Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN
One of our members replied me this in last post and I SALUTE HER for wording this so aptly in case of Meerub
I m not defending ma begum or murtasim here but at the same time there is no need to Senti Khao on meerub either
Posting the reply here as I m so glad someone jotted it down so well
. No she is not throwing her at the drop of a hat. On both occasions, it was Meerab’s zid, her obstinacy , her high handed attitude that made MB take that stand . Why can’t we see all the adjustments she tried to make with Meerab ? Initially MB did whatever she could to make life easy for her but Meerab was on a different horse al together. Wonder where that horse has disappeared now that she has no qualms about living off free with an old couple ? A normal person can’t do that even for a day but here toh she is continuing for months . Had she shown even tiniest bit of this attitude when she was married hers and others life would have been so much easier . Now she is suffering and making others suffer .
aww you can’t say it like it’s straight forward:
every character is right at there own place.
you need to consider Meerabs POV
MB POV
Maryam POV
Murtasam
Haya
Anwar
Waqas family
If it was that east then every character would have been positive but every character has great shades and layers which makes the character much more complex than this is good and this is bad.
MB has all the right to look out for her son
however this doesn't give her the pass to bad mouth another person daughter when she her self hide her own daughters kand!
She had double standards you can’t ignore that.
mtge soul reason she changed her away bcs meerab had murtasam support and he told his mom to change his away of teaching. Bcs meerab needs explanation. She is ziddi, she won’t listen like Haya or Maryam!
Mai she changed bcs of that. However we can also praise she made changes ,
so you see both side. She has positive trait along with negative
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