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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: daffodil153



This show has become so unbearable now! It’s like a never ending nightmare since the past 6 months. Every week I kept waiting for the story to take a turn but it still stinks like stagnant water. The only character growth I have seen in this show is of Dr. Abhimanyu Birla. The injustice done to this character cannot be said in words. Majority of the audience behave like they are some saas tortured bahu abla naarees. My love and admiration for Abhi outweigh the flaws they point at Abhi. He is the most passionate person I have ever seen in my life. So driven yet so emotional. So unstable yet the most still. So loving yet never loved. He is the brand ambassador of deserves better. He deserves a better mother than Manjari who was never present in his tough times. Never gave him that safe space to confide in her, his utmost personal fears and desires. He deserved a better father who didn’t make his life a waking nightmare. He deserved a better brother who stands by him in his troubles and doesn’t abandon him when his opinion is against him. He deserved a better lover who would respect his love and affection and at least have the decency to reject him respectfully. No one deserves a push and pull love that only depends on your feelings and your convenience. He deserved a better wife who didn’t up and leave at slightest inconvenience. Every argument ended with Akshara running off to Goenka house, and recently to pathankot. I hated Akshara for doing that but tried understanding her pain alas could never completely understand.


Now Akshara took away the rights of a father to punish the mistakes made by a husband. I would never forgive Akshara for doing the fatherji kaand. She still insults and humiliates him at every opportunity she gets. She humiliated him, his love, their marriage, everything. Calling him names, calling their marriage an umarkaid, calling him undeserving of being a father. She demands trust, respect, loyalty and much more when she couldn’t give him even an ounce of it. She is keeping quite coz she knows Abhi won’t reveal the truth. Even now Abhi is saying he would trust her to tell Abhir the truth but she won’t ever. You know why? Coz she knows she is scared of loosing Abhir. She is selfish and calls Abhi selfish for wanting to be a part of his son’s life. He has let go if his desires and wants now. He is just going with the flow. He is getting a chance to see his son learn new things and he is finding happiness in the little things. He knows he may never get the chance to be called “papa” but is just happy to see his son be praised and celebrated. The man these people hate so much operated on his son and not one person around him asked if he was okay. Everyone talks about the mother’s pain. What about the father who had the responsibility of his son’s life and death in his hands and can’t afford to fail. No one talks about his state of mind and the mental trauma he went through.

Sab kuch maaro goli Daff waapis aagayi!!
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Honestly, I understand his character. Sometimes sympathize with him as well. And yes, Daff, he is the CEO of deserves better.

The thing I hate about the JIJAJI phase is the fact that he KNEW, he knew Akshara loved him and yet, he had to go through the farce of marrying her sister.

The idea was abbhorant to him and the audience. But he had to FIGHT for something that should’ve been his. Always.

His anger issues are legendary and he is extremely volatile, but there was literally no one whom he could turn to to abate them. I genuinely wish they had shown a better bond between him and Mahima. Him, getting his ambitious drive fulfilled through her, and she, deriving pleasure in having raised one child right (according to her ambition) I wish they had shown Mahima understanding him perfectly like she did when Akshara met with an accident. That scene when she encouraged him as a doctor had such a HUGE impact on my mind, I thought… this is his MOM!

But no! He had to fight for everyone. :( I agree.


I have NEVER liked Akshara. She puts everyone ahead of her LOVE. Kaisa ye pyaar hai?


HC plays AB perfectly! Abhimanyu as a character has MANY flaws, but glorifying a completely random person (not even the FL) to degrade him is a below the belt move.

Posted: 2 years ago
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So good to see your post after zillion years Alekhya💕💕💕 and thanks for the tag

After months of enduring emotional torture and holding hope, I am trying to slowly detach from this nonsensical show.

Abhi 🥺😭. He was, is and will remain the best written character of Season 3 atleast for me. He has many flaws, has made a few blunders too, but the beauty is in the way he has no qualms about accepting his mistakes and redeeming himself, may not always be with words but through actions. This makes him a lot more relatable and interesting. Of course HC elevates the character further with his brilliance.

It is sad that he is surrounded by people who are all hell bent on ensuring he doesnt get a moment of peace and happiness. No longer have much hope of him being able to come out of the chakravuyh.

As for Akshara, first character I have seen who gets assassinated literally every day. I still refuse to accept that Akshara we have seen in the last 6 months is the Akshu we were introduced to and fell in love with.

I am still team Abhira though, if they miraculously turn this track in favour of Abhira, I will jump straight back on board that ship but holding no hope from the egoïstic makers.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Since the day he came to know Abhir is his son there is a change in his persona. The best thing about this man is that he accepts the love and care Akshara has given to Abhir. The boy is so sorted, mature and smart makes AB proud and he is genuinely grateful to AK. He accepted Sharma's and his situation with humility and it shows the strength in character of DR. Abhimanyu Birla.

We have been given that Parth used to threaten Shifali about his power and reach if she took Shivu away. We were told that politicians and influential people are their associates. But Abhimanyu never threatened Akshara about his reach in community. ABhi understood that any action he takes also directly affects his son and their current equation and Abhir's safety was his priority. Abhir has always felt the connection with his DocMan but Abhimanyu never tried to test the bond with any unnecessary action or influence. He always asked for permission from Akshara in spite of knowing that she hide Abir from him.

He did custody case only to put stay on it midway coz that was best for Abhir's recovery and well being.

After he operated on Abhir one would have thought there would be some change in Akshara's behaviour towards Abhimanyu but her animosity only grew if that was possible.Its only when she confirmed with Abhir that Docman had not told him abt his paternity and Abhimanyu assured her that he will trust her to tell Abhir truth, she dropped her discourteousness. Immediately her attitude towards Abhi changed 180degrees.

Abhimanyu helped everyone agree to Kv-muskan alliance. Its a chance to see the man has a heart of gold and has no interest in holding grudge or revenge on anyone. He is perfectionist DOC with faults and works hard to rectify mistakes as soon as he realises them.

Him making n serving samosas to Goenkas, helping clean marriage guest house or bring basket is his way of being useful at all times.

He also knows his limits he is still in love with Akshara but he has buried his emotions under teary eyes smiles. Just like he has adjusted to the truth that Abhir wont know truth yet but at least he is there to spend time with him, help n guide him. do projects n homework with Abhir. He takes him to park n spends quality time with him. After missing the formative 6yrs in his son's life even this much is crucial like oxygen to lungs.

He is living with Abhir in the same house as a paying guest but also making himself useful in every capacity. The top heart surgeon made being part of his lost son's life top most priority of his life. Its adorable and heart wrenching at the same time to see how he craves to be close to Abhir. So taking him to school, giving him meds, helping him to homework, play with him is now his everyday life.

As the marriage preparations start Abhi makes himself busy with Muskan's side of wedding preps but also being with the kids. The kids find Abhi the most approachable and comfortable to share their fears n faults with him, thats how he found the ring and was able to help muskan and the children from a lot of scolding n drama. And later he goes to pacify muskan along with the children.

Without letting anyone know of his broken heart and seeping pain he is creating sweet memories for everyone. Thats how he was able to pacify Manjari when she got agitated with the truth of Abhir still being hidden. The best son to his mother tried to be the best father to his lost son and requested his mother to trust his decision. The mother who found no reason to listen to him n was forcing him to marry for the sake of Ruhi finally heard Abhimanyu's plea and did not take any rash step till KV marriage is over. Thats the change we see brought by Abhir's truth.

This shows the growth of the man. He was gem of a human but had anger and anxiety issues. But with time he has directed his anger towards reasoning and acceptance. And the best quality about the man is when he knows his faults he acknowledges it not just with words but with actions. He is a healer and an empath. To understand him is to love him.

Abhimanyu Birla, the father who will do anything for the betterment of his child, even if it means to stay as Docman in his own son's life.

Universe ultimately recognizes the deserving and the best comes to those who sacrifice.


Thankyou for writing this! ❤️

So beautifully written 💕💕💕💕


I am glad to see so many folks understand the character Abhimanyu has been!


You can't keep judging a character by one white day in which he was in grief and the people who he loved were in shambles.


No way I am defending him for his mistakes but he can't be defined by that one day.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammygurl

Sab kuch maaro goli Daff waapis aagayi!!


I missed you too Ammy 😳🤗

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhimanyu ko Swami vivekanand ko follow karna chahiye and he should join Shri Ramkrishna mission to serve the needy and poor.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutiraina007


Thankyou for writing this! ❤️

So beautifully written 💕💕💕💕


I am glad to see so many folks understand the character Abhimanyu has been!


You can't keep judging a character by one white day in which he was in grief and the people who he loved were in shambles.


No way I am defending him for his mistakes but he can't be defined by that one day.

Honestly who cares even if people judge him for that day! He is shining from the first day of this season. Nobody is perfect and every character has shortcomings but I am glad to see at least abhimanyu knows where and when he went wrong unlike akshara who thinks she was 100% right for all her actions.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutiraina007


Thankyou for writing this! ❤️

So beautifully written 💕💕💕💕


I am glad to see so many folks understand the character Abhimanyu has been!


You can't keep judging a character by one white day in which he was in grief and the people who he loved were in shambles.


No way I am defending him for his mistakes but he can't be defined by that one day.

I think that white day was more of writers drastic attempt to save the show from going off air. It wasn't Abhimanyu. I don't believe how he was shown in show previously that Abhi as a character could have behaved that way. I feel sympathy for him and I feel Akshara behaves like she has zero feeling towards him. Its like she wants to punish him all his life. And she makes wrong decisions many times ..never gets called out for it..never realised her mistakes. They are making her look soo heartless. She didn't even once try to think what her decisions had caused ..the amount of trauma everyone was in. Even if she regrets it ..it hasn't been shown. Mrs Sharma is worst character written what I have felt

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Abhimanyu ko Swami vivekanand ko follow karna chahiye and he should join Shri Ramkrishna mission to serve the needy and poor.


The type of character he is, he won't hesitate.

He already helps the needy and poor via the Birla hospital charity.

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