Sai bhul gayi ki biological mother of Savi n Vinayak - Page 6

Originally posted by: looseseal

There are plenty of cases where women stay in abusive marriage and household without considerign childrens' well-being just because they are worried what misogynistic people would say.

Does this not affect children? Is staying with people who have always taunted and disrespected their mother really healthy for children?

Are we still prentending that Virat and rest of Chavan are good people (like the hero says dil ke achhe log)?

What is the guarantee that Virat wont kick out Sai, Savi and Vinu like he did 7 years ago? What is the guarantee he wont let Kaku poison Savi liek she did Davi.

Virat let Devi be abused under his nose,....how can you be sure it won't happen with Savi?

So, whtasup with the pretense of caring for the children?

Up until this point, only Virat and his family have abused children (abandoning Vinu for sake of Pakhi, abusing Devi, abusing and neglecting Savi) on regular basis...so if anything children should be kept away from them....

Originally posted by: Indira1211

When did I say parents should not get divorced…did you read my post .. you must understand what we say before jumping to conclusions and making judgements 🙄.I said when parents get divorced they don’t realise how they upsets the child’s life .by uprooting them from their homes and schools etc. .because a couple may be unhappy in their marriage but their kids can still be happy because they treat their kids well. So the less disruption to a child’s life the better. And In this case in ghum ..it’s better that Savi,and vinu stay in the home that they are happy in.

"parents who divorce and remarry just do so for their own happiness..they ignore the discomfort and turmoil the children suffer..children often have to give up their rooms, their houses and even friends when they are forced to change schools as well as their homes. "

This statement is clearly not jumping to conclusions and being judgemental obviously

Originally posted by: looseseal

There are plenty of cases where women stay in abusive marriage and household without considerign childrens' well-being just because they are worried what misogynistic people would say.

Does this not affect children? Is staying with people who have always taunted and disrespected their mother really healthy for children?

Are we still prentending that Virat and rest of Chavan are good people (like the hero says dil ke achhe log)?

What is the guarantee that Virat wont kick out Sai, Savi and Vinu like he did 7 years ago? What is the guarantee he wont let Kaku poison Savi liek she did Davi.

Virat let Devi be abused under his nose,....how can you be sure it won't happen with Savi?

So, whtasup with the pretense of caring for the children?

Up until this point, only Virat and his family have abused children (abandoning Vinu for sake of Pakhi, abusing Devi, abusing and neglecting Savi) on regular basis...so if anything children should be kept away from them....

I've stopped replying to any of the regressive shits as ik I'll get WL just for using the word when it's open display of misogyny.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

sorry but 7 years ago..Sai left on her own with vinu..Virat didn’t kick her out..I watched that episode ..and I saw the whole family trying to stop her from leaving .. there’s no guarantee that the children will not suffer anywhere..Satya and his family can abuse Savi because she’s not their blood..let’s not assume things here 😂

Saying- sorry demanding- she stays with her abuser who cause her miscarriage, sent goons to harrass her and stole her only fertile egg isn't asking her to not leave. This is exactly what abuse is. Virat abused her, called her anaath (her father literally died to save his coward ass) and asked her stay away if she didn't want to share her child's parvarish with his Pakhi. Did you see that part too? or do you think Virat did nothing wrong?

Satya family can abuse Savi but Virat and his family have ALREADY abused Sai, Vinu and Savi.

So, basically a mother and her children can be abused by her the bio dad but the woman should never ever move on. Because bio dad by being the great sperm dono has all th eentitlement and rights. and women and children have only exist to serve the first husband, not matter how abusive he is and the bio dad even if he would coose his criminal bhabi over you.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

When did I say parents should not get divorced…did you read my post .. you must understand what we say before jumping to conclusions and making judgements 🙄.I said when parents get divorced they don’t realise how they upsets the child’s life .by uprooting them from their homes and schools etc. .because a couple may be unhappy in their marriage but their kids can still be happy because they treat their kids well. So the less disruption to a child’s life the better. And In this case in ghum ..it’s better that Savi,and vinu stay in the home that they are happy in.

But are kids treated well here? Would any real woman let theirs husband babhi/ ex-lover do parvarish of her child?

Savi and Vinu are only happy in the house because of Sai's maturity. She hasn't told about all the Kaands of their fatherr. Speaking as a daughter, if one day I were tofind out my mother was treated the way Sai was, I wouldn't be very happy wtih that father....

So if Savi wanted to see her real dad its because of Sai

If Savi is happy wit Viraat it is because of Sai

If Vinu has fairly normal and stable it is also only because of Sai

Originally posted by: Indira1211

sorry but 7 years ago..Sai left on her own with vinu..Virat didn’t kick her out..I watched that episode ..and I saw the whole family trying to stop her from leaving .. there’s no guarantee that the children will not suffer anywhere..Satya and his family can abuse Savi because she’s not their blood..let’s not assume things here 😂

Also i like you avoided all my points and example of abuse.

Even the biggest cheerleaders of Virat Chavan cant deny that yeh log toh apne khoon ko bh iabuse karte kai

Originally posted by: Deltablues

"parents who divorce and remarry just do so for their own happiness..they ignore the discomfort and turmoil the children suffer..children often have to give up their rooms, their houses and even friends when they are forced to change schools as well as their homes. "

This statement is clearly not jumping to conclusions and being judgemental obviously

Originally posted by: looseseal

Also i like you avoided all my points and example of abuse.

Even the biggest cheerleaders of Virat Chavan cant deny that yeh log toh apne khoon ko bh iabuse karte kai

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I've stopped replying to any of the regressive shits as ik I'll get WL just for using the word when it's open display of misogyny.

Wht a WL? warning?

I am quite dumbfounded by som rules here tho. IF-decorum be like

- Cant compare actor (okay fairly reasonable) but okay constant mock actress

- Can't even compare characters (huh?)

- Can't have too many people agree against vile ieas about women, wives, motehrs... (ganging up)

- Should be open for misogyny and abuse tho...but only against female characters..

- can't point out hateful thing dont by the hero (mocking)

Originally posted by: looseseal

Saying- sorry demanding- she stays with her abuser who cause her miscarriage, sent goons to harrass her and stole her isn't asking her to not leave. This is exactmy what abuse is. Virat abused her, called her anaath (her father literally died to save his coward ass) and asked her stay stay away if she didn't want to share her child's parvarish with his Pakhi. Did you see that part too? or do you think Virat did nothing wrong?

Satya family can abuse Savi but Virat and his have ALREADY abused Sai, Vinu and Savi.

So, basically a mother and her children can be abused by her the bio dad but the woman should never ever move on. Because bio dad by being the great sperm dono has all th eentitlement and rights. and women and children have only exist to serve the first husband, not matter how abusive he is and the bio dad even if he would coose his criminal bhabi over you.