TERE BIN -Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT #103 Apne Aukat Me Raho - Page 9

A moment to praise Wahaj's acting,

When KMk is all good we feel like he is so loving and is not even capable of killing an ant.

But then when wahaj has to show KMK's ugly side, he did it do brilliantly that now we are so afraid.

Originally posted by: Priyankaakdha

and the sad part is this is glorified by women only ... they think if a man is not doing rape , helping wife in house chorus , then he is a devta ...

but the thing is this is basic ....

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

aur comments must be off

Oh not at all! You are good with your words and i completely agreed with your point :)

the best thing is on this forum we can have healthy discussions, rant, vent with respect unlike Twitter and IG where it’s a battlefield. Almost scary how people are defending and defiling Murtasim and Meerub at the same time.

Originally posted by: Priyankaakdha

thats exactly what i want to say ... thanka for getting my point 😭

i am not good with words

Originally posted by: Mari_a

A moment to praise Wahaj's acting,

When KMk is all good we feel like he is so loving and is not even capable of killing an ant.

But then when wahaj has to show KMK's ugly side, he did it do brilliantly that now we are so afraid.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

What has gone wrong and What is the real Problem?

RANT COMING

- Meerab and Murtaims solo fans have ammunition to destroy this couple with impunity. They were never meant to be, they were always a toxic couple and everyone who rooted for them were delusional fools. TB fans didn't understand these characters for 46 episodes we were in some alternate dimension/space watching some other show because we are that bloody stupid. And don't quote me Murtasim janwar dialogues, his bark is worse than his bite.

- Anyone and Everyone who didn't like TB to begin with can crucify this show. They are now free to say this show was always about sex not love, it is Mills and Boon, it is fifty shades, it is trashy romance about a horny guy who just wanted to have sex with a woman. Consent what you talking about, never heard of it before in this show.

- This leads to the next problem man versus woman. That a woman is ultimately responsible for a man's sin, she makes him sin so she is the real sinner. Meerab has been withholding consent and she has every fouckkingg right to do so till the end of times. I don't fouckkkinggg care if she spit on his face or kicked him in the balls he can't rape her that is not how this works. But by pushing her actions to the extreme it has brought out the conservative religious zealots out of their hiding places that say that a husband must keep a wife in her place, if he doesn't then her nasty behaviour is the husband's fault, where is your manhood boy. This means a husband can use any means necessary to check her bad behaviour and he will be justified in doing so because she provoked him first.

- Meerab has no right to refuse sex to her legally wedded husband it is shohar's haq, if he wants it he can take it any time wants. This is according to Pak islamic laws that marital rape is not a crime (this is not me this is SM), so what is he does rape her what is everyone screaming about. Fans are overreacting he is her husband guys take a chill pill and enjoy the happy DDLJ ending.

- Anything can be redeemed in the name of love. All that matters is that Murtasim loves Meerab, so what if he committed one of the worst crimes that a man can do to a woman. Oh baby I am sorry now let me give you a jappi pappi hug, I am really really sorry. Besides you did so many things I forgave you why can't you not forgive me this one tiny mistake and what is really important is I love you oh sooooooo much.

- TB fans are outraged that the character of Murtasim is ruined more than about the issue of Marital rape. Please spare me the moral high ground, we don't want Murtasim ruined not because we love Murtasim but we actually take the crime of Marital rape SERIOUSLY. Martial Rape should should be addressed in a well made drama, written by someone with real credibility not this evil ekta kapoor wannabe Nooran. It should be shown with maturity, the story should be about MR, what are the horrific consequences, what is the punishment, is redemptions possible if so why, if not then what does a woman do. MR is not a punch line for a promo cut, it is geo/7sky that has made this crime into a joke by using what is a painful subject for so many women as a promotional gimmick to get TRPs.

- The 2 dramas I watched Muqaddar and Bashar Momin both had MRs. Was it addressed with any sensitivity nope, was it even considered a crime nope, was the guy redeemed yup, was the trauma of the women even properly acknowledged nope. What is the stats of MR being shown in Pak Drama, I don't know, but I bet it is high so this backlash isn't just about TB. This is about decades of Pak drama producers using MR as a plot point in their story lines without acknowledging its serious consequences. And by doing so they taint Pakistan, and since TB has extensive global popularity Pak culture, religion, laws everything is being judged, scrutinized, and debated around the world.

- This drama was promoted as romance not a societal cause drama. If Murtasim was capable of committing this crime, then we should have been forewarned, they should have made it perfectly clear from the start and the audience is mentally prepared to handle what is coming. But did they do that no they didn't. They falsely promoted their characters so should we not be upset about this. You can't make the hero rape the heroine on the 47 episode and end the show in a few episodes. By doing so this is just all the previous problems put together, that means you didn't take MR seriously at all, why should he be redeemed because he loves her so all is forgiven, why did he do this oh because she behaved badly so she is to blame, oh right he was the husband it was never a crime to begin with.

The makers may not ever understamd what impact it plays on people's life, they just know how to make money out of everything. It's not about if he does this or not, it's problematic both ways.

(The audience I am talking about is the one talking some religious crap in the name of marital rape)

-If he does this and they show his redemption, the already 'team murtasim- whatever he does' audience will then ble meerab for 'provoking' him and the message the innocent audience (little kids watching the show) gets is even such a henious crime can be forgiven by being a devdas and crying on a pahad, afterall he is her husband. And the happy ever after we get.

But what people don't understand is this crime is impossible to forgive, and I don't think that any religion ever supported forcing a man or a woman against his/her consent.

And keeping the religion aside, think practically, after such incidents, even if some random person comes near you, jaan nikal jaati hai..let alone the same person who did this to you living with you for the rest of the life. And I am sorry I may sound harsh, but trusting the same person with your daughter is also not possible!

And lets us not even begin on the triggering warning.

-If he doesn't. (Iske chances zyada hai)

Well if he doesn't, then the makers are in for another cycle of backlash for using this sensitive a topic to rise above in the trp charts. What they don't understand is, they might get trps on this episode but they have lost the trust of the audience and many of us won't be able to make up our mind to watch another show of their's. They think that it is joke, a subject they can easily earn money with, but they don't care if this little joke of their's has given people anxiety or rewoke their trauma. Literally SHAME ON THEM!

Shame on them for ruining murtasim, meerab and the whole story. Shame on them for wasting all our time energy efforts and emotions on something they made only as a subject of earning money by any means. Shame on then for pulling such cheap publicity stunts, the audience (the rational one) won't forgive them everr! Even by hinting at murtasim doing this and letting us think he is capable of this, they have ruined it for us!

- Now comes the part I fear, what if he advances towards her but stops in his tracks.

And a part of the audience has already accepted the fact that this will happen and are ofcourse dreading the scene, and that is what fears me the most, what if he does move forward with an intention of forcing her but stops in his tracks..the people ,who are now ready to blame meerab for the marital rape, will then say ki dekho kitna acha hai, meerab ne itna kuch kiya pr fir bhi wo khud ko control kr rha hai, shauhar hoke bhi zabardasti nhi kr rha and that is exactly what I don't want. Thinking about forcing your wife or intending to do that is equally wrong if not more. But the people who are ready to justify the whole 'rape' are ofcourse gonna justify his 'intentions'.

In any of the given conditions, the makers and ofcourse the writer sahiba should be ready for the gaalis they are going to receive because they did play with our emotions and with this topic.

But what I don't understand is why bash the actors, atleast why now. Atleast wait till the episode. And even after that You have the right to question them but bashing them rigorously,is not done!

Originally posted by: CranberryQueen

yes 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

omg yessss!! I have been told omg you are so lucky because your husband helps you with chores. I reply every single time saying he is not. doing my personal chores. He is doing chores of the house he lives in 😂😂

at home , me and my younger brother do all the house chorus together ... if i am doing dishes , then he will do cleaning , if i am cooking and then he will do all chopping part...

Originally posted by: Mari_a

A moment to praise Wahaj's acting,

When KMk is all good we feel like he is so loving and is not even capable of killing an ant.

But then when wahaj has to show KMK's ugly side, he did it do brilliantly that now we are so afraid.

The way he pushed her and said “Uss contract ki…” and closed the door….jaan nikal gyi thi mere. 🥺🥺🥺

Wahaj was fabulous.
He scared the shit out of me. 🤬🤬

Even Yumna was perfect as Meerab as an angry wife.

They she asks him about the chit “khan hai note ?” And checks his coat.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

ok , but Meesam Kahan se aayi ??!!!!!

Your theory is perfect ..... But it doesn't justify the existence of Meesam 😭

I feel like in Thursday's episode may be we will get meerab's confession and consummation.Per iss ka baad something else will happen jis ke wajah se meerab will leave the place.