Tere Bin DT#102 (Yumna Zaidi-wahaj Ali) Gham aur hum - Page 42

Originally posted by: Moonks

I am ashamed because if this is going to happen I want Naurez to do it🥺

I want same. Ya toh na, koi bhi kre, it can not be MK.

I seriously on that level.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

https://twitter.com/Prerna210/status/1659922693011980290?t=jtCpRjMHu255NXZDhS0IQQ&s=19

What you reduced people to 💔

If MR happens...

Than sadly yes...

MZ is better than MK..

Oh god my heart is bleeding while writing this

..

Originally posted by: Nephy1

If MR happens...

Than sadly yes...

MZ is better than MK..

Oh god my heart is bleeding while writing this

..

No......

😭

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

thank you 👍 the trauma is real

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

Exactly.

MK's last line is: Meri kya aukaat hai aur uss agreement ki kiya haisyat hai tumhe abhi batata hoon.

We then see him lock the door.

The patriarchal culture we live in, our knowledge and assumptions about feudal systems, the coding we see in our local content has conditioned us to think that these cues imply SA / MR.

Jaise purani films mein ek ladki kisi ladke ko thappad maare aur woh ladka bole mein usko mazaa chakhata hoon, we know he means SA. We don't think this means he will TP her house, egg her car, file a police complaint or some other type of get back scheme. This is because this line has been used recurrently in multiple narratives to mean SA. Similarly, the dialogue and visuals we see here are usually coded as SA in our narratives so we assume this is SA too.

Our understanding of patriarchy and feudal systems also makes us think SA.

Agar kisi aur show jo feudal system pe based ho aur ek aurat ek mard ko thappad maare uss pe thooke and that man utters these lines, we automatically think ke SA hoga. Kyunke aise setup main agar kisi mard ki ego ko aisa lalkara jaye to his reaction is to assert his power and dominance over the woman thru sex.

But we have been shown that MK is not a typical feudal lord.

Think back to when MK found Maryam.

When MK finds Maryam, it is not immediately clear how MK will react.

In particular, look at his expression right after the FB as he moves towards Maryam (see pic)

Many people may have thought MK will yell at Mayam or slap her kyunke woh ghar se bhag gayee, khan family ki naak katwadi.

But he hugged her instead.

He did not condemn her, scold her, or respond in any of the ways we assume a man in a feudal system a patriarchal and conservative culture will respond.

The same is happening here.

It is all a misdirect.

Contract ki haisyat or apni aukat dikhana will not lead to SA or MR

Instead MK may rip the contract and say to Merub that it is not this agreement of paper that has made him comply with the terms (i.e. is kagaz ki koi haisyat nahin) but it is because he respects her choices, values her consent, and loves her (his aukaat).

Well said.. I agree with this!!

Originally posted by: Nephy1

If MR happens...

Than sadly yes...

MZ is better than MK..

Oh god my heart is bleeding while writing this

..

This pic used to give me butterflies , now it is giving me chills 🥲🥺

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

4 days, 0 hour, 56 minutes, and 23 seconds

4.0392 days

96.94 hours

5,816.38 minutes

348,983 seconds

Phir bhi feels to long wait.

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

so innu ....sab badhiya .

Tune toh majhdhar main chhod diya 💔

madhuuuu I am not fine after the promo, dimaagh kharab ho gaya hai ❤️

you know I tried really hard to stay here and put my thoughts across!

kaisi ho tum?

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Ur point is haya is better than meerab

Because haya loves him while meerab not?

i am not saying who is better.. I am just saying serials show women who reject the man that loves them as bad but not the other way round...