that's a pendulum reaction from someone who tried to be too helpful and accommodating and got trampled over in the past. She's made mistakes but her intentions have never been evil or mean. The Akshara 2.0 does stand up for herself way better and is clear about what she does and doesn't want but she hasn't lost her soft touch, which we've been seeing recently. I do think they could have tried to let the Birlas know about Abhir a few months later even if Abhim didn't want to hear about the kid when Akshara was still pregnant. One thing, though. Her fear of Abhir not getting the right values if he grows up at the Birlas was justified because she had such a bad experience there. It's a different matter that as a biological father Abhim has some legal rights on him and that's something she wanted to avoid - it's the impractical side of her and she knows she can't look the other way when it comes to this point. I actually liked that they showed some of this tug of war between the parents because it happens a lot in real life after divorce, but here they called a truce because of Abhir. No idea for how long.

I don't know if they are prepping for a generation leap but I do hope they don't have another runaway child and grandchild arc for them.