GHKPM WU & Episode daily discussion thread #116 DT P. 61 - Page 92

Yes you r right too illogical.

Kids won't ask any logical questions till entire drama is done (may be more than 6 months). Till then they r happy clicking selfies and doing Video calls and transmitting news from one house to the other.

Originally posted by: Moor278

To Sai Satya se shaadi kare ya kisi aur se.... she was not going to "get rid of V" ....

Unless Sai herself decides to get rid of Virat

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Funny how I remember stumbling upon a post somewhere else where it was being argued that the man shouldn't be called an abuser because the victim doesn't deem his very explicitly abusive actions to be abuse. Glad no such thing happens here.

Secondly, no matter how wrong her decision to marry Satya was a) Sai was given an out by Satya b) Sai is an adult responsible for her own actions c) Sai still does not deserve to end up with an abuser who locked her and her preteen daughter in a room against their will.

I remember clearly... it was me ... and I explained to you what I meant in multiple comments... which are still available on that thread last time I checked... please do take a objective look at it again.

I didnt say Sai doesnt recognise his actions as abuse.... I said for the sake of story she is made to willfully ignore them... that doesnt mean she doesnt recognise them... if she doesnt she wouldnt have walked off either... but all this is in makers hands not mine... this show is not my story...

Sai has always shown to be a bigger person, very forgiving in nature...

Just like V making mistakes is needed for the story to move ahead... Sai ignoring them and forgiving him (which she herself has said during his recent proposal, not me) is needed for story to move ahead.

My point has always been this... V and Sai are characters and not real people... If V can be bashed for poor writing, so can Sai... koi patthhar ki lakeer nahi hai ki hamesha sahi ho...

If Sai ... in spite of all this comes back to him in the end... what would you call her?

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Unless Sai herself decides to get rid of Virat

Exactly.... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Exactly this.. The silence..

There is nothing wrong in Sai being uncomfortable with Satya's touch but then she need to maintain her boundaries to..She was fine a day ago getting close to him for games sake not being uncomfortable but infact being friendly and now she has issue when he touches holds her hand without permission, things are fine when she holds his hands without his permission.. there has to be a proper storytelling..

Having said that Satya is very wrong when he is trying to touch her out of romantic reasons..I did not like him moving her hair..That was creepy.. Friendship k naam par it cannot be justified.

I don't see SaiYa fans being okay with Satya touching Sai(many have called it out, many want Sai to explicitly leave because she is being cold to Adhikaris who have been good to her and her daughter mostly she has been respected far more than her whole stay at Chavans in these 10-15 days) the way fans were fine with Virat mistreating her after Shruti track, because Sai Bai was in love, because Sai Bai was feeling attraction for the first time, because Sai Bai was falling for her husband.. Everything was fine because Sai Bai wanted it..It's like being fine with it all because a victim wants to be loved and abused by her abuser..

Also again coming to content precisely the fandom all of them, even me, let it all go in the name of the "love" Virat has for Sai when he tried to kiss Sai, asking her to close her eyes, expecting a gift..

She trusted him stood there, expecting a gift, when he leaned to kiss her without her knowing about it..

It was all abt, oh it's wrong but for the jodi sake we can ignore it..i was one of them too

Now that i see that scene, i feel so violated for a young Sai, what if Pakhi did not come, will Sai would have been fine with it given Virat kept stopping Pakhi from letting Sia know what was happening here...

Satya aur Adhikaris Jo bhi age jakar it won't make criminal DCP and Chavans any better or worthy for Sai or they'd be good even if Sai runs back to them like a puppy. That doesn't mean people would be okay with it just because Sai doesn't mind!

The silence & hibernation, selective amnesia, calling out pisses me off. Like today how cheaply he talked to Sai infront of Vinayak & lies is being spread when Sai didn't initiate any conversation with him. He saw her & CAed her again.

ML tag se ML hone mein pride lene se ML hota toh kiya baat hoti. One becomes ML with actions. He's been an outright villain throughout the show for majority in Sai's life, his actions. Always supported the evil. Assumptions ki basis pe kuch nehi chalta. Audience would see what's been shown. They didn't show any happy phase in Sai's life after she got remarried to that filthy creature! Going on missions don't make you an ML 😭

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Yes you r right too illogical.

Kids won't ask any logical questions till entire drama is done (may be more than 6 months). Till then they r happy clicking selfies and doing Video calls and transmitting news from one house to the other.

Vinu ko bada hoke CCTV ka business karna chahiye 😆

Originally posted by: Moor278

I remember clearly... it was me ... and I explained to you what I meant in multiple comments... which are still available on that thread last time I checked... please do take a objective look at it again.

I didnt say Sai doesnt recognise his actions as abuse.... I said for the sake of story she is made to willfully ignore them... that doesnt mean she doesnt recognise them... if she doesnt she wouldnt have walked off either... but all this is in makers hands not mine... this show is not my story...

Sai has always shown to be a bigger person, very forgiving in nature...

Just like V making mistakes is needed for the story to move ahead... Sai ignoring them and forgiving him (which she herself has said during his recent proposal, not me) is needed for story to move ahead.

My point has always been this... V and Sai are characters and not real people... If V can be bashed for poor writing, so can Sai... koi patthhar ki lakeer nahi hai ki hamesha sahi ho...

If Sai ... in spite of all this comes back to him in the end... what would you call her?

Again, stories can be written without abusers or hailing abuse as a form of love. Everything is not justified by "this-is-fiction." Otherwise literary criticism or film criticism wouldn't be paid jobs. Roger Ebert would have been flipping burgers at Burger King.

I don't remember whether I read it here or not so you do not need to justify yourself here. I am not moral policing you.

Niki asked yesterday why Sairat is despised despite a long history of toxic and abusive MLs. It is because when terrible or even character making repeated mistakes are written well, you see them as humans. There is some honour amongst thieves morality there. There is some paradox that makes the audience hate to love them. Antihero destablises your sense of morality.

Virat is just pure trash. There is no code of honour in him about any aspect of his life. There are days when he gives lectures about being brave and respecting the uniform and the next hour, he is beating up a civillian for marrying his ex while being married to Patralekha still. He is just spineless and punchable.

Sai is exhibiting the same spinelessness but she'd never be as bad as Virat as far as she doesn't become an abuser herself.

If she goes back to him, I would resign her to the unfortunate people who couldn't be helped because they chose not to be helped and are making their children miserable for their own spinelesness— which is returning to her abuser time and time again since the beginning.

Sai's character was always shown as a puppy beaten by her abuser and still following him. What she's doing now is just emotionally betraying other people to continue her goomed condition. Her butchering is not glaring. She is just starting to hurt other people to maintain the rosy image of her abuser. Because breaking out of grooming take shaurya.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Vinu ko bada hoke CCTV ka business karna chahiye 😆

Business se yaad aaya Chavans ka santra business ab kon sambhal raha hai? Mohit

Btw Karishma called "Sai bhabhi" today. Pata nahi blooper tha ya kya 😆

Originally posted by: Moor278

Vinu ko bada hoke CCTV ka business karna chahiye 😆

Originally posted by: Moor278

Vinu ko bada hoke CCTV ka business karna chahiye 😆