Originally posted by: LifeOfWhy
Agree 👍
@bold: felt good knowing about your life after marriage... Actually yeh patience-waale mard humaare yahaan toh bohot kam milte hai! Milte hai tab toh unki kuch aur buri aadat hoti hai! Yahaan saara tantrums mardon ka hota hai... Patience aurat ko dikhaani padti hai!
And yeah... It's good to take good time to settle in a marriage, one step at a time! Two people come from two different backgrounds! But efforts should be mutual! Aapas ka rishta & doosron se rishta sab donon milke sambhalna chaahiye!
Desi families mein parenting, ghar & rishte sambhalna are almost wife's duties... Husbands earn money & scold kids, if kids do some blunder they come complaining to wife "tumne apne bete/beti ko bigaad ke rakha hua hai" And if kids have tarakki they take credits like "dekha, mere bete/beti ne kya kar dikhaaya"...🤣
That made me desire for someone who would rightfully be termed as a partner instead of "husband", during my school days itself!😆
Yup Desi families are like that...Same here..I saw my parents and decided during school time itself that I would always be an equal in marriage never secondary...
Gave a long lecture on women's rights when I meet my husband so that he would have an idea what I thought before marriage itself🤣
Lots of love to you...hoping you get what you want in life
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