Anupama should not go to America. Period. - Page 6

Some people on this forum make zero sense. On one hand they criticize Anupama for not following her dreams and on the other hand they say things like this. Not consistent. Maybe she doesn't have to go right away, but she should still go.

Don't forget Anuj did leave Anupama to be with CA. So he should have no qualms taking on her full responsibility either.

The "people on the forum" are not the ones making zero sense, it's the writers and production team whose story makes no sense. Of course people want her to follow her dreams, cut off her toxic relationships etc. But is it realistic that a mother would leave her 6 year old daughter in such a state and go? No mother would do that, unless they are trying to differentiate between adopted and bio kids. No one said she should never go, don't know where you got that from. The issue is with the circumstances and situation in which they are showing her udaan, which looks less like freedom and happiness and more like a forced situation where even she can't really be happy.

Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9

The "people on the forum" are not the ones making zero sense, it's the writers and production team whose story makes no sense. Of course people want her to follow her dreams, cut off her toxic relationships etc. But is it realistic that a mother would leave her 6 year old daughter in such a state and go? No mother would do that, unless they are trying to differentiate between adopted and bio kids. No one said she should never go, don't know where you got that from. The issue is with the circumstances and situation in which they are showing her udaan, which looks less like freedom and happiness and more like a forced situation where even she can't really be happy.

One thing is clear if Anupama chooses to stop for Anu she should not show her ehsaan to Anuj and make stupid faces like dekho meine ehsaan Kiya and is Shah's will blame Anuj she should stop them that it's my choice . If galti se she will make crying faces ki meri udaan ruk gayi chot ke kaaran I will get trylu mad at her.

Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9

The "people on the forum" are not the ones making zero sense, it's the writers and production team whose story makes no sense. Of course people want her to follow her dreams, cut off her toxic relationships etc. But is it realistic that a mother would leave her 6 year old daughter in such a state and go? No mother would do that, unless they are trying to differentiate between adopted and bio kids. No one said she should never go, don't know where you got that from. The issue is with the circumstances and situation in which they are showing her udaan, which looks less like freedom and happiness and more like a forced situation where even she can't really be happy.

Uhh yeah, that's obvious. This show is not realistic, is there any ITV show is? 😂 And I got that from the person who LITERALLY made this thread? Hello? 😂 I'm not sure why you took that personally (from your reply at least).

I didn't take it personally at all, sorry if it came across that way. Wouldn't take opinions on a fictional show personally. I was just trying to convey that the view of most people that she shouldn't go at this point in time makes a lot of sense. Whatever issues one may have with their husband, they wouldn't let that reflect on the well being of their child right, especially a woman like Anupama for whom being a Maa is above it all. Even if CA was okay, if Anupama really considered her to be her daughter equal to her bio kids, whatever issues she may have with her husband, she can't just leave her 6 year old child and disappear for 3 years. They would have to figure out if they can visit, maybe eventually shift there once the adoption process is complete etc. They were portraying it as if she's just leaving and for three years wouldn't have contact with her daughter, which is ridiculous.

And of course the show is not realistic at all, but her leaving her daughter in this situation to go is unrealistic as per the show's standard itself and everything they and the FL have propagated so far.