TERE BIN-Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali DT#79 "Tumhari marzi ki Azaadi Mubarak" - Page 96

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

I hope she never goes back… that haveli really is a cage for her….unless the people that make it a cage are gone…sorry to be morbid. But…it’s just not her place…and they should all feel the consequences of forcing her to live there in the first place after abandoning her when she was a baby!!!

Yes.
Eventually when everything sorted out and they are finally together they can live happily in the village in that house with the swimming pool.
They will be happy just the two of them and we can have the DDLJ scenes 😆

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https://twitter.com/lilmisssassie_/status/1654274294749491200?s=46

Originally posted by: Alizba63

MZ and haya need to be ca$#@&ted.

For the rest there is place for forgiveness and compromise. For healing. If they reflect, apologize, try better by actions.

But those two are solid culprits. The SA would have happened given MZ wouldn't spare a goat forget a human. Nooran just didn't have the guts to write it due to some reason or fear that she just couldn't handle it herself. The writing that is.

100% agreee!!!!

These two cannot be redeemed!!!! 🤬

The rest are still not cunning like them. They are all flawed and can be forgiven provided that they change!!!

Originally posted by: Alizba63

That was just gross. Thses uneducated jahils

Take her to hospital. Get her treated, tested, get DNA whatever you need. Get her to trauma clinic. She's lucky nothing happened but they didn't know that.

Instead she's asking such as gross thing. Getting her married the very day.

Why didn't murtasim tell her to an emergency trauma centre before going home??? Or even after from home??

How are these people not educated?

Meerab is lucky to go home. Yes the adopted parents are losers. But they have a little more sense.

Ideally, yes to all those things.

But, the reception Maryam got was way better than someone like her would get in real life. In a feudal family, Maryam would have been 100% killed by Murtasim once he found her and the matter buried under the carpet (honor killing). For them to show Murtasim just giving her a bearhug and Anwar putting his hand on her head - was a huge step up - and what some would call unrealistic even.

I want to cite two real life incidents from urban educated and "open-minded" families in Karachi that I knew. They are not the sort to ever raise a hand on their women or yell at them so girls were not physically punished for their "transgressions" but you can see shades of Khan family reactions here:

• This girl in my neighborhood eloped with a guy who was beneath her family's socio-economic class when she was in grade12 (he was the driver of the van that would give her junior college pick up/drop off). Her family was connected. There was no official police case filed (izzat and all you know - same reason as MB) but they were able to mobilize cops and found her in 2-3 days. No hospital visits were done - her fam wanted to keep things as hush hush as possible. The girl was brought home and married off in less than 2 weeks to some guy who was a widower and much older than her (and not a good match) and lived in some second tier city in Punjab. This is the reaction of an urban, educated family we are talking about when a girl in their family eloped.
• My class fellow in grade 10 had a BF and she got pregnant. She eventually told her mom who got her an abortion. She was kept under strict surveillance after that and was married off when she completed 12th grade to some guy who lived in the US. For those 2 years, her father and brother refused to talk to her and even look her in the eye. She was a complete persona non grata in her own home. They were a urban and very liberal family mind you. By Pakistani standards, this would be called a very mild reaction.

In Pakistan, if you go to the hospital and they suspect SA/rape, they will not do any testing or physical check up without a police report being filed first. This becomes a huge deterrent for people to access hospital in these cases. I once volunteered for an NGO that worked with SA/raoe victims and the % of women who report these cases or even go to the hospital is very small - especially if you are of marriageable age, the less likely the family will file a police case or go to the hospital - agar login ko pata chal gaya to shaadi kaise hogee being one big reason.

Originally posted by: Gigi78752

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https://twitter.com/lilmisssassie_/status/1654274294749491200?s=46

i felt his pain when he said lets put a chaddar on the heart and to fulfill the worldly responsibilities 😢😢😢😢

That line hit me hard!!!! 💔

Originally posted by: Moonks

And one more thing, Now I think it’s not about any promise to his mother, his decision of taking her back to Karachi is because he thinks that she wants it, she wanted to leave him and he thought it’s high time that he gives her what she wants before she again endangers herself and others??

He didn’t make any promise to his mother that he will leave her

He did this because she thinks she will never forgive him, and will continue to put herself in danger as punishment to him. He actually doesn’t know the real reason for her anger against him.

tragic irony first time he has failed to figure her out and she is not telling either because she is scared of his response

Originally posted by: Heeba

100% agreee!!!!

These two cannot be redeemed!!!! 🤬

The rest are still not cunning like them. They are all flawed and can be forgiven provided that they change!!!

She’s MB’s sister’s daughter so not a khan blood at all but this beech walks around like she owns the damn place…you know I used to think why did MB decided to keep and raise haya but not meeru..that explains it all….she considers haya her own but not meerub…haya is her blood……her sisters amanat but meerub is her brother in law’s blood I guess not as special…not someone worth raising or loving…the only reason she wanted meeru to marry murtasim was for the property…she’s a villain as well..not as much as haya but she is no gray character…🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Originally posted by: Gigi78752

Yeah nooran will face our wrath if haya doesn’t face any consequences of her scheming…😑😑😑

She’s MB’s sister’s daughter so not a khan blood at all but this beech walks around like she owns the damn place…you know I used to think why did MB decided to keep and raise haya but not meeru..that explains it all….she considers haya her own but not meerub…haya is her blood……her sisters amanat but meerub is her brother in law’s blood I guess not as special…not someone worth raising or loving…the only reason she wanted meeru to marry murtasim was for the property…she’s a villain as well..not as much as haya but she is no gray character…🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

question!!! Is haya mb’s sister’s daughter or shanawaz’s sister.. cause i thought writer said fuppo’s daughter…

Yes… I was thinking that in real life Maryam would not have even been brought home in some cases. Also, I don’t think Ma Begam was forgiving Maryam in any way by bringing her home…I think she clearly wanted to save her izzat and she was getting rid of Maryam by marrying Naurez. So she wasn’t really “bringing her home” in that sense. She had this… you’re dead to me attitude as well.

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Originally posted by: hypnotoad

Ideally, yes to all those things.

But, the reception Maryam got was way better than someone like her would get in real life. In a feudal family, Maryam would have been 100% killed by Murtasim once he found her and the matter buried under the carpet (honor killing). For them to show Murtasim just giving her a bearhug and Anwar putting his hand on her head - was a huge step up - and what some would call unrealistic even.

I want to cite two real life incidents from urban educated and "open-minded" families in Karachi that I knew. They are not the sort to ever raise a hand on their women or yell at them so girls were not physically punished for their "transgressions" but you can see shades of Khan family reactions here:

• This girl in my neighborhood eloped with a guy who was beneath her family's socio-economic class when she was in grade12 (he was the driver of the van that would give her junior college pick up/drop off). Her family was connected. There was no official police case filed (izzat and all you know - same reason as MB) but they were able to mobilize cops and found her in 2-3 days. No hospital visits were done - her fam wanted to keep things as hush hush as possible. The girl was brought home and married off in less than 2 weeks to some guy who was a widower and much older than her (and not a good match) and lived in some second tier city in Punjab. This is the reaction of an urban, educated family we are talking about when a girl in their family eloped.
• My class fellow in grade 10 had a BF and she got pregnant. She eventually told her mom who got her an abortion. She was kept under strict surveillance after that and was married off when she completed 12th grade to some guy who lived in the US. For those 2 years, her father and brother refused to talk to her and even look her in the eye. She was a complete persona non grata in her own home. They were a urban and very liberal family mind you. By Pakistani standards, this would be called a very mild reaction.

In Pakistan, if you go to the hospital and they suspect SA/rape, they will not do any testing or physical check up without a police report being filed first. This becomes a huge deterrent for people to access hospital in these cases. I once volunteered for an NGO that worked with SA/raoe victims and the % of women who report these cases or even go to the hospital is very small - especially if you are of marriageable age, the less likely the family will file a police case or go to the hospital - agar login ko pata chal gaya to shaadi kaise hogee being one big reason.

We will be whole again soon ❤️❤️

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