TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali DT #145 "Bilkul Tumhari Tarah" - Page 31

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meerab & murtasam 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: ddppkkrr

https://www.instagram.com/stories/wahaj.official/3141552775479955340/?hl=en

this story on wahaj’s ig says you haven’t seen the last of Meerub and Murtasim. I hope new story but same names and no NM please.

But don’t have hopes - looks like continuation with NM as writer and prob more Haya🤮

Originally posted by: Vani_18

ommgg the way they have put up the post😲aise kon likhta h bhai

Are they really dating or something??..... I read so many tweets and comnents when the trio went out together😆

Exactly I am feeling second hand embarrassment, don't know how they would be feeling seriously these media pages are soo weird and nonsense

Bold...don't know about that maybe they would be 🤷🏼‍♀️

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

You can’t call meerab toxic and nor murtasam as they both did wrong! And both accepted what they have done wrong!

Yes both are not toxic for sure, they had their set of mistakes and they rectified it, they forgive eachother and I think that's what NM mean when she said pyaar me toh sab kuch maaf he , they would forgive their every single mistake for the sake of one another.

Originally posted by: Navyya

I am reposting my comment on this . This is what I feel

I have been reading posts of WHYs of Meerab not confessing and WHYs of Murtsaum going on his knees to apologise…In my opinion both these scenarios have been written and excecuted exceptionally well … To understand this let’s start from epi 46 …. Meerab sees Haya hugging Murtsaum tightly and she looses her cool …. Ugly events follow and she leaves …. In the 2 years of separation only thing she is thinking 24/7 is Murtsaum…. Finally confesses to Saba , goes to the extent of saying that she loves him more than he does …. When she decided to go back to him , it was a GIANT step taken by her …. Old Meerab wouldn’t have , there is NO way but we have new Meerab now …. Even aunty didn’t say return for Meesam , she said return for your love and she does ….. now when she walked out she saw Murtsaum and haya in a hug and now when she walks in what does she see ….. and that sight is not going to go away that easily…. Some events of your life never really fade away , because they are stored in some part of your brain and they remain there forever! There are times when your senses will trigger it and they won’t be a delete button to delete them

Had she been just one minute late then nikah would have taken place ….it’s natural for her suspicions , that image of back hug to again resurface in some corner of her heart…. For two years she was gone , how does she know there hadn’t been anything between Murtsaum and Haya … we know there hasn’t been but Meerab doesn’t ….. now she has the choice of not accepting him , staying with Anwar , that way she isn’t keeping Meesam from the love of her father and grandmother but at the same time not forgiving him BUT she chose not to do that …. She CHOSE to go back to him , laying aside her ego , her suspicions….& that’s a HUGE step taken by her ….Meerab has always been rude and high handed with Murtsaum and he has been the one to take in all her whims , fancies and tantrums but this one act of his ( nikah with Haya ) has whitewashed every rude act of Meerab and put her above him . All NM needed was just this ONE stroke and sympathies have switched sides from Murtsaum to Meerab . All said and done she has stayed true to Murtsaum… Now it would have looked OTT had she gone on how much she loves him , missed him etc … we know she does , Murtsaum knows … actions have spoken louder than words ….but Murtsaum has a lot of damage control to do … Now coming to his kneeling down … I think that scene was absolutely brilliant…. Going down on the knees doesn’t equate to being a puppy dog . It’s just a sweet gesture men do to woo women in a cute way. And they were sitting side by side so you can’t have a conversation like that . One has to be aamney saamney and the way he kneeled , it was so special…followed by the way she wiped his tears , touched his face so lovingly…that scene made their hotness rise to scorching level because kuch alag hi baat thee…hug na karana lekin inta kareeb aa jaana. There's a beauty in this holding back …For me it made more passionate & intense than seeing a hug . It was so subtle …. and subtle it had to be because they are meeting after two years and Murtsaum is the guilty one here so I think the way they handled it was just perfect . All those promises Meerab took from Murtsaum were taken to lighten the situation …did you guys not see her body language? Nowhere there was the arrogance of old Meerab … . Those promises came from a woman in love ..they were from the new Meerab who loves her husband to the core and just trying to lighten the mood and not give too much of thought to what would have happened had she been just one minute late … Had Meerab not walked on almost nikah then things would have been different…. but now it’s Murtsaum who is the guilty one and by accepting him Meerab has proved beyond any doubt that he matters THE MOST for her and loves him with if not more then same intensity as he does .

wow Navya ! This was so beautifully written!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I respect you for your views 🙏🏽 and your analysis is amazing 👏

IMO Meerab isn't definitely a person who'd go back to murtasim for the sake of her daughter, because she's self centered enough to think and live in her own trauma and victimhood mentality.

Every time looking at meesam she could think of murtasim which means she's been longing for him and realised when she confessed to Saba that she indeed ❤️ murtasim more than he does.

Even if it's MR she'd gone back to murtasim only because she wanted to be with him. Her gripe about their consummation can be that how murtasim didn't let her initiate or make the first move(if it's MR)

Originally posted by: princessjojo

Amna has the potential to kacha chabao Nooran 😂 also half of Amna’s questions will likely go over Nooran’s head.

and she deserves to be kacha chabaoed. So what did Nooran tell us through her story and interviews?

- if you are an independent minded woman who can talk back and refuse sex, your husband should beat you down into submission (rape in this case) and at the end you will forgive him and spit out some superfluous nakhre about wife ki marzi when in reality that same chauvinist will continue to pull your strings.

I should’ve stopped watching when they romanticized the slap with their rarare background score

would Meerab have come back if she did not get pregnant? I doubt it. Ultimately she compromised. Murtasim doesn’t deserve an I love you from her. Did Meerab rape or assault Murtasim when he slapped her?

indopak society is still far far away from equality between men and women

Rohail is better than Murtasim for me. He only forced her into his car. So is Malik. He had the chance to rape Maryam and permanently subjugate Murtasim and his family but chose not to and negotiated land instead.

the only ending that suited this original MR storyline was either compromise or separation. There’s no role for passionate love from Meerab towards Murtasim. I can’t help but wonder how she’d ever have sex with him again without experiencing PTSD

if the leads were average looking actors with less chemistry than Yumhaj we would’ve all been more unanimous in what we wanted at the end. Yumhaj have blinded us and so has collective trauma of misogyny that indopak women are used to- we all wanted Murtasim because he was such a charmer, a unicorn, an escape from reality and we can’t accept the real storyline because it smashes us back to the ground so we will continue to condone what actually happened in TB

Yeah can be a possibilit(IN BOLD)🤣

Originally posted by: Memu1

If this is true then farroq is gone case.😂😂

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Farooq can be a similar plot device like Rohail(IN BOLD). The root cause could be Murtasim’s unhealthy possessiveness about his wife. The problem lies with the foundation of their relationship and their unwillingness to lose ground to reach the other person.His actions are always short when compared to his tall words/promises and she thinks your emotions your problem what have I got to do. This can be the central theme of their MUs.

It'd be great if they pick fewer tracks than S1 and cover them exhaustively instead of getting us into the fill in the blanks mode 🤣

Exactly. It's like they have used every single track shown in the entire ITV. Saare tracks ek hi show me daal diye. Bhai jagah aur character dekh kr likhta hai Banda, yaha na jagah dekhi, na situation dekhi, na character arc dekha, bas bewakoofo type jo man me aaya likhte chale gye. This was literally the complete the following question type story where we used to get two words and then dot dot dot dot, then two words and again repeat.

Congratulations everyone for thread #145🥳❤....

Thanks tanu for this amazing thread🤗❤😍....this is so beautiful ❤😍......

I will love to see 150th thread ...hope we achieve that target🤗

Originally posted by: Rumi23

Compare MK’s way of walking when ME was sleeping I think Epi 34 and now when MEE is sleeping .. his gait is all

Different.. it is not that KMK… he has guilt written on his face and body language and only when you see the last Khet scene so you see it his style back…
agree with you he kept Haya in the middle.. the promises that ME takes are very important as she is asking him to make her his priority .. Mk gave the words but every time when it was a crucial juncture he abandoned her.. MK is caring but this was… MK you belong to ME and this is what I need from you to keep me safe..

I am hearing ME is toxic.. she is not .. she has never given words for the sake of it.. didn’t ask for anything .. she told MK I will recognize your love the day I love you more., the day she did ., she came back not for MEE.. for herself.. she no longer wants to run away from love and decides to forgive MK..

You have explained it so well ❤️

There is a lot of difference between the MK prior to epi 46 and the MK we saw in last couple of episodes. Previous KMK had attitude, arrogancy and a big fat ego .. The KMK we saw yesterday was a dejected man. According to his own words he realised he is nothing without meerub and was like a living dead when she was gone..He desperately wanted her forgiveness and that's the reason he was literally begging her to never leave him..

Many people felt he wasn't acting like KMK, but how can you expect him to be like before when he is consumed with his own guilt and pretty much lost confidence and had given up on everything?

The moment Meerub said she won't leave him ever again , his smile came back and he was alive again..

In the khet scene, we could feel the same old cheerful KMK because now he realises Meerub won't leave him again and has reciprocated his love..He regained his confidence after getting her back..