Manveer and Angad -how will they react to Inder’s EMA - Page 6

Originally posted by: apuni88

I agree with what you’re saying but those were all the old Angad, at one point we have to give someone a chance to redeem himself. He was the victim in all the fraud, yes it doesn’t give him right to verbally abuse, deny food etc. but that character has come a long way from there to now, what’s the point of being it up again and again and calling him an abuser? And that remote throwing scene was just a one off which needs to be excused bcos we all know the writers have dementia 🙄 they forgot that they were giving Angad progression! 🤦🏻‍♀️

And we really need to see his character graph! His childhood trauma, his own parents fraud against him and his brothers hatredness and his Daarji’s expectations to be perfect all the time weighs so heavily on him.

To be honest sahiba is also the same. She has a lot of expectations from her family weighing on her since childhood. She may have had a decent childhood but she never got her mothers love like she deserved. She became the main breadwinner of the family too early. She was the victim in all this too.

Maybe we need to stop seeing her as a doormat and understand that she empathizes with Angad and truly cares for him, and we have also started to see that from Angad’s side. He’s realizing how much Seerat hates Sahiba, how Sahiba started to earn so early to help family and how her studies took a backseat.

Doesn’t matter rich or poor, they are both victims of an abnormal childhood and they are starting to find solace and comfort in each other. I think it’s time we stop calling her a doormat and stop calling him an abuser.

Sorry for the long rant, I just needed to say this for a long time.

Originally posted by: apuni88

I agree with what you’re saying but those were all the old Angad, at one point we have to give someone a chance to redeem himself. He was the victim in all the fraud, yes it doesn’t give him right to verbally abuse, deny food etc. but that character has come a long way from there to now, what’s the point of being it up again and again and calling him an abuser? And that remote throwing scene was just a one off which needs to be excused bcos we all know the writers have dementia 🙄 they forgot that they were giving Angad progression! 🤦🏻‍♀️

And we really need to see his character graph! His childhood trauma, his own parents fraud against him and his brothers hatredness and his Daarji’s expectations to be perfect all the time weighs so heavily on him.

To be honest sahiba is also the same. She has a lot of expectations from her family weighing on her since childhood. She may have had a decent childhood but she never got her mothers love like she deserved. She became the main breadwinner of the family too early. She was the victim in all this too.

Maybe we need to stop seeing her as a doormat and understand that she empathizes with Angad and truly cares for him, and we have also started to see that from Angad’s side. He’s realizing how much Seerat hates Sahiba, how Sahiba started to earn so early to help family and how her studies took a backseat.

Doesn’t matter rich or poor, they are both victims of an abnormal childhood and they are starting to find solace and comfort in each other. I think it’s time we stop calling her a doormat and stop calling him an abuser.

Sorry for the long rant, I just needed to say this for a long time.

The fraud again does not give him a valid excuse, he had the choice to hand her over to police, to back out instead of actually marry her and then do all that he did. No one kept a gun to his head. If Inder does not get excused for cheating when he was forced by Daarji and blackmailed by Manveer to stay in marriage, why should Angad get excused when he chose to marry under Daarjis pressure and mistreat her later.

Unlike og where she actually revealed identity after rituals and his Dadu did not allow divorce due to their rules which were consistent, he would not allow divorce no matter what bahu did unlike here where last track Daarji himself wanted divorce.

The writing does not support anything, we can only assume. The characters and their purposes are changed based on which show they are copying. If it fetches ratings well and good for them.

I know itv allows male leads to be abusive to a large extent and then one major misunderstanding clears and they turn over a new leaf. But here every track is him misunderstanding, it clears, he does grand gestures and again same. So it does not allow viewers to forget what he has been doing, keeps it fresh in memory. Let us see how this plays out.

Because we can assume why they are together but the writing does not support it. I hope the graph progresses like the og couple this track onwards with the triangle because that will never go and I can take jeth bhabi weird scenes over man throwing things at wife in anger and wife begging she is innocent.

Even by itv standards I am not used to this level of inconsistency and any female character doing what Angad did would be rightly categorized as vamp. It is not specific to Angad though, like I said most male leads on itv are abusive to different degrees. Like Jennifer Winget's character in Beyadh did not get childhood trauma excuse , she was shown as antagonist who died in finale unlike say ASR from Ipkknd who was portrayed as the hero who simply misunderstood the heroine.

I will stop pointing out if the writer gives us 30 consistent episodes of progression in straight line because we know itv and its male leads , it should not be tough to linearly progress their journey. Writer is moving in circles even now.

What inconsistencies though? Except for the remote throwing scene I think they have shown progression, softening etc from Angad. The Kiara pregnancy track also we didn’t see Angad being abusive. He was angry and mostly jealous bcos he had started to have feelings for her. And come on if we’re not looking at it like ITV then we have dementia. We have forgotten what crap stories we have seen on ITV before. Only a select few stories (maybe can count on our one hand) that have had amazing characters, wonderful progressive storyline and flawless ML and FL.

What I see in this is both Sahiba and Angad have had a very flawed childhood, they’ve carried these burdens with them. Carried their need for love and care and never getting to be a kid. The wedding scene Sahiba is equally to blame. Just as Angad accepted to marry for the sake of family reputation for the sake of Daarji’s expectations of him, Sahiba also married to save her family being humiliated.

Again this whole abuse or spy bahu etc was not really needed but it’s itv what can we say, it’s all part of the package for the race for trp.

Angad had thrown the remote aiming the TV and Tv pe hi laga tha na ki Sahiba pe…🧐. ….He was angry after he watched a video of his wife’s police complaint about his Daarji…..

Aur itna abusive TV show with,

Abusive Husband-Doormat Wife dekh ke apni mental health khaarab kyun karni aur Woh bhi subah subah when the episode is uploaded 😯….. but Khair …..😆

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Can’t stop laughing!!!

Yeah I know he didn’t aim for Sahiba it was the tv. But I’m specifically pointing it out bcos people will say that his character again was abusive and also bring up him being angry and not trusting at Kiara pregnancy track.

Originally posted by: Reader17

Angad had thrown the remote aiming the TV and Tv pe hi laga tha na ki Sahiba pe…🧐. ….He was angry after he watched a video of his wife’s police complaint about his Daarji…..

Aur itna abusive TV show with,

Abusive Husband-Doormat Wife dekh ke apni mental health khaarab kyun karni aur Woh bhi subah subah when the episode is uploaded 😯….. but Khair …..😆

Originally posted by: apuni88

What inconsistencies though? Except for the remote throwing scene I think they have shown progression, softening etc from Angad. The Kiara pregnancy track also we didn’t see Angad being abusive. He was angry and mostly jealous bcos he had started to have feelings for her. And come on if we’re not looking at it like ITV then we have dementia. We have forgotten what crap stories we have seen on ITV before. Only a select few stories (maybe can count on our one hand) that have had amazing characters, wonderful progressive storyline and flawless ML and FL.

What I see in this is both Sahiba and Angad have had a very flawed childhood, they’ve carried these burdens with them. Carried their need for love and care and never getting to be a kid. The wedding scene Sahiba is equally to blame. Just as Angad accepted to marry for the sake of family reputation for the sake of Daarji’s expectations of him, Sahiba also married to save her family being humiliated.

Again this whole abuse or spy bahu etc was not really needed but it’s itv what can we say, it’s all part of the package for the race for trp.

I think my major trigger during the whole jail track was when Angad saw Sahiba hit a mirror and instead of being concerned for her , he immediately accused her of trying to frame him. Also when he threw remote, Sahiba ducked, even Seerat who hates her flinched but he did not. That is the biggest u turn a character took for me, one who said really big words a day back. Showed how unreliable his concern is, disappears in a moment.

Sahiba married for family but did she accuse that he trapped her in marriage, try to rape him, call him servant , starve and then force feed etc?

Yes, spy bahu is not needed, they need to give break between tracks and not focus only on Sahiba. 6 leads, so many side characters yet everything revolves around whether Sahiba Angad's marriage will last or not.

Another major inconsistency is how he treats Seerat's mistakes versus Sahiba but that is ok with me because I knew ever since ring swap they are following Ghum and I would take bhabi jeth cringe over abusing wife due to misunderstanding.

I was not ok with his behaviour during pregnancy track either because throwing things in anger is never ok, red flag but then she was at fault for lying. Him demanding divorce would have been appropriate reaction, not shoving a whole table. But you would think after that whole track and his unnecessary apology at end of it he would never doubt her again but he did a lot worse after that.

Will wait to see what he does this track but if he immediately believes when his mom accuses Sahiba, again story is revolving in circles.

Also like we discussed in previous thread, Seerat got called out as a harasser but Angad gets a pass and plays the protagonist because. We consume content, I am luckily fully aware of what I am watching and cannot bring myself to defend a character's actions, if it is abuse, I will call it what it is. Watched Anupama , never defended Vanraj even with lot of whitewashing attempts.

Originally posted by: apuni88

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Can’t stop laughing!!!

Yeah I know he didn’t aim for Sahiba it was the tv. But I’m specifically pointing it out bcos people will say that his character again was abusive and also bring up him being angry and not trusting at Kiara pregnancy track.

And I agree, I’m also calling how I see it too. It’s a perspective maybe. And I also agree even I’m waiting to see how they will show Angad in this track. If he doubts what his mom says, that ok we need to give him time to process and weigh things before he defies his mother. But that doesn’t mean he will completely distrust Sahiba, start blaming her, accusing her. That even I will not be able to take.

If that happens j think makers will be losing a lot of viewers. Hope they plan and execute it wisely if trp is what they are really after.

Originally posted by: apuni88

And I agree, I’m also calling how I see it too. It’s a perspective maybe. And I also agree even I’m waiting to see how they will show Angad in this track. If he doubts what his mom says, that ok we need to give him time to process and weigh things before he defies his mother. But that doesn’t mean he will completely distrust Sahiba, start blaming her, accusing her. That even I will not be able to take.

If that happens j think makers will be losing a lot of viewers. Hope they plan and execute it wisely if trp is what they are really after.

Don't think they will lose viewers because drama matters but it can't be that hard to create a linear graph. Now it flips between extremes, he cares a lot to make her feel special and then distrusts her blindly to the point he does not care even if she hurts herself. Gradual progress, not this where you go from 0 to 100 then back to 0 every track.