TERE BIN ,DT 109 "Meerab , jise main bepanah mohabbat karta hoon" - Page 40

Originally posted by: SheThought

Well, it goes both ways.

Meerab can also marry Rohail who claims to love her a lot and she has never objected to it or some other guy that she chooses herself.

@bold

It is good for both.

She doesn't have to be in this unwanted marriage and can live a life of her choice.

He doesn't have to keep trying to work this one sided marriage that he didn't want to be a part of in the first place.

Didn't I mention she also can remarry. Would have said rohail as a choice had her mahaan husband didn't sent his people to beat that man for nothing.

No one forced poor boy to take part in the unwilling marriage.

Meerab had the reason of shelter to say yes. He had no reason.

He could have divorced her post marriage too especially when his mother gave him choice.

I am sure feudal lord knows this much.

Well now it's great chance. He can live peacefully now.

I understand where you are coming from. Today’s episode totally doesn’t make sense, and they have used Meerab as a sacrificial lamb all the time. BUT how does MR makes sense in the narrative if you’re watching from the beginning/or rather the day they signed the contract? Suddenly, in one episode Murtasim assaulted her in anger? It’s simply poor writing and direction.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

In his own words he said he is saying no only because meerab wasn't happy

Meerab doesn't know he said no to his family

Their interactions pre her birth secret revealation all about him provoking her to say no & telling her why should I say no , u go & tell.

That's why meerab says u didn't show courage that's why I had to say yes

I completely disagree with the point that she proposed him & asked him to marry her

She didn't.

She said she is saying yes out of helplessness of shelter

Never told him u also should say yes.

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Soooooo disapppointing year. Going on 5 months…this is what we get? And also… how did she suddenly want to jump his bones? I mean, it is shown that she has finally realized her love for him, but to go directly from nothinggg to sex ? It just doesn’t jive for me with her character unless I start to come up with additional rationalization beyond what we have been shown. And man… haven’t we had to do enough of this backstory writing already? I’m just tired of it all :s I have hardly any interest in watching the episode tomorrow. But I will …while doing something else productive like cleaning my toilets or something.

Sigh, true.

After this and the poor damage control, the whole premise of the plot is lost. If I haven't understood wrong, this show was about Meerub and Murtasim's love story, right? About how two people as different as chalk and cheese are thrown together under a union and they come about to understand each other's differences, their contrasting personalities, their clashing morals and ethics and how with battling one thing after the other, they come together in harmony and love, right? Then, the confession which we haven't gotten so far and the consummation that came untimely, so haphazardly and unpleasantly should have been the last seal. Meerub tearing the contract papers, confessing her love to Murtasim, them coming together truly as a husband and wife in all aspects and leading a life as Khan and his Khani.

There wasn't a need for the separation track at all, imo. Mariyum-Zubair's track had done it's job in separating them, Haya and Rohail were enough catalysts to drive them apart time and again and cause misunderstandings, ego clashes, conflicts and distrust between them, there was enough of family dynamics involved in the form of other familial relationships as well, Maa Begum, Anwar, Waqs and Anila. Koi zarurat hi nahi thi bhai. The show should have concluded with a confession/consummation and happy ending after Mariyum's marriage and her own happy ending with Naurez and Haya rotting alone.

I know that’s it not really a topic explored in PTV, but physical intimacy with someone you love, whether in the heat of the moment or not, results in some connection. It’s not just hot sex with some hot guy you pick up at the club. In that situation, it’s just sex. With Meerab and Murtasim, they are a husband and wife that have such an emotional history already and they both do love each other. It should have brought up some tenderness within themselves, in reality… this cold behavior and overly angry reaction afterwards is not believable to me. And it’s not like they were drunk to the point that it wasn’t totally consensual. Angry enraged sex is not the same as intoxicated sex.
I dunno. I’m annoyed that the sex aspect of marriage was kind of just treated like it was a random party fling leaving them disgusted at themselves instead of looking at it as a physical union. If you don’t want to discuss it then don’t, but then why the need to create this type of a reaction.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I thought the consummation would bring them closer but it ended up driving them apart 😢

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Kumuda I cannot tell you how relieved I feel to hear you say this. A voice of logic and sense. Some People here and on social media (mainly fan pages not real people) are saying they never shot it as MR. That's delusional reaction and a refusal to except reality. Sure they changed the context but this drama cannot be viewed without the true context. Otherwise nothing makes sense and it's unfortunate.

I was hoping the episode would have been shot differently but no. They did terrible and funny voiceover

They have butchered meerabs character to save murtasim

She said don't touch my hair after episode 20. The best episode where he tells her that he will live and die for all her mistakes and wrongs. She didn't allow him after that so do you think she'll allow after seeing haya with him? After spitting and slapping?

I hundred percent agree with you @bold

They turned murtasim the criminal into a hero again. And meerab the victim into a silly idiot.

1.He pushed her to bed and closed the door and then she agreed? And then initiates?😆 you gotta be brainless and shameless to believe that.

2.Who walks out at midnight after this consented thing?

Crazy fans: she was ashamed of how she lost control.

Are you $ucking kidding me? Like meerab and lost control? It's Murtasim that keeps coming very close to loosing control almost all the time. This is a cruel accusation on meerab

3.And your points: haya's dialogues that you always scream your marji but this time you had no marzi. She even gave context of husband ki hatho hi

4. Edited that flashback scene of her saying she'll walk out the day the contract breaks. It's not there in the original episode.

5. Her face, body and halat are not of regret and anger only. Don't insult yumnas portrayal of a victim.

6. They gave meerab a monologue. It was never done before as they didn't even consider her worth a person.

7 no one punches mirror and shows that amount of guilt or lifelessness

8. Bakhtu and murtasim's dialogue implies he needs forgiveness.

9. Haya telling meerab that his punishment is that he dies to to see your face. Why would you punish him if you initiated.

10. The writer , head Marie admits!

In last episode itself she legit slapped him for holding her hand because she thought he cheated on her

Such girl will breach the contract?

We r supposed to believe this by overlooking her traumatic face

She didn't loose control when he almost kissed her on date

Now she lost control?

The fact that everyone knows meerab again made scapegoat to save their ml

But who cares? Let's bash meerab first. What if our hero character got saved because of her character sacrifice. Let's pretend blind & bash her.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Kumuda I cannot tell you how relieved I feel to hear you say this. A voice of logic and sense. Some People here and on social media (mainly fan pages not real people) are saying they never shot it as MR. That's delusional reaction and a refusal to except reality. Sure they changed the context but this drama cannot be viewed without the true context. Otherwise nothing makes sense and it's unfortunate.

I was hoping the episode would have been shot differently but no. They did terrible and funny voiceover

They have butchered meerabs character to save murtasim

She said don't touch my hair after episode 20. The best episode where he tells her that he will live and die for all her mistakes and wrongs. She didn't allow him after that so do you think she'll allow after seeing haya with him? After spitting and slapping?

I hundred percent agree with you @bold

They turned murtasim the criminal into a hero again. And meerab the victim into a silly idiot.

1.He pushed her to bed and closed the door and then she agreed? And then initiates?😆 you gotta be brainless and shameless to believe that.

2.Who walks out at midnight after this consented thing?

Crazy fans: she was ashamed of how she lost control.

Are you $ucking kidding me? Like meerab and lost control? It's Murtasim that keeps coming very close to loosing control almost all the time. This is a cruel accusation on meerab

3.And your points: haya's dialogues that you always scream your marji but this time you had no marzi. She even gave context of husband ki hatho hi

4. Edited that flashback scene of her saying she'll walk out the day the contract breaks. It's not there in the original episode.

5. Her face, body and halat are not of regret and anger only. Don't insult yumnas portrayal of a victim.

6. They gave meerab a monologue. It was never done before as they didn't even consider her worth a person.

7 no one punches mirror and shows that amount of guilt or lifelessness

8. Bakhtu and murtasim's dialogue implies he needs forgiveness.

9. Haya telling meerab that his punishment is that he dies to to see your face. Why would you punish him if you initiated.

10. The writer , head Marie admits!

Exactly. MR doesn't make sense if you watch the first 45 episodes. That's horrible writing for you. The murtasim and meerab we know would never behave this way.

But what I'm saying is if you watch episode 46 ending and watch the actions taken by both meerab and murtasim in 47 then only MR makes sense. The voiceover makes no sense.

Why would a girl initiate with a husband she just slapped, spitted on, who just pushed her to bed, threatened her and she also assumes he cheated on her. Why would she loose control or initiate anything ?

She'd shake with anger and she did. They made a joke of her situation. They humiliated and insulted a females NO by making her loose control to save the hero.

Does that make more sense to what I'm trying to say?

Sorry for my rant and if it's not clear

Originally posted by: CranberryQueen

I understand where you are coming from. Today’s episode totally doesn’t make sense, and they have used Meerab as a sacrificial lamb all the time. BUT how does MR makes sense in the narrative if you’re watching from the beginning/or rather the day they signed the contract? Suddenly, in one episode Murtasim assaulted her in anger? It’s simply poor writing and direction.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Didn't I mention she also can remarry. Would have said rohail as a choice had her mahaan husband didn't sent his people to beat that man for nothing.

No one forced poor boy to take part in the unwilling marriage.

Meerab had the reason of shelter to say yes. He had no reason.

He could have divorced her post marriage too especially when his mother gave him choice.

I am sure feudal lord knows this much.

Well now it's great chance. He can live peacefully now.

And I hope he takes this chance and let her be.

He tried his best, but now he needs to stop trying.

I think the writer wanted to show marital rape but that love can overcome. When someone loves, they can put up with anything. Because Meerab had fallen in love with Murtasim and will have daughter by him, she can forgive anything including the major bewafai of marital rape. That was the original messaging and theme of the drama.