If Anupama truly considers CA to be her daughter, she should prioritize being with her over everything else, including her own dreams. Once CA grows up, then Anupama (and all mothers) should value herself and her dreams the most. But when you give birth, or if you adopt a child, you are making an agreement to place the child above everyone and everything else for the next 18 years.
If Anupama chooses to separate herself from CA, then she should really stop her "Maa hoon ne" BS.
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