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Posted: 3 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Blackwater

Is she cutting off Goenkas now? No? Atleast till the birth of Abhir she could have taken their help and then ventured out of their lives to live peacefully..Abhinav turned to be a wonderful person but what if he hadn’t is my point ..she trusted an absolute stranger for her non existent self respect..she was okay when Goenkas were mute over Arohi’s treatment of hers throughout and held them highly and infact herself kept doing arohi Jaap but suddenly her self respect became more than the life of her child..even now she is listening to the taunts of Birlas ..why doesn’t she speak against the ill treatment meated out to her if the I’ll treatment affected her that much to not have thought about her unborn baby?

there is a difference....when abhi threw her away, she was lifeles...she was not in her senses and that man who claimed t have loved her was not even bothered where she was....she just boarded the bus....she could have been killed..off course...anything could have happened to her...she was not in her senses....she did not knoe one of her baby was alive....

yes, its luck that she met abhinav in the bus....he took her to the doc and the doc mentioned one of her baby was alive...she called abhi even though how abhi had treated her....BP somehow knew she is in pathankot and he came...she heard him blaming her for all that had happened ...as now it has been shown thats what abhi had portrayed...abhi had not come....she knew what her family was...her baby would have been snatched away...so she decided to stay here....

its like she had lost everyone and herself that time...

my question, y did not any goenkas bring her back or come and stayed with her?

she did not let anyone know that abhir was abhi's son after abhi made it clear that he ahs to do nothing with her or kids....

what do u think, if she would have returned pregnant, what would ahve happened? based on my thinking, with so much of stress and blames, abhir may not have survived.... or birlas would have taken away the baby.....

if u hear her dialogs yesterday, she mentioned that phonecall to abhi changed her...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: India_TV

there is a difference....when abhi threw her away, she was lifeles...she was not in her senses and that man who claimed t have loved her was not even bothered where she was....she just boarded the bus....she could have been killed..off course...anything could have happened to her...she was not in her senses....she did not knoe one of her baby was alive....

yes, its luck that she met abhinav in the bus....he took her to the doc and the doc mentioned one of her baby was alive...she called abhi even though how abhi had treated her....BP somehow knew she is in pathankot and he came...she heard him blaming her for all that had happened ...as now it has been shown thats what abhi had portrayed...abhi had not come....she knew what her family was...her baby would have been snatched away...so she decided to stay here....

its like she had lost everyone and herself that time...

my question, y did not any goenkas bring her back or come and stayed with her?

she did not let anyone know that abhir was abhi's son after abhi made it clear that he ahs to do nothing with her or kids....

what do u think, if she would have returned pregnant, what would ahve happened? based on my thinking, with so much of stress and blames, abhir may not have survived.... or birlas would have taken away the baby.....

if u hear her dialogs yesterday, she mentioned that phonecall to abhi changed her...

Goenkas, Birlas, Abhimanyu all are a bunch of jerks..not defending them at all..my point was as a mother one needs to sometimes bow down to situations ..when she had no money, no shelter with a difficult pregnancy, she could have atleast informed Manish and continued living far off from Abhimanyu and after birth told him about the baby and gave him visitation rights if he wanted..Yes abhi was wrong throughout for abondoning her but still that doesn’t warrant keeping the child away..she could have informed Manish of the baby and he could have told Abhimanyu if she really wanted to convey the truth to him.

Yes breaking the relationship was his decision and after the birth she should have maintained status quo no matter what while giving him visitation rights ..Court favors mothers in custody cases and Birlas are anyway toxic with Abhimanyu going through depression and anger issues have made the job easier for Akshara to keep the custody to herself.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Blackwater

Goenkas, Birlas, Abhimanyu all are a bunch of jerks..not defending them at all..my point was as a mother one needs to sometimes bow down to situations ..when she had no money, no shelter with a difficult pregnancy, she could have atleast informed Manish and continued living far off from Abhimanyu and after birth told him about the baby and gave him visitation rights if he wanted..Yes abhi was wrong throughout for abondoning her but still that doesn’t warrant keeping the child away..she could have informed Manish of the baby and he could have told Abhimanyu if she really wanted to convey the truth to him.

Yes breaking the relationship was his decision and after the birth she should have maintained status quo no matter what while giving him visitation rights ..Court favors mothers in custody cases and Birlas are anyway toxic with Abhimanyu going through depression and anger issues have made the job easier for Akshara to keep the custody to herself.

if i look at akshu's condition that time, she had lost everything in her mid...she summed it up to abhi...that phone calll..meri sab se badi haar thi....so she had nothing...when u r in such a situation and u trust no one, i think u leave it to God and fate...and thats what akshu did...by the time she was in a postion to think, she found out that abhinav was a good guy...

my question still is how come goenkas let akshu stay alone...y coul none of them come to her? if this is a family, wasnt akshu better off on her own? she must have felt the same, right?

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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Padm1

Arey waah abhimanyu defenders abhi bhi hai is forum mai, chalo shukar hai, i thought they were extinct like dinosaur anywazz loved everything you said

minority is always louder. Doesn't mean it reflects the truth



Waise v waha Jake kya fayda jaha proper discussion na ho. This forum is a circlejerk of people patting themselves on back and talking about abhi this abhi that 🤪

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Posted: 3 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

minority is always louder. Doesn't mean it reflects the truth



Waise v waha Jake kya fayda jaha proper discussion na ho. This forum is a circlejerk of people patting themselves on back and talking about abhi this abhi that 🤪

u mean bachi defenders are in minority
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Posted: 3 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Padm1

u mean bachi defenders are in minority

see akshara as a character faced a lot. I don't agree with her reasoning but can't deny she has suffered in years. She was always alone and still only have her imaginary family in hand


The new couple defenders are minority to me. Just cause there is 20 new accounts every day and 10 mids chanting white day abhi toxic doesn't mean that's all he is. There is no point in talking to these people either. The people who have followed since beginning, without any bias knows what happened next. Somehow abhi is expected to shut up and sit quiet all the time - when goenka sisters were playing games with him that time, when he actually stepped up to marry akshara, when his wife left and came back, when his family died twice thanks to goenkas- btw akshara don't have much relationship with her fugitive brother now. I don't agree with that.



And maybe that's why abhinav is so alluring to people. He's the epitome of "ha sir ha madam"

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Here's another episode of Abhimanyu fans trying to defend his problematic behaviour from day 1 and victimising him. Oh poor innocent Abhimanyu, you're the biggest saint alive.

Posted: 3 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

see akshara as a character faced a lot. I don't agree with her reasoning but can't deny she has suffered in years. She was always alone and still only have her imaginary family in hand


The new couple defenders are minority to me. Just cause there is 20 new accounts every day and 10 mids chanting white day abhi toxic doesn't mean that's all he is. There is no point in talking to these people either. The people who have followed since beginning, without any bias knows what happened next. Somehow abhi is expected to shut up and sit quiet all the time - when goenka sisters were playing games with him that time, when he actually stepped up to marry akshara, when his wife left and came back, when his family died twice thanks to goenkas- btw akshara don't have much relationship with her fugitive brother now. I don't agree with that.




And maybe that's why abhinav is so alluring to people. He's the epitome of "ha sir ha madam"


Well thanks to his family a guy was in trauma coz his family decided to cheat on him and emotionally blackmail him by faking suicide but died in real.


About Neil honestly speaking he decided to be the hero himself he was a grown up man. Akshu ne nhi bola k jaa hero ban and he is like mann toh nhi hai par bnta hun and died and if somewhat akshu was at fault she did bear the punishment. But where's the punishment of Abhi? Where is his redemption? Where is the punishment for Aruhi? Manjari for hiding Neil's identity.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

see akshara as a character faced a lot. I don't agree with her reasoning but can't deny she has suffered in years. She was always alone and still only have her imaginary family in hand


The new couple defenders are minority to me. Just cause there is 20 new accounts every day and 10 mids chanting white day abhi toxic doesn't mean that's all he is. There is no point in talking to these people either. The people who have followed since beginning, without any bias knows what happened next. Somehow abhi is expected to shut up and sit quiet all the time - when goenka sisters were playing games with him that time, when he actually stepped up to marry akshara, when his wife left and came back, when his family died twice thanks to goenkas- btw akshara don't have much relationship with her fugitive brother now. I don't agree with that.



And maybe that's why abhinav is so alluring to people. He's the epitome of "ha sir ha madam"

that's exactly what piss me off even before marriage in their love phase too people just critise abhi a lot infact one of the reason to leave this forum is their constant criticism on Abhimanyu, they always expect him to behave as per their convenience which doesn't happen because he is fictional, and just to glorify one character u can't degrade the other.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: chaipaani


Well thanks to his family a guy was in trauma coz his family decided to cheat on him and emotionally blackmail him by faking suicide but died in real.


About Neil honestly speaking he decided to be the hero himself he was a grown up man. Akshu ne nhi bola k jaa hero ban and he is like mann toh nhi hai par bnta hun and died and if somewhat akshu was at fault she did bear the punishment. But where's the punishment of Abhi? Where is his redemption? Where is the punishment for Aruhi? Manjari for hiding Neil's identity.

who died in real? I thought you were talking about kairav. Not sure who you mean.


Neil ka never said akshara lured him to death. Akshara is suffering because she herself went first, neil went after her , he died along with her "kids". Where did abhi come from in this? If you mean white day...dude has been suffering since the day. Amidst all the drama he simply had no place to process his own grief or his wife. None is saying he wasn't wrong that day. What followed was wrong. Akshara allegedly contacted him for kids, but it didn't happen and she picked a random dude from street to live with and make father. She could storm into birla house and scream in phone "bete ko zarurat hai" when the situation needed abhi. But where was this urgency 6 years ago?


Aro is vamp of season she will never get punished. Manjari ... She's kinda grey and just like akshara maa ki mamta hence gets pass every time.

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