YRKKH Frustration Thread #1 [DT NOTE PG 30,44, 126] - Page 18

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

did i use word abuser?

She is dancing in party with her kid in his arms not him…😂😂😂

If people really see this as show then they don’t discuss about ak as bad mother or abhinav as gareeb and all…mental health and panic acts r also shown in show we can discuss about that too because it is a public and show ka forum….if u have seen the real world then u will definitely wont doo all abhinav and ak topic posts and comments and troll or mock post about anyone …..😁

Discuss the mental health of characters not in general. I am not a qualified therapist but for sure aware of mental health and need no links.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

She blamed him for not being there when time of need….he should have been in place of abhinav during her pregnancy and delivery……but after seeing abhinav care and all to abhir she accepted him as father…and eventually she moved on with him like in real life stories not like intsnt maggi…she blamed him for kicking her out and not listening to her pov…and how can he intrude and behave badly with abhinav after truth….then only she told na and blamed him openly not hiding anything….in temple she blamed him because he created a situation (before truth) he proposed married woman with a kid and husband….she told him reality of WD and asked question to if ak is in place of neil and neil in place of ak will he divorce him and kick him out…which he has no reply and he felt bad for not getting peace and forgiveness which he didn’t even ask properly or realise purpose of it….

Bura toh hua

I agree

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

so do you mean what akshu did in hospital is over dramatic. When abhir was in danger. If akshu can hold collar of duty doctor even though her kid is alive.

But here neil was dead. He was almost 25+ year old man. If akshu can react like that for 6 year old kid. Then think about a mother who lost 25+ year old son.

Okay so manjiri is always saying abhir is her khoon we want him at any cost like toy or what….anyways neil her adopted son(not her khoon) who she kept identity hidden for 20+ years and when truth came out she was not blame but sympathize….same scenario ak did for 6 years what was the reaction of everyone…..omg how could she do this to abhim…and all…if she is in pain she has no right to abuse her daughter in law and kick her out…period…..if adopted mother of neil is correct and has rights and love for him is correct then parents akshnav r also correct and has rights to love him…if person is in pain doesn’t mean she has to make others lives hell

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Discuss the mental health of characters not in general. I am not a qualified therapist but for sure aware of mental health and need no links.

Because people r asking proofs not u but others so link was important there…and im talking about character people r taking it to real life problems then i m talking about real life thing they want it back to character so that discussion was necessary there

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Because people r asking proofs not u but others so link was important there…and im talking about character people r taking it to real life problems then i m talking about real life thing they want it back to character so that discussion was necessary there

Then again back to character she also given mental health issues to others. Abhimanyu too is her victim.

Dono k dono ne ek dusre ko trauma diya hai.

Par Akshara ka ptsd was because Sirat's death and infact the fact that they hid about her birth mother and look at her doing the same with her child.

I respect your thoughts on mental health but the character you are defending is a lost case here.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Because people r asking proofs not u but others so link was important there…and im talking about character people r taking it to real life problems then i m talking about real life thing they want it back to character so that discussion was necessary there

Also, just cause you mentioned mental health issues.

One of the best thing I learned in my therapy was to introspect. To take accountibilities of my actions. Akshara lacked all of it.

I am not saying Abhimanyu is doing a great job but atleast there are monologues where he speaks that what he did was wrong. To Shefali he mentioned what he did was wrong, to everyone at home he shouted loud and clear that this family did wrong with the bahus.

Akshara needs to buck up and do the due diligence of her actions from the beginning only then will she move forward and take steps to healing.

You are fighting for someone who doesn't even realise that there is something wrong in the way she do things

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Okay so manjiri is always saying abhir is her khoon we want him at any cost like toy or what….anyways neil her adopted son(not her khoon) who she kept identity hidden for 20+ years and when truth came out she was not blame but sympathize….same scenario ak did for 6 years what was the reaction of everyone…..omg how could she do this to abhim…and all…if she is in pain she has no right to abuse her daughter in law and kick her out…period…..if adopted mother of neil is correct and has rights and love for him is correct then parents akshnav r also correct and has rights to love him…if person is in pain doesn’t mean she has to make others lives hell

First thing.

Manjari was victim of domestic abuse. She was never able to protect neil if harsh wanted to get rid of him. She can never predict what harsh will do with neil. Why should she disclose truth when she is not capable of protecting him. She herself needed protection. What she would have done if harsh feels neil is a threat and decides to kill him off to save his families dignity???? Was she capapble to saving him provided abhi was also small.

I agree she should have told everyone once abhi and neil was grown up but she do not have any support in the family as mahima likes seeing her sister getting tortured.

But for akshu she purposefully did that. She just wanted to take revenge. If a family is mourning on death of some one and if some one announces preganancy after a month they feel like the person who died might be coming back. But akshu never felt like informing them even after 1 month. But akshu decided to hide abhi's identity built a delusional world around her son. Just because her mahaan kaam is not appreciated by birla's. She was not scared. She was not sad. She just wanted to replace abhi from abhir's life.

The reason why she went for court custody is because she saw an opportunity to erase abhi completely. But she failed miserably.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

people r defending other character who increased that pstd by blaming her moree that why that big post about her pstd and pstd in general…u got my point

Yaar you have to understand that not all are defending a character and blaming her for this.

I for example relate and understand the redemption of AbhiM as a character and the fact that he is not a bad person or pattern abuser. He made mistakes and he bore the consequences for the same. I don't think he deserves the hate he is getting

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

First thing.

Manjari was victim of domestic abuse. She was never able to protect neil if harsh wanted to get rid of him. She can never predict what harsh will do with neil. Why should she disclose truth when she is not capable of protecting him. She herself needed protection. What she would have done if harsh feels neil is a threat and decides to kill him off to save his families dignity???? Was she capapble to saving him provided abhi was also small.

I agree she should have told everyone once abhi and neil was grown up but she do not have any support in the family as mahima likes seeing her sister getting tortured.

But for akshu she purposefully did that. She just wanted to take revenge. If a family is mourning on death of some one and if some one announces preganancy after a month they feel like the person who died might be coming back. But akshu never felt like informing them even after 1 month. But akshu decided to hide abhi's identity built a delusional world around her son. Just because her mahaan kaam is not appreciated by birla's. She was not scared. She was not sad. She just wanted to replace abhi from abhir's life.

The reason why she went for court custody is because she saw an opportunity to erase abhi completely. But she failed miserably.

And snatch her only person….yes manjiri would have snatched him and kicked ak out…she spoke this point on reveal of truth day with manjiri and manjiri kept quite with acceptance

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Yaar you have to understand that not all are defending a character and blaming her for this.

I for example relate and understand the redemption of AbhiM as a character and the fact that he is not a bad person or pattern abuser. He made mistakes and he bore the consequences for the same. I don't think he deserves the hate he is getting

Exactly i have trying to tell this ….he needs a redemption track to end this hatred from everyone….but noo people r soo against this and think he is not wrong