Ak worries for the worst : Epi Air Date 23 April 2023 - Page 43

Originally posted by: SAOkr

now look at cases of nav and abhi here .

even before white day ppl considered

him toxic because he was assertive towards ak.

an ex ;;MANJIRI DIVORCE"

ak as always tried to explain yes divorce is correct descision but it should be manjiris own descision now think if abhi sccumbed to aks words then , manjir who is victim of domestic abuse for so many years even after ak clearly explaining there is no meaning in that relation she still wished to stay in that.

if abhi had not went against ak and pressured manjiri or made her realize that because of her toxic relationship his and ak life is also affected will manjiri had ever divorced harsh. ??

same is case with ak and arohi manipulation, its because of abhis assertiveness that ak was able to get that final push to get free of arohi manipulation.

otherwise goenkas too know arohi and ak eq but they only had given them moral advices which would never had worked with someonev like arohi.

now abhinav.

the relationship ak shares with abhinav is again very stable ,open no nonsense assertiveness. but looking closely its the same case with goenkas too . look at case of the bail of abhinav yes he was worried about her missing exam but then was he assertive that she was wrong to stake her future for something which she could have done very well even after exam., no he also in some form accepted it as form of acceptance.from ak .

now look at bigger problems when first truth was revealed to abhinav he himself said they should inform abhi which was right thing to do not only for them but also abhir but then too he succumbed to ak wishes because he too wishes to live in that perpetual state of peace . this is same case with goenkas where they avoid ak plights to look for peace infamily but both abhinav and ak in their fears have forgetten one thing

abhir.

imagine now if that kid is told abhimanyu is his father .

obviously he will hate him for abbondoning him. but the qs why he abondaned . wwhy seperated , why he couldnt meet rest of goenkas family, his cousins

most importantly the pure relationship he shared with abhinav as father and son will now be revealed as adopted father and son carried on with burden of indeptness towards abhinav and hatred towards abhimanyu , now tell me does that kid deserve so much burden at such a young age.

The six years of delusional peace abhir enjoyed will now turn into life time of indebptness and hatred towards abhinav and abhimanyu"

and a mothers fight should never be left to fought for her children thats the least a parents could do to give their child as legacy.

Ak could have save him this burden of hatred if she revealed to him from start that abhi was his real father and abhinav adoptive one and abhimanyu didnt abandon him but his parents are seperated and abhinav is her new partner atleast abhir woulnt have same fate as abhi i.e burden of hating his own father . because then also abhimanyu can coparent with ak b/s he had no other choice .

the biggest pain ak is causing by her delusional world is non other than abhir . which by contradiction she wants to protect .

Omg so thought out and rightfully stated. Both Akshara and Abhinav think alike, peace is the solution so avoid the truth and when that comes out it creates hell lot of mess.
Abhimanyu is grey character but Akshara also has lot of flaws and to all the situations you stated above, both were perfect for each other just that white day was way too much of a tragedy for any person to take in. Not supporting the divorce decision but yes Akshara’s stupid decisions lead to unbearable loss. She should cut some slack and have umbrella perspective Abhir koi Toy nahi hai itna complex situation bana rahe hain uske liye. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: SAOkr

true that ak and abhinav relation may look stable and filled with respect . but core is the same as you mentioned.

actually whenever this relationship topic comes i remember one of interviews of nakuul where he mentions actually the relationship is one in which our partner helps to loveo urselves more is the best one.

i too feel love in a marriage and relationship shouldnt be selfless it should be selfish.

like if you love someone "you want them to be happy" and by seeing them happy ultimately you want happiness for yourself too. so ultimately its not always selflsness that prevails or creates a everlasting relationship.

if we look at abhi and ak now why they seem to be out of love of each other or so angry at each other.

abhi:

in that white day ak had done the same thing his mother was doing the entire life sacrificing herself for others and this has ultimately cost him htheir children and he again is unable to stop ak from doing that blunder so at that point he was not only hating ak but also hating himself thats where the destruction started.

thats where he thought their marriage was a mistake because again ak will sacrifice again he will hate not being able to stop her again he will feel the same pain of seeing his wife in pain just like in case of his mother ,

AKShu:

why she is so traumatized by white day and angry at only abhi when in that day manjari aarohi bitrlas goenkas everyone has done equally worse. because they never loved her true self , they never made her love herself just like abhi did , they never addressed her pain.with aarohi just like abhi did and what did abhi do , went ahead and blamed her for sirats death and divorced her when she never intended those three deaths though she was partly responsible, in a way she feels guilty and hates herself for that day and reason for that is because abhi accused her for that.

the two people who loved themselves more by meeting each other now live a life in fear and hatred towards oneself.

Where as akshu had a perception abhi will forgive her once again as he understands her.

But both failed to understand each other's situation that day.

Akshu was morning over her kids death and Neil's death and she faced abhi that day where he blasted at her. She just left everything as when abhi failed to understand may be she assumed that nobody else will understand her. So she lost everything that day.

Abhi had faced death as well as seen his mom getting some attacks. When he realized akshu's sacrificial nature took away happiness from multiple ppl that's when he lost it too. He saw his family who are mourning over Neil's death. He saw arohi who was pregnant who has lost her husband and manjari who lost her son.

Both lost everything that day. Akshu's trust on abhi faded when he did not pick up her call. Abhimanyu's trust on akshu faded when he heard she got married.

Originally posted by: Siasia2014

But u see in such case Abhir will be AK’s son and sacrifice for the good or others

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true 👍 abhi was not so okay with sacrificing herself for others. He wanted her to learn respecting herself before anyone else.

Where as akshu had a perception abhi will forgive her once again as he understands her.

But both failed to understand each other's situation that day.

Akshu was morning over her kids death and Neil's death and she faced abhi that day where he blasted at her. She just left everything as when abhi failed to understand may be she assumed that nobody else will understand her. So she lost everything that day.

Abhi had faced death as well as seen his mom getting some attacks. When he realized akshu's sacrificial nature took away happiness from multiple ppl that's when he lost it too. He saw his family who are mourning over Neil's death. He saw arohi who was pregnant who has lost her husband and manjari who lost her son.

Both lost everything that day. Akshu's trust on abhi faded when he did not pick up her call. Abhimanyu's trust on akshu faded when he heard she got married.

actually the future is bleak for their reuniting. as both are out of love for eo . 'no realization, no empathy for each others pain, no regret, only haq , anger in there.

only abhirs pain of carrying that burden of hatred and indeptness throughout his life will make them realise what have they done, were they went wrong.

Originally posted by: SAOkr

actually the future is bleak for their reuniting. as both are out of love for eo . 'no realization, no empathy for each others pain, no regret, only haq , anger in there.

only abhirs pain of carrying that burden of hatred and indeptness throughout his life will make them realise what have they done, were they went wrong.

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

Ishaan character was also plain and boring

SGP USP was badi maa n Suhana

Ishaan toh ML hoke bhi SC hi tha 🤣

That character was supposed to be plain n boring …but ill be honest I liked it…n I agree with you on suhana n badi ma…that whole family was love

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Originally posted by: reddit_toe

Omg so thought out and rightfully stated. Both Akshara and Abhinav think alike, peace is the solution so avoid the truth and when that comes out it creates hell lot of mess.
Abhimanyu is grey character but Akshara also has lot of flaws and to all the situations you stated above, both were perfect for each other just that white day was way too much of a tragedy for any person to take in. Not supporting the divorce decision but yes Akshara’s stupid decisions lead to unbearable loss. She should cut some slack and have umbrella perspective Abhir koi Toy nahi hai itna complex situation bana rahe hain uske liye. 🤦🏻‍♀️

NSAA is a coward n manipulative as hell …if he truly was ehat he claims to be he would have told the truth to abhi …but he didn’t n all this talk of its akshara’s place to say the truth etc holds valid only if NSAA is not claiming to be the father everywhere …if he was only in a support akshara role, I would have still understood him not telling the truth to sbhi but naah …all he does is manipulation which is ironic since isn’t Abhimanyu claimed yo be manipulative lmao loads of BS