Very true. life is icky messy and non linear. He may not be the straight out villian but he failed her in very important matters. Safety, respect and security. Forget love. He failed her in those. Every girl needs that.
The funny thing is I'd even understand if she goes back to him. It's hard to survive out here. Especially in certain places or cultures. No offense to anyone but this is true. And more than that if you're a mother there is nothing in the universe you wouldn't do for your child.
Phir dilme bas silent shikwa rehjati hai.
If we go out to look in reality murtasim is still better than 95 percent of them all men. You can't just get a new person. That person will have flaws as well. It's sad that we the women only have to make the greater and heavier sacrifices.
I'm just sad that we took a turn for worse this way. Chalo let's accept murtasim has many flaws. Why destroy meerabs character? Her common sense.? Complete mockery of her abilities. Even an uneducated maid who is single mom of couple are stronger in real life and more intelligent than what Meerabs portrayed. I have seen this first hand.
I guess my main issue is there. Nooran doesn't understand the intricacies of being a female human. So when you can't feel understand or empathize you only come up with unnatural unfeeling scenarios.
Alizba ji, agree with all your points below but another factor you have to agree is life isn't a straight road where we have everything laid out. It's always about hope to improve and scale it upto our aspirations. Hence, nothing wrong in aspiring to have something. Love makes us aspire and let the math of brain fail.
As APJ Abdul kalam ji once said "dare to dream care to achieve", the greatest a person becomes when the mightiest challenge they face, remember diamond in the rough isn't as valuable as the toughest diamond which has gone through the harshest grind.
If a husband who is a 5 star chef makes a meal for his wife isn't as great as a husband who's never cooked before cooks a simple daal chaawal exclusively for his wife. The difference is love/chaahath of heart, it reduces us so much that we just want to do anything to be with that person, life seems complete, content and waking up next to them gives sukoon/peace. If meerab really fell real and hard for murtasim she'll fight with takes her place, which she rightly deserves.
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