Katha Ankahee -- #12 daily episode DT - Page 110

Originally posted by: Ssp123

Ok watched the episode after so long

Katha needs some help , i think she needs a psychiatrist more than anything else and i need a break again

kekeke... even I am thinking of a small break after the preview. as a foodie, I feel bad for anyone skipping food or going far away to eat because they feel uncomfortable because of someone. that just feels wrong. not a love story in my book.

love is supposed to make you glow and happy -- plus eat good food! 😆

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

preview: why is viaan coming on so strong. what is with this "my path is fixed." 🤦

viaan, the girl is not able to eat her lunch in peace because of you -- no one should be skipping food because of being uncomfortable. that isn't love. tsk. tsk.

Exactlyyyy.

This is not what the character was built up and redeemed for so long.

I mean not just "No, my path is fixed"

But also

"Will my pain really subside with the painkillers?", "I too am learning patience"

What kind of wait is this? It's like going and telling her that she doesn't have an option in not-so-direct ways. Absolutely regressive.

Sorry but romanticizing this just because he's the ML would be too for me.

Originally posted by: dopaminergic

Exactlyyyy.

This is not what the character was built up and redeemed for so long.

I mean not just "No, my path is fixed"

But also

"Will my pain really subside with the painkillers?", "I too am learning patience"

What kind of wait is this? It's like going and telling her that she doesn't have an option in not-so-direct ways. Absolutely regressive.

Sorry but romanticizing this just because he's the ML would be too for me.

This is passive aggressive guilt tripping the other person into acceptance…camoflagued as selfless unconditional love ITV style 😅😅!! So there is no pushing against the walls involved here EK style but there is constant emotional blackmail 🙄🙄

Originally posted by: smriti81

This is passive aggressive guilt tripping the other person into acceptance…camoflagued as selfless unconditional love ITV style 😅😅!! So there is no pushing against the walls involved here EK style but there is constant emotional blackmail 🙄🙄

Another example of 'men written by men'.

In the redemption track, I had thought with Viaan's character, I would proudly say that men written by men can stand by their words, know the meaning of being selfless in love and can respect the concept of space but that's sadly not the case with the transformation that viaan's character has witnessed in the post confession episodes.

Originally posted by: smriti81

This is passive aggressive guilt tripping the other person into acceptance…camoflagued as selfless unconditional love ITV style 😅😅!! So there is no pushing against the walls involved here EK style but there is constant emotional blackmail 🙄🙄

I haven't seen EK dramas in a while but even there, I don't remember any ML pushing so much when the FL is point blank saying she isn't interested. generally EK drama MLs are pigheaded that their ego immediately flares up. then it becomes a push pull where he will push against her hard (by flirting with someone else and ignoring her or something like that) while she is confused. actually that would be far more entertaining to watch than this. 😆

on one level, viaan comes across as someone with zero self-respect and no boundaries. if someone is not interested for whatever reason, just walk away.

I also don't like how others are all pressuring katha to accept viaan in some ways. even in yesterday's episode, where ehsaan was asking if she was overly concerned -- this is the same guy who hit on her and now has moved on? and wants her to accept his friend? everything is rather topsy turvy here.

people shouldn't be choosing someone under duress. if she wants him, she will let him know. no one has to push her into a relatoinship. I feel this is a terrible way of showing wooing or courtship.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I haven't seen EK dramas in a while but even there, I don't remember any ML pushing so much when the FL is point blank saying she isn't interested. generally EK drama MLs are pigheaded that their ego immediately flares up. then it becomes a push pull where he will push against her hard (by flirting with someone else and ignoring her or something like that) while she is confused. actually that would be far more entertaining to watch than this. 😆

on one level, viaan comes across as someone with zero self-respect and no boundaries. if someone is not interested for whatever reason, just walk away.

@Bold - yes that is the problem. Here he is not even respecting himself.

Originally posted by: riti4u

@Bold - yes that is the problem. Here he is not even respecting himself.

rather than romantic, he comes across as very problematic. when someone does not respect themselves, it shows he has no idea of what a good romance is. love does not mean you sacrifice your dignity or right to respect.

right now, he has built up katha into this mother goddess in his head. when he sees katha's flaws or she disappoints him in some ways, he will drop her like a hot potato. ofcourse he isn't the villain but if he was, then he would do a crime. thats how he is coming across. nothing about what viaan is doing right now indicates healthy in any way.

it really is disappointing because I was expecting a mature love story. I prefer pigheaded egoistic MLs in comparison to a ML who has zero self-respect. maybe I should go finish the PK drama 'habs' instead.

does anyone know how many times katha has now rejected him? is it more than 3?

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I also don't like how others are all pressuring katha to accept viaan in some ways. even in yesterday's episode, where ehsaan was asking if she was overly concerned -- this is the same guy who hit on her and now has moved on? and wants her to accept his friend? everything is rather topsy turvy here.

people shouldn't be choosing someone under duress. if she wants him, she will let him know. no one has to push her into a relatoinship. I feel this is a terrible way of showing wooing or courtship.

I feel different here, Katha is not under normal circumstances. She needs a push from people around her to tell her to explore this new possibility. It might seem a terrible idea in normal scenario but in cases where person has closed doors for any love due to grief that is attached to them needs some external assistance. In many cases people go to therapy after experiencing a loss of loved one and get guidance on how to overcome it. Here she is living with that grief for so long and has made it part of her life. It was irony on what she said in precap to Viaan. I thought Viaan would say apply that to yourself first 😛.