Abhimanyu Birla: A father's love shines through his pain - Page 2

Abhimanyu Birla's journey as a father has been truly inspiring. Since learning that Abhir is his son, he has undergone a remarkable transformation. What I admire most about him is his acceptance of the love and care Akshara has given to Abhir. Abhimanyu prioritizes Abhir's well-being. He understands the importance of their bond and He has adjusted to the truth that Abhir won't know his paternity yet, but cherishes every moment he spends with him. Abhimanyu's actions speak volumes about his character, as he puts Abhir's recovery and happiness above all else. it's worth mentioning that he has also dealt with anger issues and anxiety in the past. However, over time, he has mellowed down and learned to manage these challenges to a certain extent. He helps everyone agree to the Kv-muskan alliance, showing his kind-hearted nature and ability to let go of grudges. Despite his own emotions and limitations, he remains a dedicated father figure to Abhir, cherishing every moment spent together. Abhimanyu's commitment to creating happy memories for everyone, while silently carrying his own pain, showcases his empathetic and healing nature. He is a deserving father who sacrifices everything for his child, even if it means staying in the background. Truly a father who will do anything for his child's well-being, even if it means staying as "Docman" in his son's life. The universe recognizes such individuals, and Abhimanyu's journey is a testament to that.

Beautifully written....truly speaking have only witnessed the unlimited bashing Abhimanyu Birla gets on this forum...more than half of the topics are opened here on a daily basis just to bash AB....agar woh kuch accha bhi kare to usme ulterior motive dhoonda jaata hai kyunki kuch accha aur kuch selfless karne ki whole sole agency kewal ek hi ke paas hai yahan...sabse badi baat ye ki the forum is filled with incidents describing Abhimanyu Birla's toxicity, yet people expect him to back out and make sacrifices for others...Kyun bhai??

Anyways , your writing perfectly describes why I am still addicted to this show and the prime reason is Abhimanyu Birla...and Harshad is doing an amazing job as the same...He has got amazing screen presence fo be honest combined with beautiful acting abilities... i agree he may not be at his best as Abhimanyu birla, still has the capability to bring life to such a complex character ....that itself speaks about his acting abilities.

At last would like to say you have beautifully captured the essence of Abhimanyu Birla's character and kudos to you for writing it here

Originally posted by: Supriya_B_S

The beauty of the character Dr Abhimanyu Birla his selfless and endless love amazes me every day. If nothing I am Thankful to the creators of this character, it was Abhimanyu that drove me to watch this series and I'd have to confess why, his love attention care exactly reminds of how I am made to feel by my family, he makes the person he loves center of every decision. This isn't everyone's cup of tea. We see that contrast on the show in itself where no one including Manjari and Akshara have been able to reciprocate the much deserved love of his.

Akshara in a confrontation to him said you did not make me a part of your family. Vengefully so she snatched the chance of Abhimanyu's family and gifted it to a stranger and also altering his son Abhir's chance to real family.

The beauty of the father who was once accused of not giving semblance of a family has given up all his self-respect to keep his love of life and his precious sons family intact.

It makes me question self, would anyone ever be able to live under the same roof where what belongs to him is claimed as own by a thief. He's disrespected constantly yet the gem only has love to give , making the thieves extended family his own and give them the respect that they perhaps don't deserve as they played along the facade. How does he bring that strength, it has got to be his selfless endless love for his son.

Iconic for real The Dr Abhimanyu Birla - Father of Abhir Abhimanyu Birla, Foster Father to Ruhi Birla

As though i am reading abt swami vivekananda and not Dr birla🤣no offense to the great man (the former) !

Fact of the matter is abhimanyu is staying in that sharma house only and only for the sake of his son which was cruelly and insensitively snatched from him . No romantic angle , nothing at all . He kept aside his self respect , put up with all taunts , disrespect , just for his son .

A lot of men tolerate their toxic and even unfaithful wife because they know if divorce happens the kid's life would be affected in a negative way.

It's very obvious that he won't even flinch an eye if akshara and abhinav go on to have 5-6 kids . He just wants and has rights over his son abhir .

Had it been in real life , abhimanyu could have easily won joint custody of abhir . Because in real life the kid cannot be snatched from a father just because the father is not in good terms with the mother .

It's funny that people has whole forum and a lot of topics to criticize n bash abhimanyu .....still can't bear any topic praising abhimanyu birla

Originally posted by: Krinya

As though i am reading abt swami vivekananda and not Dr birla🤣no offense to the great man (the former) !

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too good ho aap.....

Originally posted by: sunny842011

It's funny that people has whole forum and a lot of topics to criticize n bash abhimanyu .....still can't bear any topic praising abhimanyu birla

Ignore the -ve ones it will spoil your mood. What one practice repeatedly makes the character so dont even bother.

Thank you for this post♥️. Abhimanyu is my only reason to start and watch this show. I always felt Akshara doesn't love Abhi as much as he loves her. She always gave preference to someone else over him. And how much cruel she is to him that she feels no feeling at all towards his pain of missing out his years with Abhir. But Abhi deserves Abhirs love which I am happy he is getting♥️

Good to see 32 abhimanyu supporters. People are openly showing their admiration for Abhimanyu character. Isse pehle yaha bashing he zyada dekha tha, Aj pata chala ki yaha itne saare logo ko abhimanyu ki acchai dikhti hai.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Since the day he came to know Abhir is his son there is a change in his persona. The best thing about this man is that he accepts the love and care Akshara has given to Abhir. The boy is so sorted, mature and smart makes AB proud and he is genuinely grateful to AK. He accepted Sharma's and his situation with humility and it shows the strength in character of DR. Abhimanyu Birla.

We have been given that Parth used to threaten Shifali about his power and reach if she took Shivu away. We were told that politicians and influential people are their associates. But Abhimanyu never threatened Akshara about his reach in community. ABhi understood that any action he takes also directly affects his son and their current equation and Abhir's safety was his priority. Abhir has always felt the connection with his DocMan but Abhimanyu never tried to test the bond with any unnecessary action or influence. He always asked for permission from Akshara in spite of knowing that she hide Abir from him.

He did custody case only to put stay on it midway coz that was best for Abhir's recovery and well being.

After he operated on Abhir one would have thought there would be some change in Akshara's behaviour towards Abhimanyu but her animosity only grew if that was possible.Its only when she confirmed with Abhir that Docman had not told him abt his paternity and Abhimanyu assured her that he will trust her to tell Abhir truth, she dropped her discourteousness. Immediately her attitude towards Abhi changed 180degrees.

Abhimanyu helped everyone agree to Kv-muskan alliance. Its a chance to see the man has a heart of gold and has no interest in holding grudge or revenge on anyone. He is perfectionist DOC with faults and works hard to rectify mistakes as soon as he realises them.

Him making n serving samosas to Goenkas, helping clean marriage guest house or bring basket is his way of being useful at all times.

He also knows his limits he is still in love with Akshara but he has buried his emotions under teary eyes smiles. Just like he has adjusted to the truth that Abhir wont know truth yet but at least he is there to spend time with him, help n guide him. do projects n homework with Abhir. He takes him to park n spends quality time with him. After missing the formative 6yrs in his son's life even this much is crucial like oxygen to lungs.

He is living with Abhir in the same house as a paying guest but also making himself useful in every capacity. The top heart surgeon made being part of his lost son's life top most priority of his life. Its adorable and heart wrenching at the same time to see how he craves to be close to Abhir. So taking him to school, giving him meds, helping him to homework, play with him is now his everyday life.

As the marriage preparations start Abhi makes himself busy with Muskan's side of wedding preps but also being with the kids. The kids find Abhi the most approachable and comfortable to share their fears n faults with him, thats how he found the ring and was able to help muskan and the children from a lot of scolding n drama. And later he goes to pacify muskan along with the children.

Without letting anyone know of his broken heart and seeping pain he is creating sweet memories for everyone. Thats how he was able to pacify Manjari when she got agitated with the truth of Abhir still being hidden. The best son to his mother tried to be the best father to his lost son and requested his mother to trust his decision. The mother who found no reason to listen to him n was forcing him to marry for the sake of Ruhi finally heard Abhimanyu's plea and did not take any rash step till KV marriage is over. Thats the change we see brought by Abhir's truth.

This shows the growth of the man. He was gem of a human but had anger and anxiety issues. But with time he has directed his anger towards reasoning and acceptance. And the best quality about the man is when he knows his faults he acknowledges it not just with words but with actions. He is a healer and an empath. To understand him is to love him.

Abhimanyu Birla, the father who will do anything for the betterment of his child, even if it means to stay as Docman in his own son's life.

Universe ultimately recognizes the deserving and the best comes to those who sacrifice.

This show has become so unbearable now! It’s like a never ending nightmare since the past 6 months. Every week I kept waiting for the story to take a turn but it still stinks like stagnant water. The only character growth I have seen in this show is of Dr. Abhimanyu Birla. The injustice done to this character cannot be said in words. Majority of the audience behave like they are some saas tortured bahu abla naarees. My love and admiration for Abhi outweigh the flaws they point at Abhi. He is the most passionate person I have ever seen in my life. So driven yet so emotional. So unstable yet the most still. So loving yet never loved. He is the brand ambassador of deserves better. He deserves a better mother than Manjari who was never present in his tough times. Never gave him that safe space to confide in her, his utmost personal fears and desires. He deserved a better father who didn’t make his life a waking nightmare. He deserved a better brother who stands by him in his troubles and doesn’t abandon him when his opinion is against him. He deserved a better lover who would respect his love and affection and at least have the decency to reject him respectfully. No one deserves a push and pull love that only depends on your feelings and your convenience. He deserved a better wife who didn’t up and leave at slightest inconvenience. Every argument ended with Akshara running off to Goenka house, and recently to pathankot. I hated Akshara for doing that but tried understanding her pain alas could never completely understand.

Now Akshara took away the rights of a father to punish the mistakes made by a husband. I would never forgive Akshara for doing the fatherji kaand. She still insults and humiliates him at every opportunity she gets. She humiliated him, his love, their marriage, everything. Calling him names, calling their marriage an umarkaid, calling him undeserving of being a father. She demands trust, respect, loyalty and much more when she couldn’t give him even an ounce of it. She is keeping quite coz she knows Abhi won’t reveal the truth. Even now Abhi is saying he would trust her to tell Abhir the truth but she won’t ever. You know why? Coz she knows she is scared of loosing Abhir. She is selfish and calls Abhi selfish for wanting to be a part of his son’s life. He has let go if his desires and wants now. He is just going with the flow. He is getting a chance to see his son learn new things and he is finding happiness in the little things. He knows he may never get the chance to be called “papa” but is just happy to see his son be praised and celebrated. The man these people hate so much operated on his son and not one person around him asked if he was okay. Everyone talks about the mother’s pain. What about the father who had the responsibility of his son’s life and death in his hands and can’t afford to fail. No one talks about his state of mind and the mental trauma he went through.