Episode Air Date August 5,2023 & other discussion - Page 20

Honestly, I gave up on her character after the first leap. The nonsense from that track was insane. I realized no matter what she did it would be justified and I was right lol. She went from fake passport to fake fathers. She will never be held accountable for any of her cruelty. She is a lost cause.

Makers might have forgotten because it doesn't fit the "he killed Abhinav out of jealousy" narrative that's coming, but he was the only one that wanted to co-parent. He never wanted to replace or separate him from his family. He never wanted to force a child to choose anyone. That was Akshara and Abhinav, not him.

Everything is a direct result from her and her family's decisions for the past seven months, but as usual he is the villain because he isn't doing what she wants.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Bang on points 👏.....she is definitely coming across as extremely opportunistic and demanding that everyone dance to her whims and fancies. But I doubt makers care at this point.....lol she has definitely been written to be the anti-thesis of any halfway decent FL on ITV.....has no real POV beyond making petulant demands or gaslighting people if they don't give her what she wants.

Her "seeing" his pain only by constantly drawing false equivalencies with her pain or claiming that he needs to be happy so that she and her kid don't feel guilty😆.....like what BS is this😆. It is all laughable on too many levels to count.

Abhi really can't catch a break with people who gaslight him no matter what he does....lol when she moved heaven and earth to be with his son, they accused him of being selfish/taking kid away from the mother....now he's trying to back off toh they are accusing him of wanting things on his terms and not being happy with getting pity from his son😕😆

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Honestly, I gave up on her character after the first leap. The nonsense from that track was insane. I realized no matter what she did it would be justified and I was right lol. She went from fake passport to fake fathers. She will never be held accountable for any of her cruelty. She is a lost cause.

Makers might have forgotten because it doesn't fit the "he killed Abhinav out of jealousy" narrative that's coming, but he was the only one that wanted to co-parent. He never wanted to replace or separate him from his family. He never wanted to force a child to choose anyone. That was Akshara and Abhinav, not him.

Everything is a direct result from her and her family's decisions for the past seven months, but as usual he is the villain because he isn't doing what she wants.

Abhimanyu is the reason he has lived for so many more months and got to experience love before dying - else he would have died being in a fake relationship without any romance in life!

Originally posted by: yellomellow

I also forgot to mention her sudden affection for Manjiri is amusing. She was disrespecting her for weeks, but now all of sudden she can't bear to see her suffering from the pain she caused her lol. Her compassion for others is directly proportional to getting her way.

BINGO 😆

Originally posted by: yellomellow

I finally watched the episode. Makers always make her play nice with Abhi before the next drama starts. The trend continues.

I'm not sure if it's intentional or not, but her behavior comes off extremely opportunistic and manipulative as a viewer. Whether it's with Abhi, Manjiri, or even Abhinav. She wants to have her cake, throw others cake away, and then wants others to watch her eat her cake (and be happy for her). Everyone has to be happy (or pretend to be) with the world she set it up for them or else they lose everything. She is an expert gaslighter. It's the complete opposite of how ITV female leads are portrayed lol.

Also, the channel and production should've waited to reveal Abhinav's death. The week Abhinav dies and she has gotten everything she wanted is when she suddenly realizes that Abhi deserves a relationship with his son? After torturing him for seven months now she "sees" his pain (*see as in minimize his pain by making comparisons to her)? None of this is a good look.

ITV separations are pretty standard separate the leads with a misunderstanding, sprinkle in angst between the leads, a very cute mom-child bond, clear the misunderstanding, male bonds with his kid, and then restart the relationship (until the next disaster lol).

Honestly, it doesn't seem like the makers are interested in the show at all. I'm curious to see if there is anything after this. I doubt it though.

RED: thats exactly what she is .not only that .

they say abhi cant face a rejection , oh boy how wrong are they.. todays ep is just a clear depiction of how hypocritic and self absorbed she is in her own idealistic world as she always. was. she never can face any rejection or bear the fact that people around her are unhappy. she is among those people pleasers who gets elated by the idea people are happy around them , even if they have to force their happiness for her , or even if that happiness is shortlived..

she is so delusional that she can even use her own kid for her purpose of creating that idealistic happy world.

blue:

she lives in her own idealist world where she wants everyone to be happy on her terms it was so hypocritical of her to say to abhi that he want to be loved on his terms. when the same ak herself wants abhi to be happy that his son will never accept him as father. was it not her own terms .atleast abhi doesnt force anyone to be happy or when they are not or disregard their pain as cliche.

she is after abhi and manjari because she kow exactly abhi and manjari will be sad and seeing abhi sad abhir too would not be that pleased even though he will be in kasauli because he will be meeting abhi again and everytime abhir meets this sad abhi abhir will also feel his pain and will gradually doubt his descision of not accepting him as a father.

and that will hinder her happiness in her idealistic kasauli family.

also this combined picnic.

ak knows seeing manj and abhi unhappy , ruhi too will be unhappy and which will affect arohis happiness . which will again lead to goenkas being salty why their aru doll is unhappy leading to again goenkas suggesting that sharmas are partly responsible .and again tarnish her happiness everytime they contact goenkas from kasauli because gk will tell arus ddp.

people like ak are expert gaslighters and people pleasers , they would do anything to create their idealistic happy world . even if its the cost of sacrificing their own child . or nurturing your remaining child to never accept anyone other than his kasauli fam by isolating him from rest of his relatives.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I just happened to watch the scene where abhi sees the card.

Funny that, in the letter nowhere abhir calls him dada, it's docman!!!

But in the picture, it's dada!!!

Bachha khud confused hai.. 😂🤣😂

Woh baccha aise hi confused rahega to keep the sailing in two boats mode on indefinitely 😆

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

@bold - And they also want us to forget that during first Kasauli track it was Abhimanyu who saved him - when he still held anger against Akshara! If he wanted to - he could have killed then itself. No one would have known.

Abhimanyu is the reason he has lived for so many more months and got to experience love before dying - else he would have died being in a fake relationship without any romance in life!

So true🤣🤣.....If Abhimanyu hadn't saved him in Kasauli that day, toh aaj zinda nahin rehta to do any of this "pyar nibhaana" that Ak likes to boast of😆

with this exit I am happy about two things.

Firstly, as Abhinav had saved Abhir’s life - I am glad his life had a happy ending. And also Abhir got to spend time with him before he goes.

I am also happy that since he is gone, Akshara will not be happy and may hopefully start seeing the pain that she left others(not just the husband who wronged her) with when she was busy creating her fake new world and hiding from everyone! We probably won’t get her realization but at least we will see her in the same pain that everyone else experienced.. When Seerat and Neil died - she never saw how a broken family deals with loss - she was alone in grief yes but she never got to see how much effort it takes to pick up the pieces of broken home - rebuild and move ahead!

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Honestly, I gave up on her character after the first leap. The nonsense from that track was insane. I realized no matter what she did it would be justified and I was right lol. She went from fake passport to fake fathers. She will never be held accountable for any of her cruelty. She is a lost cause.

Makers might have forgotten because it doesn't fit the "he killed Abhinav out of jealousy" narrative that's coming, but he was the only one that wanted to co-parent. He never wanted to replace or separate him from his family. He never wanted to force a child to choose anyone. That was Akshara and Abhinav, not him.

Everything is a direct result from her and her family's decisions for the past seven months, but as usual he is the villain because he isn't doing what she wants.

Oh absolutely.....they have easily wiped clean the entire chapter of Abhimanyu trying so hard to find the coparenting balance, make a space for himself without replacing anyone even while Ak was actively blocking him, berating him as a human being, not acknowledging him as a father even.

Gotta love that the same Ak who just a week back was screaming that her biggest fear is that Abhir shouldn't become like Abhimanyu.....is now telling Abhimanyu that he needs to hang around Abhir and one day Abhir will love him like a father😆.....what happened to all the "My son can't be anything like you" now? lol suddenly all the phobias are gone and she is forcing Abhimanyu to hang around Abhir without worrying if that will make him like Abhimanyu? 😆

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

with this exit I am happy about two things.

Firstly, as Abhinav had saved Abhir’s life - I am glad his life had a happy ending. And also Abhir got to spend time with him before he goes.

I am also happy that since he is gone, Akshara will not be happy and may hopefully start seeing the pain that she left others(not just the husband who wronged her) with when she was busy creating her fake new world and hiding from everyone! We probably won’t get her realization but at least we will see her in the same pain that everyone else experienced.. When Seerat and Neil died - she never saw how a broken family deals with loss - she was alone in grief yes but she never got to see how much effort it takes to pick up the pieces of broken home - rebuild and move ahead!

Yeah this is the only part I'm curious about.....I want to see her in total devastation left holding the broken pieces of the fantasy family that she built by snatching rights from others, by building a world of lies all around.

I know they won't give any redemption and will only whitewash and victimize her.....but I do want to see that blow dealt definitively that she loses everything she has crowed over, enjoyed rubbing salt in Abhimanyu's wounds over for so long. Ofcourse Abhimanyu himself will be in pain too but that we are used to now.....I want to see her cry over losing everything....let her feel that absence acutely of her so called ideal world. And let Goenkas do more song and dances to cheer up their princess who can never do wrong in their eyes😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah this is the only part I'm curious about.....I want to see her in total devastation left holding the broken pieces of the fantasy family that she built by snatching rights from others, by building a world of lies all around.

I know they won't give any redemption and will only whitewash and victimize her.....but I do want to see that blow dealt definitively that she loses everything she has crowed over, enjoyed rubbing salt in Abhimanyu's wounds over for so long. Ofcourse Abhimanyu himself will be in pain too but that we are used to now.....I want to see her cry over losing everything....let her feel that absence acutely of her so called ideal world. And let Goenkas do more song and dances to cheer up their princess who can never do wrong in their eyes😆

And I hope then someone tells her - she should not be sad because other people are feeling sad seeing her this way - she should be happy so that they can stay happy!