Originally posted by: Moonks
He went to meet Anas, he convinced his mother to meet his family and how did he trusts haya and MB when his mother said that she sure Meerub is involved he denied to listen to her he said that he trusts Meerub and when Meerub said that she has done this was the moment he accepted that and the only truth I think Mariam needs to tell that haya knew everything from the start and she orchestrated it by telling lies to Naurez. The only person who has been most hurt in this drama is Murtasim, but just because for the first time he chose himself over her he is wrong? And yes he trust haya but only with regards to his family he doesn’t trust haya in Meerub’s matter. There is no reason for him to not trust Haya regarding his family member, before Meerub, Haya never hurt anyone. If Meerub doesn’t trust Murtasim it’s her trauma but when Meerub has given him every reason to not trust her regarding this marriage, she has only fuelled his insecurities. If no one has stayed with Meerub then Murtasim’s case is no different, no one has ever stayed with him without their profit, and Meerub behaved no less, she herself accepted that she stopped talking to him when he did not listen to her. If and if only Murtasim was a girl then he could have escape many of his faults.
I guess i couldn't make it clear! I didn't mean Murtesim is wrong, i said i just felt bad!😅 Maybe bcz i believed he wouldn't leave her there like that! And i felt worse when the promo of Merub helping Maryam elope, so it's not about female or male character!
And i didn't mean to say Murtesim didn't try, we all know he tried his best, going against MB. But what we are not noticing is change in Merub. Let's consider 3 situations of forced marriages:
1) Me-Mu nikaah - until the moment she was expected to say Qubool hai, nobody knew she would back off. She didn't let Murtesim know what she's planning to do!
2) Nayla's nikaah - there she tried few times to communicate with Murtesim, he was rude & she didn't give in either! She ended up insulting him at panchaayat!
3) Maryam's mohobbat - for a change, this time Merub was not rude with Murtesim, she explained things in every possible way & unlike other times, she didn't say Murtesim is lying about Anas, she just said there might be a misunderstanding... She tried everything for Maryam that she couldn't do for herself! I'm not justifying her helping Maryam elope, she did hurt Murtesim by doing that & she deserves punishment for that!
And when she knew she did a grave mistake by sending Maryam with MZ, she didn't for once explained her side, instead accepted it as only her fault & PRAYED FOR MARYAM'S SAFETY & MURTESIM'S IZZAT!
@bold: Haya hurts everyone! Didn't she hurt MB by her kaala jaadu etc? Didn't she hurt Maryam by forcing her into the marriage which was supposed to be hers? Didn't she hurt Murtesim by twisting facts which made him ask Merub to go, after accident? She imitates MB & meets Naurez secretly (against their khandani rules)! She hurts everyone around her for her selfish "love"!
And I'm not explaining Merub's side bcz it's female, it's just that i can relate to her trauma to a certain extent...
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