TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #135 - Page 71

We share the same 🎂 and big fan of his 😊 face

Originally posted by: SheThought

Btw, you are a Shaheera fan?

I am too 😛

Originally posted by: SheThought

Ok... just that way or is it something to do with how Nikhah gets done?

I am not familiar with Muslim weddings so not sure if there is some significance of file closing?

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So all the lyrics will be done , and last one is suli, which meerab will finish by car crashing 😡😡😳😳

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

If we leave the gender talk aside the question is about a person with no active earning or employment. They had to shoulder an additional responsibility all of a sudden. Strength of character comes out how they respond to such unfavourable situations or challenges.

What doesn't kill can only become stronger, but I fail to see that spirit in Meerab. What has meerab done with her newfound freedom, significantly she craved for murtasim more in his absence than when he's present. In that case why can't she go back to him, she's a victim of her own circumstances, problem of not thinking through.

World is scared of wisdom and pities foolishness, but crushes fools and adores the wise men.

She is living with two old people who are of reduced circumstances themselves - hand to mouth type

They live on the pension or savings. They have no child to fall back on for money. No safety net.

Financially supporting Merub and her child - their medical expenses, etc. - would have taken a toll on these poor people's finances. Kal ko apne hospital bills dene ka masla na hojaye

If Merub had any self-respect or compassion, she would be financially contributing. Ghar mein bacchon ko tuition hi padha de. Koi Fiverr ya Upwork pe free lancing job dekh leti.

Ya phir koi apni education he start kar leti - burka pehan kar university jaati if she does not want to be recognized. Lots of full burkaposh women in universities in Pakistan.

Since he already moved out of her, it will be closure for him seeing one last time meerab . I just want this a dream . I can’t take MUHU

Qazi asked the question and before h could answer ME entered.. ME has always entered each time MK has taken a wrong step towards H -- Gaon, hug and now before saying vows.

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

. It was open earlier! You only close when he is done with his work

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

She is living with two old people who are of reduced circumstances themselves - hand to mouth type

They live on the pension or savings. They have no child to fall back on for money. No safety net.

Financially supporting Merub and her child - their medical expenses, etc. - would have taken a toll on these poor people's finances. Kal ko apne hospital bills dene ka masla na hojaye

If Merub had any self-respect or compassion, she would be financially contributing. Ghar mein bacchon ko tuition hi padha de. Koi Fiverr ya Upwork pe free lancing job dekh leti.

Ya phir koi apni education he start kar leti - burka pehan kar university jaati if she does not want to be recognized. Lots of full burkaposh women in universities in Pakistan.

Remember even in engagement party guests tells, in this house there was never talaq. So will he give talaq to haya and MB will give him slap

That could just be that they didn't film it sequentially, like there may have been retakes of MK standing up when Meerab enters and the actor might have closed file in between.

I do not think we need to worry about the file closing.

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

. In general knowledge you close the file once it’s done. All signing and everything … you say qubool hai three times and then you sign!

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Lovely 😍 analysis,👏 I listed only the qualities of Meerab, I didn't touch murtasim traits at all. If I have any complaint that is talking the drawback of meerab doesn't mean I'm absolving murtasim. It's always meerab of today vs yesterday and murtasim of yesterday vs today for me.

IMO wife and husband can't be the same, they can be only complimentary, adjoining pieces of a jigsaw puzzle incomplete without being together and complete each other.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I agree with your analysis of Meerab. I don’t even think they’re trying to hide it. I feel like even Yumna agreed with a lot of this. Meerab went through some extreme circumstances so I am empathetic to her even if I agree she has made mistakes. Maybe that was the point of this separation for her. If she became some high powered lawyer on her own, she wouldn’t learn to appreciate the ones that love her. And honestly it wouldn’t be realistic and the truth is that we all need a little help and support to achieve our dreams.

The forced marriage clouded her judgment so much that she couldn’t see that eventually she had that support. She would receive more and more support from Murtasim if she didn’t break his trust with the Mariam thing. He made mistakes too so I’m not absolving him of anything but he changed a lot for her. He screwed up with Haya stuff.

I think the baby is making Meerab put someone else first and that in itself will probably mean some growth on her part. Also I was thinking about it and she probably knew about the wedding before crashing it. What does it mean? She is there to work it out with Murtasim or does she just want to tell him about his daughter.

I feel like Murtasim has always been about being taking care of people and that in itself can be problematic, because he was soft on Haya for this reason. Meerab on the other hand was used to being taken care of and took it for granted.