Goodbye Satya Adhikari - Page 22

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

This amd for Sai remembering SaiRat flashbacks as she was touch virat was disgusting on her part

Like next level

What's wrong is wrong

No one here is bleming Sai for having feelings for Virat but acting on those feelings is cheating

Even her thinking about virat emotionally is wrong on sooo many levels

Sai should have called Virat family and told them to pick him up

I am not expecting her to stop thinking about him. It's not possible. She has to consciously steer her mind in some positive direction whenever his memories and emotions cloud her. Something she enjoys doing, where she feels productive. If my personal experience has taught me anything, to let go off a relationship that had gone wrong, you have to let go off all, happy experiences and painful experiences. Both come in a package. Try shutting both from occupying your heart. Over time, they start affecting you less frequently and with less intensity. One fine day they come to a point that they don't bother you. They will never go away, some residual feelings, of pain and hurt stay. You will never wish harm upon him but you would never want to go down that path again.

My father told me once there isn't any pain in the world that can't be healed, you just have to allow yourself to be healed. It takes a lot of will power and determination to move on from a relationship mere physical distance or marrying someone else doesn't work.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

All though we are joking about this but you know this is actually a fact people who are hurt actually do this sometimes hurt other the same way they were hurt once and it's like a whole concept

Some people even confessed that they feel Good going things that were once did to them

It makes them feel better and even get the feelinh of being powerful

You might be actually be onto somethings

Sai might actually get Kicks by hurting Satya

Disgusting behavior

wow… never thought from this perspective …

Originally posted by: melliflous

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wow… never thought from this perspective …

Fifty shades of Grey novel is there right. Hero is sexually abused as a child and he becomes sexual abuser when he becomes adult. From extreme pain, they can become extremely cruel. That is why you need to put an end to it initially itself

I watched show only from separation don't know much about what Virat did till then.

How does Sai trust that V is innocent? Why doesn't she give benefit of doubt that he might have harmed Satya in aggression ? Didn't he ever become aggresive and fought with Jagtap? Doesn't she know that he has anger management issues?

She trusts that person who can go to extent of torturing mother by putting her in jail for keeping his daughter away from him .How can she be so sure that he won't do anything to person who was getting closer to his daughter and she herself witnessed that insecurity when he initiated fight with Satya near school ?

Originally posted by: Renee001

I watched show only from separation don't know much about what Virat did till then.

How does Sai trust that V is innocent? Why doesn't she give benefit of doubt that he might have harmed Satya in aggression ? Didn't he ever become aggresive and fought with Jagtap? Doesn't she know that he has anger management issues?

She trusts that person who can go to extent of torturing mother by putting her in jail for keeping his daughter away from him .How can she be so sure that he won't do anything to person who was getting closer to his daughter ?

She even saw him initiating fight with Satya in hospital and near school.

He gave Jaan lelunga dhamki so many times. Even drunk, he was saying machar ki Tarah masal dunga

Originally posted by: pratyay

We see the serial very differently then. When Sai married Virat, it was a deal marriage too. There was no promise of love and companionship. Sai used to get irritated and restless with P constantly interfering in her life and disrespecting her, humiliating her. Its human, it has got nothing to do with deal marriage, real marriage etc. V showed red flags from the beginning. If Sai still fell for him, I will not put entire blame on Virat. What V was is right in front of her. That is why I stopped watching it because she chose to give V that place in her life.

I am not saying about all the crap that Sai had to endure at the hands of Chavan. Of course she suffered more. I was only speaking about the disrespect that Sai felt due to Pakhi and Satya due to Virat interference.

I know people will use the 18 year old vs Satya being grown up man, who got into it and Sai will get a clean chit.

I don't put her on the likes of Virakhi but for me she is ethically wrong here. Bina chuye bhi aap dard dikha sakte ho. She could have brought him inside, made him sleep on sofa, check for any injuries and stood and cried. The tears show her love for him but the distance she deliberately put shows her decision to stay away from him. I didn't see lust but I saw love, that shouldn't be displayed in that level when you are committed even in a namesake relationship with another man. Even if she didn't wipe his face off dirt, mar nahi jaega. Woh chuna boundary cross karna hai mere liye as it was unnecessary even from a doctor perspective.

That is why I said khud jaake khulhadi par Gira.

I have never contested Sai being wrong.

But Sai never knew who V was committed to. he didnt tell her that his ex or his "love" was his vahini whom she was gonna be living with 24x7 in the same house. she figured it out when she came to the shaadi in GC only. she hadnt really fully registered that that he was involved/ in love with his own vahini until she got married to him and landed up in CN.

V deliberately led her on, told her he didnt have any feelings for P while still being involved with her both in deal phase and after deal phase when shaadi was very REAL. and they were expecting a child together also. so I am not even counting the stuff Sai endured when it was purely deal phase. I'm talking about what Sai has endured even post confession, remarriage even at the point when P has been clearly exposed as being problematic, yet V put P over his own wife who had a miscarriage, had to tolerate Ps illegal surrogacy, child snatching, and even then after proving P wrong V sunaoed her and made her leave. and in all this not one person of CN has really stood up for her.

so what Sai has endured is so much more than just having a deal marriage.

Sai on the contrary has been very honest with Satya from get go. doesnt mean he will not be hurt or affected by her association with V when she is his wife and he has also developed feelings for her but she has NOT nearly put him through1% also of what V and P and CN did with her. obviously doesnt mean its fair to Satya or Sai isnt wrong. but to say Sai is worse than V and P as several posts have suggested is taking it too far!

Also her scene with V yesterday without the BGM and effects of the makers, if you just look at what she did, said or emoted- it was not inappropriate. She didnt know he'd be at her doorstep. she was caught offguard. she saw him drunk, barely conscious, stumbling. so she took him in, gave him water, made him lie down, wiped his face to make sure he is not injured and as she is doing all this she looks at him pitifully that the man she loved at one point is now in this state and shes not even his wife anymore. so thats why when I read comments that she was being too touchy with V, or that she should have just gone ahead and made out with him as if she is being lustful to him and is longing to be intimate with him- that stuff I dont agree with. the way she touched him was bare minimum needed for handling someone who is drunk and not even able to hold his head up ! In contrast V and P have done really cringe scenes.

More than Sai caring about Vs well being, where she has erred is the fact that she trusts V wont harm Satya. she has seen him assault Satya and threaten physically harm her,P and even kids in his rage so he is capable of it. so why so much trust in his innocence and so much eagerness to get him out of jail?! she can get him out of jail if she incidentally finds evidence that V didnt do anything but she is NOT required to do the job of the police or Vs family in proving him innocent. he has enough clout to get out of this himself. so thats what i find most problematic

thats what should be called out.

not this stuff about Sai wanting to make out with V and be intimate with him- aisa kuch nahi hai!

Originally posted by: pratyay

Fifty shades of Grey novel is there right. Hero is sexually abused as a child and he becomes sexual abuser when he becomes adult. From extreme pain, they can become extremely cruel. That is why you need to put an end to it initially itself

this is dark and scary to think of

Originally posted by: Nja91

I have never contested Sai being wrong.

But Sai never knew who V was committed to. he didnt tell her that his ex or his "love" was his vahini whom she was gonna be living with 24x7 in the same house. she figured it out when she came to the shaadi in GC only.

V deliberately led her on, told her he didnt have any feelings for P while still being involved with her both in deal phase and after deal phase when shaadi was very REAL. and they were expecting a child together also. so I am not even counting the stuff Sai endured when it was purely deal phase. I'm talking about what Sai has endured even post confession, remarriage even at the point when P has been clearly exposed as being problematic, yet V put P over his own wife who had a miscarriage, had to tolerate Ps illegal surrogacy, child snatching, and even then after proving P wrong V sunaoed her and made her leave. and in all this not one person of CN has really stood up for her.

so what Sai has endured is so much more than just having a deal marriage.

Sai on the contrary has been very honest with Satya from get go. doesnt mean he will not be hurt or affected by her association with V when she is his wife and he has also developed feelings for her but she has NOT nearly put him through1% also of what V and P and CN did with her. obviously doesnt mean its fair to Satya or Sai isnt wrong. but to say Sai is worse than V and P as several posts have suggested is taking it too far!

Also her scene with V yesterday without the BGM and effects of the makers, if you just look at what she did, said or emoted- it was not inappropriate. She didnt know he'd be at her doorstep. she was caught offguard. she saw him drunk, barely conscious, stumbling. so she took him in, gave him water, made him lie down, wiped his face to make sure he is not injured and as she is doing all this she looks at him pitifully that the man she loved at one point is now in this state and shes not even his wife anymore. so thats why when I read comments that she was being too touchy with V, or that she should have just gone ahead and made out with him as if she is being lustful to him and is longing to be intimate with him- that stuff I dont agree with. the way she touched him was bare minimum needed for handling someone who is drunk and not even able to hold his head up ! In contrast V and P have done really cringe scenes.

I didn't watch post deal phase. Only on and off. I will take your words as truth. Honestly Samrat is 100 times the man V is. God knows why P didn't treat him fairly. After deal phase and V giving enough red flags, I didn't understand why Sai fell for him in the first phase.

Sai is a doctor. She can be more clinical in her approach to tending to Virat. I am not saying she was touchy in that sense. She did more than that was required in my eyes. I read longing in her eyes not nostalgia

Originally posted by: melliflous

this is dark and scary to think of

It's gross. Heroine falls in love with him at first sight and gets into a legal contract of sexual abuse where they decide terms. It was a very popular novel and my friends in college were going gaga over it. I couldn't even read 100 pages of it without skipping significant portions.

Young woman love that bad guy turned good after her love touched him type stories.