Originally posted by: firewings_diya
I am still mad at them for showing akshu like weak women who was very strong preleap and some one who needed a companion just to raise a kid.
Even animal moms raise their kid all alone. I would have still agreed if she got married to him after falling in love. Like take 2 years time see that no one came to meet you and you feel he is the best person and a friend for you and you got married makes sense. Or a friend finds her whom she know from childhoon and she gets married makes sense too as she knows him. But here she asking abhinav kya aap mere bacche ke papa banenege itself shows she got married only for kid.
Theek hai you got married for kid but have you realized you ruined that person's life who gave you shelter for 6 years. We are yet to see if she has told nav that she will never be able to love him before marriage. If not then she will be shown as some one who was selfish. You keep some one else in your heart and you also got married just because your incapable of raising a child all alone and the person whom you married you did not even give a right to be ur husband in first place. This is how she repays to the ppl who does good to her ?
It's looks more like you gave me shelter i will give you a family in return as i don't have anything else to give.🤢
It's not like she did not had an option she could have asked kairav to help her to settle down somewhere or she was all alone away from udaipur ek bhi dost nahi tha who could have helped her? Or may be ladies hostel? Kuch bhi karthe but they just made a complete mess of the story.
Both goenka sister had an option to not to choose this life. But they themselves got into this as they seek comfort in this life as it's less stressful as they don't have to raise child alone. But both had option to move to GFAM. Arohi could havevgone back to gfam and akshu could have gone to singhanias or asked kairav to help her to settle down somewhere with house keep.
This is why nav is highlighted more than akshu as akshu ne toh sirf janam diya baaki saara kaam navse karwaya woh bhi shaadi ke aad main.
In the end i know it's writers fault and they butchered abhira on that white day. For me akshu is butchered more than abhi as she lost her sherni character and she is unrecognizable for me right now with her nav jaap.
well we are living in the era where movies like "friends with benefits" and series like "bridgerton".
are there where couples connect for their own selfish reasons .
but what justified or what made them relatable where the time period.
here six years is a pretty damn long time to get your head straight and come out of your situation and be empathetic towards your child and the man who helped you .
that is exactly why i cannot connect with ak because whatever situation she is in she choose to be in it by herself . and now abhir will also be victim to it.
also marriage for convenience always has a condition.
but this type of situation works where both party are to the point and honest with each other what they want. ,today makers showed exactly that. abhi was marrying arohi for roohi and arohi intially for the same reason was marrying for her daughter only.
now when abhir came into picture that eq broke because arohi knew roohi can never be top priority as she had to share that space with abhir . so this treaty is on the verge of breaking. because both abhi and arohi exactly know what they want.
but in case of ak and abhinav.
fact is they are married for abhir ,
ak wanted nav to be father only. and this "kaarz" has overtime become so great now that sityuation is like a cycle . abhir cannot leave without nav and when abhir does something which displeases nav ak reprimands him so "nav doesnt feel bad" why because she feels empathetic towards nav for his support.
and if nav leaves again abhir will be sad so she need to make sure nav stays so abhir will be happy . its like a cycle .
abhinav first joinet this for abhir but now he loves ak .
this convenience marriage worked for 6 years because both of them are not honest about how they are feeling .
and honestly thats what is ridiculous about this leap though all the dialogues of ak to abhi about respect and love and palnewala and struggle seemed good . but fact is in these six years she lived like a fugitive burdened with kindness and trauma both now also in current ep more so than abhirs feeling she is more concerned about how nav feels.
and thats what triggers me , on top of that when writers make her say dialogues like mothers struggle, and middle class stature , i mean girl you are not single mother , and that toofani night was due to her own choice if she had informed any goenkas will they not help her . for her at that time her pride was more than her remaining sons life . and abhinav choose to be with her at that time otherwise what she would have done ,
in contrast her mother naira single handedly raised kairav doing even odd jobs she doesnt even contacted anyone from her family . that is what build up respect for characters like naira ..
here you dont take help from goenkas in most dangerous situation of your life and yet you contact them time to time after marriage i mean wtf ...
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