Tere Bin DT#102 (Yumna Zaidi-wahaj Ali) Gham aur hum - Page 40

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

kusum 🤗

how's she keeping up?

Originally posted by: Moonks

god I have reached at a point where I am ashamed of myself, but I need this for my sanity💔

Its alright...🤗

I know dear thats what attatchments do to you,I hate attatching to fiction shows which makes mockery of everything like this one.

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Its alright...🤗

I know dear thats what attatchments do to you,I hate attatching to fiction shows who makes mockery of everything like this one.

Originally posted by: Moonks

she is doing well, she is keeping her hopes high🤗

I really wish her hope doesn't prove futile! I am so terrified!

She is a bd celebrity. Yaar keya hype utha hain drama ka. Mekers & channel yehi chahte the

Everyone involved in the drama has seen the backlash and the trends by now. If they’re not saying anything and denying marital rape happens, it’s because they’re scared to admit it happens. The backlash will be even worse next week.

Originally posted by: Moonks

god I have reached at a point where I am ashamed of myself, but I need this for my sanity💔

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

hello girls!

is gundamwing around?

Innu!! You are back 🤗

Missed you alot ❤️

Yes gunn is here.. I think she is sleeping.. she will come online in awhile

Originally posted by: lalakhun

Such a waste of time watching this crap..

In some seriels, they have so much problem with the girl rejecting the male character who love her while falling for the guy who dont care about her..

Here in this serial, the guy is running after a girl (who i cant understand what did the guy see in her, she is immature and stupid) while rejecting Haya who was madly in love with him.. Is he blind? You cant see her love? Or is it women love have no value..? What are you trying to show? ..

Ur point is haya is better than meerab

Because haya loves him while meerab not?

Originally posted by: TR_19

MR will not happend for sure.

Murtasim the humanitarian

Loving caring balanced education person who has been clam. He forgive his enemies. He gave up his 1st chahat for his family. He gave away his land the was belong to his late father to MZ for his sister. He is ready to lose from his enemies for his family.

He always says if meerub even kill him he won't be no problem. Makers made murtasim into a dream man...crush for many girls.

There is no way MR would take place. I kind of agree with amna it could like hate u hate u than I love you type thing would play out.

Also now mariyam track is not over yet. In the promo mariyam's wedding night was highlighted. So they are mixing things up.

Exactly.

MK's last line is: Meri kya aukaat hai aur uss agreement ki kiya haisyat hai tumhe abhi batata hoon.

We then see him lock the door.

The patriarchal culture we live in, our knowledge and assumptions about feudal systems, the coding we see in our local content has conditioned us to think that these cues imply SA / MR.

Jaise purani films mein ek ladki kisi ladke ko thappad maare aur woh ladka bole mein usko mazaa chakhata hoon, we know he means SA. We don't think this means he will TP her house, egg her car, file a police complaint or some other type of get back scheme. This is because this line has been used recurrently in multiple narratives to mean SA. Similarly, the dialogue and visuals we see here are usually coded as SA in our narratives so we assume this is SA too.

Our understanding of patriarchy and feudal systems also makes us think SA.

Agar kisi aur show jo feudal system pe based ho aur ek aurat ek mard ko thappad maare uss pe thooke and that man utters these lines, we automatically think ke SA hoga. Kyunke aise setup main agar kisi mard ki ego ko aisa lalkara jaye to his reaction is to assert his power and dominance over the woman thru sex.

But we have been shown that MK is not a typical feudal lord.

Think back to when MK found Maryam.

When MK finds Maryam, it is not immediately clear how MK will react.

In particular, look at his expression right after the FB as he moves towards Maryam (see pic)

Many people may have thought MK will yell at Mayam or slap her kyunke woh ghar se bhag gayee, khan family ki naak katwadi.

But he hugged her instead.

He did not condemn her, scold her, or respond in any of the ways we assume a man in a feudal system a patriarchal and conservative culture will respond.

The same is happening here.

It is all a misdirect.

Contract ki haisyat or apni aukat dikhana will not lead to SA or MR

Instead MK may rip the contract and say to Merub that it is not this agreement of paper that has made him comply with the terms (i.e. is kagaz ki koi haisyat nahin) but it is because he respects her choices, values her consent, and loves her (his aukaat).