TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT# 139 - Page 84

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

So I will disagree here. If I was Ma Begam, I would have the same reaction to seeing my daughter in law randomly come back after two years of disappearing, and with a baby at that. Especially if I was told she was with some lover guy all this time which Haya seemed to be implying throughout to everybody. My loyalty would definitely be to my son. ( I wouldn’t encourage him to get married to Haya though, because he obviously looks disgusted by the whole thing.) Im not sure why KMK didn’t clarify that to everyone after he found out.

But even if I knew she wasn’t with a supposed lover-friend, I would still be pisssssssed seeing ANYONE close to me return like that after disappearing for no good reason. It’s weird to me that people have normalized that behavior in their reactions….as if it’s ok to disappear like that? I’ve heard many justifications and barring a rape/ physical or emotional violence situation, I can’t understand why it’s acceptable that she up and left without a word, and not for family members to be upset? Is that supposed to be normal or something? I don’t get it.

she just disappeared for 2 years!

murtasam action which affected everyone overshadowed what meerab done.

Both of them is equally at fault.

Meerab running away for 2 years!

Murtasam agreeing to merry!!

However this definition changes say if meerab was actually Raped! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

@bold: lol, when they realized that folks like me were suckers…

lol

but I don’t want to see Murtasam or meerab getting shot by MZ!!

Originally posted by: Navyya

. If that happens then they will leave us hanging 😰😢but didn’t NM say there won’t be any season 2 ? But seeing it’s popularity who know they may go this way and maybe this is the twist ( coz it’s supposed to come in last few minutes) and the project that Marie spoke about with yumhaj in winter might be this only

Possible why they are not giving us all the content.

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

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However this definition changes say if meerab was actually Raped! 🤷🏻‍♀️

How would anyone say she loves her Rapist ? she said right she loves him and probably more that he loves her.

She even named kid meesam 🤷‍♀️
Why even go back when humanitarian family is being so supportive and kind !

Originally posted by: Winterberry

How would anyone say she loves her Rapist ? she said right she loves him and probably more that he loves her.

She even named kid meesam 🤷‍♀️
Why even go back when humanitarian family is being so supportive and kind !

Totally I agree with you on that , but if u watch her tone , when she got her from Waqas house, it sounded she got her only for Maryam , not for realizing that meerab may not be 💯 fault. Before Waqas came they were blaming her only , as if she planned it.

Even when she initially went to Karachi with MK , she said bhaga gayi and Anwar had to clarify she did not run , she went with MK.Her tone with meerab is so dismissive.

Words she uses bhag gayi, when MK was in hospital.I dont approve that language .

I always felt after meerab dance , MB couldn’t get over it .

Also her attitude comes because , she may not give that much weightage to Anwar and Waqas .

Anu ji, 🤗you're 💯 correct(IN BOLD BLACK) that's my complaint about Meerab. She could practice what she preached her husband. IMO Charity begins at home and she should begin her forgiveness campaign right from her family, alas that's not the case, proven by the (IN BOLD RED) track.

Ironically all of us get defensive strangely sometimes despite of agreement🤝🏽

Originally posted by: anu41982

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163572380

If you take things superficially and think about what is possibly going through Meerab’s mind, she didn’t go to her adoptive parents’ place, simply because she didn’t want Murtasim’s to find her. As it was shown, she clearly didn’t want that to happen.

But if dwelled further, Meerab completely became an orphan and a homeless at their doorstep. It was her childhood home and was her haven. That was robbed away when Waqas and Anila closed the door on her. It does not matter to her that why and how they did it, or what they did after that, they were her world, and but they broke her and abandoned her. If you have noticed, Meerab has a trait of holding tightly on to grudges against the ones she love and care the most. She has a very selfless nature, and always concerned about the bad happening to others. But when it comes to the ones she truly cares about, she is self-centered and you could say, selfish too – so for her own, the forgiveness does not come that easily. Hence, she has forgiven neither her husband nor her adoptive parents (and partly, Anwar too is included here). The two times that she went to her Karachchi house (E28 and E43/ 44) she was there as Murtasim’s wife – he took her there. She believes it is not ‘Meerab’s home’ anymore. They have removed the remnants of her life from there, and she has not fully forgiven or forgotten that. Murtasim’s dialogue in Ep.02, is foreshadowing – ‘But now you cannot go in until I want.’ And also, in Ep. 49, Waqas says to Murtasim ‘You always bring her with you, why didn’t you bring her this time?’. She did not reach their doorstep as his wife this time, so she does not want to go in.

Even in Ep. 43, she did not go in – she didn’t knock the door, she stayed at the doorstep and her parents took her in. Agreed, Waqas defended her and told MB that Meerab does not need to leave till she wants. But the bottom line is after their stunt before her marriage, she has neither fully accepted them as before nor she has accepted it as ‘her’ home. Instinctively, when she left Khan Mansion, it is their doorstep she reached, but the painful memories would not let her ring the bell and ask them to take her in! Just my take on it 😊

I was just re watching old episodes of Tere Bin and I only have this one line to sum it up.

Meerab and Murtasim or koi nahi bas tum dono ho! Forever and ever in our hearts! ❤️

I really really hope we get a mega last episode and also if not then the production house should really give us a success party interview with the whole cast like they did with Mere Paas Tum Ho.

Yumhaj you will truly be missed..I hope and pray we get to see you both together once again lighting up our tv screens soon with your amazing chemistry..Us die hard Meerasim/Yumhaj fans will be waiting.

Good Morning everyone….❤️❤️❤️

Does anyone happen to have a picture that WA shared on his story where he has a pen and is giving it to YZ…I’m looking for that pic and can’t seem to find it…

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

So I will disagree here. If I was Ma Begam, I would have the same reaction to seeing my daughter in law randomly come back after two years of disappearing, and with a baby at that. Especially if I was told she was with some lover guy all this time which Haya seemed to be implying throughout to everybody. My loyalty would definitely be to my son. ( I wouldn’t encourage him to get married to Haya though, because he obviously looks disgusted by the whole thing.) Im not sure why KMK didn’t clarify that to everyone after he found out.

But even if I knew she wasn’t with a supposed lover-friend, I would still be pisssssssed seeing ANYONE close to me return like that after disappearing for no good reason. It’s weird to me that people have normalized that behavior in their reactions….as if it’s ok to disappear like that? I’ve heard many justifications and barring a rape/ physical or emotional violence situation, I can’t understand why it’s acceptable that she up and left without a word, and not for family members to be upset? Is that supposed to be normal or something? I don’t get it.

I have been saying this since the beginning... People are not able to understand how big a deal it is when someone from the family disappears without telling anything ... And on top of that she hid the daughter from the father..

Its just that Murtasims actions especially wrt besharam haya have overshadowed meerabs actions...

Like someone said above this stupid leap was not needed. Dono meerab and murtasam ki character ki dhajjiyaan udda di... Oopar se its shot so badly. Neither meerab nor murtasim had any explanation for their actions..

Whats the point of a leap in the last 4 episodes. Ya toh dhang se plan karte like humsafar.. What an amazing character graph did khirad have.. Seeti maar scenes she had.

Imagine the stupidity.. You have a higher rated tv show which is running solely on the leads chemistry... And you keep them apart for 10 freaking episodes! Whose brilliant idea was this?