Originally posted by: TheMsSupernova
I feel sorry for Murtasim, I really do. But Iâm angry. Not only with him, but with the whole family. I get that if he doesnât want this marriage anymore, he has the right to divorce her. I get that she did wrong. I get that she deserves punishment. Get angry, yell. Be disappointed. But to throw her out of the house. Why? What in the world does that accomplish?
What happened today made me realize that Meerub doesnât have a home. This was never her home, they were never her family. You can see it with the way they treat Maryam after what she did, and you can see it with the way they are behaving with Haya. Would they do the same with Haya when they find out what part she played in all of this? I donât think so. After everything she did, they just sent her away, brought her back again and acted like nothing happened. She is still part of that family. That is the saddest part, and what makes me angry.
This is the second time Meerub is being thrown out of that house. Third time when the place she called home has closed its door to her. How can she go back? How can she trust that she will not be thrown out again? How will she be able to rely on anybody ever again? Knowing that everybody she ever relied on abandoned her. She relied on these people to have a roof over her head and this is the second time they took it from her. She is a doll that is being thrown around. It just reminds you how vulnerable women are in this society. So little control on their own lifes.
Do people really throw out people they claim to love out of their house for something like this? I get that she did wrong, but her intentions were not wrong. She was stupid and believed the wrong person, but she didnât mean to hurt anybody. She had one track mind, and ignored a lot of problems this would cause. Was naive and stupid. Didnât think things through. But she really didnât mean for things to go this bad. I get that damage is done. People are hurt. Maryam was in danger. Murtasim lost a lot. But what do you achieve from throwing her out? How can you pretend that she was the only one to blame? Like she did all of this? She was a part of this, but so was everybody else. They refuse to see the problem and blame Meerub for everything. I can feel my blood boiling.
Her intentions weren't bad and you know what intentions do matter. That way she needed to explain herself. So that he gets why she did what she did. And she did not do what it seemed like she did.