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Originally posted by: hari15

Akshara doesn't want any of ruhi and aarohi nonsense near her kid. She has experienced that first hand. It's to kick abhi only not to keep those near her kid. As lead she can't openly say that na. Tomorrow she kicks abhi ulta.

Look at her eyes when she said to abhi " uski jaga kisiko milni nehi chayi ye ". That is how ar tortured her for years. Abhi mental thinks he brought ruhi up so she will be big hearted like him to accept anyone that comes in poppy life. Na this is ar ki beti.

Her poppy can't look at anyone except her. 🤣🤣🤣

Do dr dumb get to know her looks n indirect taunts is a big question

Whatever she said till now ,he took it ulta

Give respect to ur partner,he has started to respect jharu

Know the definition of love before marrying her,he has started to give promises n has got engaged

He is buddhuram ,gets only direct talks..

This time his son is involved,wait n watch his stand to give his true identity, Birla Boy...

Ayyo Akshu give him gyan directly before chudail mata comes n spoil every thing, brainwash him completely...

Well said 👏. Dumb Birla should be directly told as nothing gets into his head. Out of his impulsive behaviour and ego he does opposite.

Originally posted by: hari15

Akshara doesn't want any of ruhi and aarohi nonsense near her kid. She has experienced that first hand. It's to kick abhi only not to keep those near her kid. As lead she can't openly say that na. Tomorrow she kicks abhi ulta.

Look at her eyes when she said to abhi " uski jaga kisiko milni nehi chayi ye ". That is how ar tortured her for years. Abhi mental thinks he brought ruhi up so she will be big hearted like him to accept anyone that comes in poppy life. Na this is ar ki beti.

Her poppy can't look at anyone except her. 🤣🤣🤣

exactly this and people start akshu is getting manipulated no she clearly said she doesnt want this for abhir as she went through. Abhimanyu has to realise what his rooh is

GOENKAS AND BIRLAS NURSERY 😜😜😜

WHAT IS PARENTING? 🤔🤔🤔

Birlas and Goenkas have made phd in this subject. Whoever is the bechara abla nari in the family holding Trump cards like dead mom, dead papa, widow, orphan tag gets the best pampering where they can do anything and everything and escape it using one word my mom gone, papa gone, pati bhi gone and you all don't care about me. 🥳🥳🥳

Idiot akshara didn't know how to use such cards or else she could have been queen in both goenkas and birlas instead of being doormat to their blames.

Goenkas as older people couldn't handle these kids and gave them freedom to choose the way the want to live in their life be it their career or choosing partners.

Birlas mein we have the great raja mata manjari who kept all kids abhi, parth, anisha, neil and nistha in her nursery and gave them what all they want instead of guiding them in their life. Result abhi who was never told no in his life destroyed two sisters life in his anger in the name of love. The only thing she told abhi to do best was to become a doctor that too because her piya tose harsh likes doctors.

Parth neil both were made less confident kids , nikkamas. Sometimes parth looks like he wants to kick manju for giving such a parvarish instead shows it on shifali.

Anisha was made a depressive kid who can't do what she wants in her life neither fulfill her parents wish or the one who can be loyal and choose a steady relationship and ended up dead with all her never ending blackmailing. Not attending phone calls suicide, bf not speaking jump in water, shadi cancel because of her mistake jump from building. 😤😤😤 Nistha don't even know what she is doing in her life except being chachi ki chamcha.

The type of parenting given to abhi, parth, neil, anisha and nistha received can be seen through ruhi upbringing. Out of all kids mata kept abhi on head danced to his whimps made other kids useless the same now too ruhi with her fatherless card had been spoilt.

Their is a saying often said to parents of little kids if kids aren't set at age 5 it's though to mould them later and they are gone case by 50 years. Birlas and goenkas paravrish also same they never set their kids at the right age left them their way and later sat with their nonsense dumped on their head.

AKSHARA

The kind of upbringing ak saw as a child was to give unconditional love and bend for your loved once. It ended up in her whole life getting destroyed. Then came her son abhir in her life akshara set all the mistakes she did in her life with her son and nav joined in that part of journey someone who can help her with it. If we look at what abhinav and akshu did to abhir it is nothing special except for exploring all of abhir traits.

1. Abhir in kasauli asked for separate room and spoke rude of akshu went and sat in his tent. Akshu immediately came and made him understand his father situation. He later went to nav and said sorry and added he doesn't know where he got this anger. Anger is trait he got from abhimanyu his bio father. Nav simply guided the kid to be patient.

2. When abhir was bullied he openly showed his pain to others. This is where ak failed in her life always hiding her pain and letting others walk on her. Even when he was not well he hide that truth his mother akshu ka trait 😤😤😤 to his own parents both ak and nav made him understand it was ok to say his pain and kick people that way.

3. Abhir said to ruhi he too will win which is his father winning nature in sports or life and he added cheering for others too. Both nav and ak saw that good quality and encouraged him for it. Acha hua kid didn't say you will win I know ruhi like his mom how she always used to say to aarohi🙏🙏🙏 that is a lesson ak learnt in her own life and guided her son to have an healthy competition.

4. Kid is smart by nature, akshu and abhinav improved his emotional quotient (EQ) to understand, use and manage once own emotions in positive way so that they can live a stress free life(his health) , communicate effectively( sharing his pain in camp) , empathise with others( first udaipur meet with kv when he kept abhir away he understood and gave kv space and kv later came on his own and hugged kid) over come challenges( his first surgery)and defuse conflict.

5. As a mother ak gave her son love and space too so that he can learn to live an independent life too. When maa beta have talks their is a gap between them and they hug each other when they need it badly.

If we look at mata abhi and ar abhi they often have hugs even when they can't get a glass of water. 🤗🤗🤗 They have one person on head and hug other person making the opposite person belive how much he/she loves me to often hug me. 🐒🐒🐒

RUHI

Ruhi as a kid had been given lots of luxuries, pampering and never ending attention by manju, abhi and aarohi. She was never made to understand right from wrong or what's to be loved as a kid naughtiness and whats to be condemned.

Initial times ruhi was shown roaming in all places of house taking mahima stethoscope, shifali make up box and even abhi ka card which got blocked because of her impulsiveness and not being patient when abhi promised her to get her favorite diary. When ruhi threw mahi stethoscope she said that poppy won't always be their for her and she has to understand relationships which mata said otherwise let her enjoy until she has it. Today mahima words came true as none made ruhi understand anything and went along with her wishes she can't even see abhir being hugged and danced by abhi today.

Ruhi drawing butterflies anywhere and everywhere had been seen as a funny and naughty thing. When kids needed to be taught at one time where their fun ends and it resulted today in a funny event where she can't even see a game as a game. Game host and abhi both said to ruhi that it's a game where parents and kids needs to be swapped. But ruhi had gone beyond her understanding limits to see game as game and started a war.

Aarohi ka dreams of ruhi being doctor in future gaya tel mein. Here future doctor is interested in drawing only butterflies and throwing stethoscope in pond without any value for it.

AAROHI

As a single mother lots of guts for her to give her kid to another man and bring her up when she knew very well this man's love and hate both are dangerous. 🤣The best part is her telling today to hold this relationship she is using ruhi. Ram ram this is aarohi who told abhi she will make her daughter understand to live without him. Poora manipulation ki dhukan. Till this day she led her life through manipulations. Goenkas mein her sautela card and birlas mein widow card. What will she teach her kid same only.

Co parenting means equal responsibility to kid not only in who gives bath and who combs hair but here that also done by abhi ly. And when it comes to make kid understand manju throws it on ar and ar throws it on abhi. 🤣🤣🤣

Whereas nav ak took equal responsibility.

Abhimanyu what sort of parenting can we expect from him when all mata did was to not balance between being maa wife sister and bahu of the house. Now beta is following her steps. 🤗🤗🤗

MAHIMA

Mahima as a mother failed as she trusted a mental like mata and gave her kids to her while building a family for them. Now she wants to set their lives instead of easily breaking them apart. Mental mata ka mental gyaan relationship is like glass blah blah blue blue. What she is doing wants to make all women in that house single since she is suffering as a single soul.

She was singing it to Abhir and Abhinav but ok lol

Episode review 3.5.2023

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Abhir announces he got Birla's chit to play with docman Abhi is super happy and runs leaving Ruhi and hugs abhir. Ruhi burns seeing them abhi twirls abhir like he used to for ak. Ru nav and ar are shocked. Shivji granted abhis wish this way for his kid.

Activity to be done is decided by abhir .Ar is kept away and abhi, abhir are actively involved. Abhir says let's plant mango small tree so that it stays forever. My mama told me to do this and we can water the plant. Abhi says your mom told it i know. Abhir says yes. Abhir and abhir plant saplings and abhir says he should plant water to it as he will go back to kasauli. Abhir asks him to promise to take care of plant and he keeps quiet.Abhir asks why didn't you promise me.Abhi says i promised before and cant fulfil so i won't do it. but i will try to do it.Abhir says you can promise for your try.Abhi and abhir do pinky promise and pour water to plant and abhi memorises saplings moments with ak.

Mango is fruit of gods. According to skanda purana , when samudramanthan was happening kalpavriksha , mango tree , parijata and vata vruksh came out.

Saplings of abhira shown through abhira on ak birthday. the saplings are planted away from Birlas abhir is grown away from abhi and birlas.

New saplings of mango tree which gives fruits in next yrs is given through abhir and abhi.This is for abhira baby girl next and abhir is the one who unites abhira.

There is a black idol shown on side of abhi when they are planting tree.Ak is shown beside them symbolically.

Abhi didn't promise as he failed last time for ak to fulfil them. As he promised to try to fulfill promises, it will be done.

Abhi stopped doing promises at last 🥳 he got his sadbuddhi .

Ar saw abhi and abhir near but jealous selfish for ruhi.

Nav and ak got Ruhi as their swap kid.ruhi can't participate in activity in her jealousy on abhi , abhir bond.

Ruhi goes to ar showing scratch on her leg asks for poppy.Abhir says it's a small scar Ruhi says poppy won't bear my scratch. Abhir says aaaa and is in pain. Abhi runs from where he went to get water for abhir.

He sees Abhir hurt on hanc shouts on ar what you are doing .ar says it's a small scratch but he shouts kid is small and moreover a heart patient hd needs a TT injection. Ak comes says don't worry i have band aids. Abhi tells ak to take care of Ruhi and he treats abhir . Abhi said tum dekhlo ...og abhi giving rights to ak directly to hold Ruhi. Manjari and ar blamed Ak is bad omen for ruhi in the initial episodes. Abhi has given direct connect to ak for ruhi.

saplings time on ak bday , abhira sat near the plant and both tied long coconut leaves on their fingers as rings. Today band aid done to kids is a parallel of it. Ak is shocked to see abhi giving importance to Abhira but followed him.

Abhi and abhir make a fencing with wooden sticks for the mango saplings.So baap beta will guard their family against everyone in the world.Abhi will guide him and abhir learns how to protect his sister after his parents and now abhir protects his coming sibling from outside world.

Ruhi sees from far and didn't listen to nav or ak words.Ak didn't do much efforts to pacify her.Nav got doughnut 🍩 but ruhi didn't see at them.Ak diverted to ask ruhi regarding her friends in school and ruhi says poppy is her friend (echoed).

Yaar ki adat for abhi is ruhi. As it's echoed by ruhi , abhi will cut that bond next.

After abhi came from Shimla and realised his love for ak , he opened the desk where he hid his kids sonography.He can't get out of those memories.That day it's Neil's bday and they celebrated keeping his bday.Abhi himself said that his love is infectious.And it should not spread in his body as it affects other parts of the body. So he has to cut that love and he wishes happiness in ak life. The toxic love which affects his body is poison Ruhi which he spread in his body with his over pampering and without making her understand anything. If he can't cut that love of yaar he will die soon can't rahe his own son or ak.

Abhi going to Birlas is symbolic that he is a birla boy.

Ruhi going to Sharma's family is symbolic she belongs to an orphan family where her IVF might come soon .Ruhi not accepting that family staying there is clear the identity crisis of kid with her non acceptance.

This is like cris cross gynic truth of ak and ar and Ar fake Pregnancy with ak real pregnancy. Let's sed how Ruhi identity is out of she is an IVF kid.

Mata supports shefali in her decision to file divorce. Mahi says shefali wants full custody of shivu and divorce parth. Mahi says i want to study then together for kid and you are separating them .Mahi asks mata if you do this with abhi and his son any day? Chalo parallels coming with abhir and abhi next and what will mata take stand? Puski mata whoever she said beti her life is destroyed with her intrusion and her pukkat ka Gyan.

There is a tilted man face behind parth shows his mind lost state on shefali and fighting for shivu .

Buddha idol kept behind mahima is for mahima who is giving Gyan to mata to set the family who are under problems.

Kv meets a man who hits his car and bashed him badly in ulta. This might be the person who is going to meet muskan as groom , Showing his colours infront of muskan next or stopping shadi in giving muskan again illusions or hopes.

Anchor in camp announces abhir as winner.abhi is confident my junior will win Abhir Sharma is announced as winner of camp.AbAbhiumps to abhir leaving ruhi in happiness.Abhi and abhir hug. Abhi says my junior my betu won and all clap. Anchor says it's all sportive spirit that he took other family kid as his own kid. Ruhi burns in jealousy folds her fish like ar .She has all her mom traits perfectly.

Abhi takes abhir on his head and takes him to anchor.Abhir takes trophy from abhis head and both dance happily. Ak is shocked to see Abhis love on abhir where as ar, nav and ruhi are burning .

In kasauli when abhir won football match he got a medal.Nav takes him on his back and roams around whereas abhir falls ulta on his back hung.Ak sees and flips him to her side.This is for his changing in identity from Sharma to Birlas and initiated by ak slyly through abhir health issue and connections to abhi.

Abhir lost medals twice as Sharma identity. He will win medals as birla tag only with abhira. His success through real parents.

It's similar to abhi abhir dancing in mimi.bday party.

Today abhir is on abhi head and he is happily dancing getting his baap ka love through abhi.

Ruhi comes infront shakes abhir shoe and says it's mh place you have to come down She stayed him in anger and abhir is shaken to fall whereas abhi says it's your brother win so your win too. Ruhi didn't listen but forcibly shakes him.Abhi kneels down and makes abhir stand down Ruhi throws abhir away and abhi ak hold abhir not to fall down.They both hold his head and body equally and make him be on their hand holds.

On gangor abhir falls down near ak room and ak holds his head and nav holding his body. This lead for abhir truth going to abhi as his son through nav giving baap rights to abhi and ak accepting it.

Today abhira head hold of abhir will lead to abhira accepting both as humara beta and birla boy.His legal rights will be coming soon through abhi announcing abhir as his son and ak accepting it not rejecting him.

Ar understood abhi is chosing abhir against Ruhi and riled ruhi.Ak said to nav that abhi has to understand what ruhi is feeling as she is small kid and if kids have that mus in childhood it's difficult to set as she is suffering that affect till now. Ak clearly saw ar in ruhi that jealousy, selfishness and anger issues.So easily connected her childhood with abhir vs ruhi. Nav said will bhayiji understand this (echoed) he may think you are stopping him to near abhir.

So abhi can't understand ruhi instead makes her understand simply but fails .abhi has to send colours of ruhi and ar on his own.He blamed ak that ak got manipulated by ar.Now he himself got manipulated by nagins at his home and he fed sapola on his own. Let him taste his own medicine what he blamed ak for chosing ar. Leg him fight with these demons and get out of that toxic family.

Abhi left ruhi hands on gangor held abhir and took away from all made him sat on rock.That's where ar got to know abhir truth.Second time he left today in camp holding abhir. Third time it's gone 🥳 as he won't have that patience to hold anyone easily against his junoon.

Ak vs ruhi done and abhi chose ak .

Abhir vs abhir done abhi kept dashi away till abhir surgery.

Ruhi vs abhir going on we know who is the winner.

Ak and abhir in light lavender colour symbolises calmness and purity in their relationship.

Abhi in blue with confidence to tell abhir as Mera beta infront of all giving him security for saplings.

Ar and ruhi in blue showing coldness to abhir and unfriendly nature.

Nav in lavendar shows negative vibes of indifference.

Abhir in yellow new beginnings for abhir and abhi bond.

lovely thread on parenting

the way roohi pulled abhir and pushed him was scary no wonder Ak got so scared of this. Its better she handles it directly with the child

Thank you Meher, Hari. @Hari, ❤️ very detailed thread on goenkas and birla parenting. loved it. @Meher, as always your analysis and predictions ❤️. Thank you both for spreading positivity. Episodes actually are good these days with foreshadow and setting base for future scenarios. Roohi jealousy is expected and their bad parenting is clearly shown here. waiting for the day when Abhimanyu wil come out of manjari clutches.