Originally posted by: OnTheBlock
Do check the meaning of 'hypocrite' lol. Nothing you said here proves otherwise. Mahima is a bad parent but she's not a hypocrite. She doesnt pretend to be anything she isnt. What you see is what you get. Unlike Manjiri.. who excels at playing the victim while being the aggressor.
Also tired of hearing justifications on here about why Birla Men are abusive POS. Once again : Nothing will ever justify any sort of abuse. Not frustration over career, not frustration over someone's death. Nothing. Being abusive is a trait that already exists in abusive ppl.. it just remains dormant. A good and decent man will NEVER ABUSE THEIR WIFE,no matter what the situation. There's no mirror to show here.
First, no, people aren't born one way or the other. No one is born an abuser; that's just not how this works. Most people become abusive towards their partners due to issues they themselves may have. None of this is supporting abuse. It's understanding it and understanding what the path forward from it is.
Oh! and it's not a "trait"; at least biologically speaking, that is absurd. People can have tendencies towards anger and stuff, but abuse is a completely different thing.
And yes, Mahima is a hypocrite in saying that she is doing all of this caring for Parth out of a mother's love, just like Manjari is. But this mother's love was nonexistent before when Parth wanted to pursue a different career or when Anisha needed her mom's love. So yes, she is being a hypocrite jumping on the mother's love bandwagon.