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Posted: 2 years ago
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How much more can she do for Abhinav? She has no ambitions, she has no life, she threw away her moral compass to give him a "family", she gave him someone's else son so he can fill his picture frames, and she has been emotionally manipulating her son to keep him happy. What else does he want lol.


How much more can she lower herself to prove her loyalty? She shown him in words and actions where her loyalty lies. She even prioritizes his feelings and wants over Abhir, who is her miracle child. Nothing she does is ever enough to satisfy him. Honestly, I'm starting to feel bad for her. This isn't a second chance at love. It's emotional abuse.


I'm genuinely curious what do the writers want to convey? Is he going to die soon and she is supposed to feel guilty because she thinks didn't do enough? I don't get it. This track feels like setup for her. She is damned no matter what she does.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

How much more can she do for Abhinav? She has no ambitions, she has no life, she threw away her moral compass to give him a "family", she gave him someone's else son so he can fill his picture frames, and she has been emotionally manipulating her son to keep him happy. What else does he want lol.


How much more can she lower herself to prove her loyalty? She shown him in words and actions where her loyalty lies. She even prioritizes his feelings and wants over Abhir, who is her miracle child. Nothing she does is ever enough to satisfy him. Honestly, I'm starting to feel bad for her. This isn't a second chance at love. It's emotional abuse.


I'm genuinely curious what do the writers want to convey? Is he going to die soon and she is supposed to feel guilty because she thinks didn't do enough? I don't get it. This track feels like setup for her. She is damned no matter what she does.


@bold: That's what I would have guessed except there seems no indication of him dying or exiting anytime soon so for now all her extra overtures towards him just feel like aimless fillers....lol


But otherwise it does seem like they are setting her up for a guilt trip that she didn't do enough to prove her loyalty and devotion to him, that is why she lost him.....lol


In Akshara's dictionary, someone questioning her wrong actions is emotional abuse....an insecure husband constantly needing coddling and reassurances is what Akshara calls a marriage filled with self respect, trust and support😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Ek baccha usse de do thakur 😆 his dialogues always hints that. Abhir mera khoon nahi abhir mera khoon nahi hai 😵

I am bored with the Sharma's dkp please give me a tentative date when Sharma's will exit.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Feeling bad for Akshara bcoz she had to take care of do bachee😭


But cute tho


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Edited by Sushma_Reddy - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Or tell us that Navra is the pair and show will run with them

One day is Abhira and next day Navra

I can see that most of the Abhira fans not as much active here and same way show will lose the viewers too with this cross pair and cringey things which they are showing

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Posted: 2 years ago
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😆 And everyone still thinks that she is doing everything out of pitty whereas she has clearly worded it out to Abhimanyu and herself that she loves him!

But let's build the case of what she can avoid/do to help their relationship -

1. Stop hiding things from Abhinav + Abhir!

2. Ask Abhimanyu to stay in his limits.

3. Ask Manjiri to take care of her ladla.


And more...

Had Akshara done even 1% of these things being married to Abhimanyu, I think we all know what would have that resulted in... Classic Divorce... And so far that's what the show has proved... Akshara and Abhimanyu ke divorces list maybe next troll topic once they reach 1 more divorce🤣 we need two more separation/annulment so that can reach at par with Ross and Rachel or Anurag 1.0 and Prerna 1.0.


The amount of biasness this show has... I know Hotstar wale are writing insecurity for Abhinav, but more than insecurity, he seems to be facing facing INFERIORITY complex. In my honest opinion, he isn't seeming to doubt Akshara's loyalty or anything but he thinks he is misfit for her as compared to Abhimanyu and that he should move out. He may love Akshara but he isn't the one to give her Umar Kaid ki sazaa of being with him, if he thinks Akshara and Abhir can be happier with someone else. Choice is clearly Akshara's.


Shayad hum sab same show ki baat hi nai kar rahe hai 😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I stopped reading after "emotionally manipulating Abhir". It's so far removed from what is actually shown. It's hilarious

Abhir is HAPPY with Abhinav. In his own words, he would NEVER. NEVER leave Abhinav not for his REAL WALE PAPA. NOT FOR DOCMAN. NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE

Also, let us not pretend that Marriage was Abhinav s idea. It was not. Akshara married Abhinav to give Abhir a stable home

The love happened gradually

Both Akshara and Abhir have repeatedly reaffirmed their love for Abhinav

Currently, Ashara is a woman who is in love with her husband who loves her back. They have an adorable son named Abhir

Akshara is studying law and has a jam business on side

So, no she does have a life and a career

A very beautiful life

Edited by Agni_Jytsona - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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You're probably right. There is no point to any of this lol.


At first, I thought it was for the confession, but with the writing it seems like even if she holds up a neon sign that says "ILU Abhinav" he will still pout and cry when Abhimanyu breathes.


For me, her characterization was always problematic. ITV FL come in variations of mahaan or dumb. There is no in-between lol. Writers use her elevate other characters so I never expect much from her.


Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: That's what I would have guessed except there seems no indication of him dying or exiting anytime soon so for now all her extra overtures towards him just feel like aimless fillers....lol


But otherwise it does seem like they are setting her up for a guilt trip that she didn't do enough to prove her loyalty and devotion to him, that is why she lost him.....lol


In Akshara's dictionary, someone questioning her wrong actions is emotional abuse....an insecure husband constantly needing coddling and reassurances is what Akshara calls a marriage filled with self respect, trust and support😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

You're probably right. There is no point to any of this lol.


At first, I thought it was for the confession, but with the writing it seems like even if she holds up a neon sign that says "ILU Abhinav" he will still pout and cry when Abhimanyu breathes.


For me, her characterization was always problematic. ITV FL come in variations of mahaan or dumb. There is no in-between lol. Writers use her elevate other characters so I never expect much from her.



LOL same....I also feel that even if she holds up flashing neon sign declaring her love for Nav, even then he will just pout and cry seeing Abhimanyu even breathing in her vicinity😆.....so I really don't get how this is a build up for a big confession but then again, it's not like anything has much point in the story these days😆



Just going to copy paste what I already said in the discussion thread about this:


The main issue between Akshnav is that Nav will never be able to get over his feeling of inadequacy whenever he sees Abhira together.


Akshara has already told Nav a 100 times that she doesn't want what she had with Abhi and she prefers what she has with him.....she has glorified Nav in every way to the extent that the only thing remaining is officially building a temple for himsmiley36.....and still, all it takes to debilitate Nav is seeing Abhira being FRIENDLY with each othersmiley36


And you know why that is? Because for all his claims of achhai, it isn't the glorification and worshipping he really wants from Akshara....he wants the REAL deal that he can see exists naturally between Abhira without them even tryingsmiley36.....he wants what they have and that is where the problem lies.....Akshara doesn't want that anymore....lol she shut that down along with shutting all doors to Abhi himself.


So what will Akshara do when Nav expects to have with her what she had with Abhi in order to feel that sense of security in their relationship? lol


Cuz what else is this man wanting for otherwise? He literally has EVERYTHING....he's played house with Akshara for 6 years, raised someone else's child as his own and still it is HIM feeling insecure? lol probably cuz he knows somewhere that it is Abhira who feel real and natural together and not his own Sharma family that he keeps claiming is ideal.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It's not pity. It's real. That's why I'm curious how much more he wants from her lol. She gave him everything she has.


Completely agree about him feeling inferior, but the writers themselves made him inferior to garner sympathy.



Originally posted by: shahsb_26

😆 And everyone still thinks that she is doing everything out of pitty whereas she has clearly worded it out to Abhimanyu and herself that she loves him!

But let's build the case of what she can avoid/do to help their relationship -

1. Stop hiding things from Abhinav + Abhir!

2. Ask Abhimanyu to stay in his limits.

3. Ask Manjiri to take care of her ladla.


And more...

Had Akshara done even 1% of these things being married to Abhimanyu, I think we all know what would have that resulted in... Classic Divorce... And so far that's what the show has proved... Akshara and Abhimanyu ke divorces list maybe next troll topic once they reach 1 more divorce🤣 we need two more separation/annulment so that can reach at par with Ross and Rachel or Anurag 1.0 and Prerna 1.0.


The amount of biasness this show has... I know Hotstar wale are writing insecurity for Abhinav, but more than insecurity, he seems to be facing facing INFERIORITY complex. In my honest opinion, he isn't seeming to doubt Akshara's loyalty or anything but he thinks he is misfit for her as compared to Abhimanyu and that he should move out. He may love Akshara but he isn't the one to give her Umar Kaid ki sazaa of being with him, if he thinks Akshara and Abhir can be happier with someone else. Choice is clearly Akshara's.


Shayad hum sab same show ki baat hi nai kar rahe hai 😆

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