Originally posted by: firewings_diya
thanks for this but when i saw this i clearly see neil warned her about her kids. She just said main theek hoon doctor ne kaha hai kuch nahi hoga. When she started insisting more as a devar neil jumped in to save kids.
Keeping others above yourself is good but on what cost is the question.
For eg in real life even when try to bring a dog to our home we think alot of things like what will happen to mom what if my dad don't like it or what if it bites some one.
That retrospective we should do before jumping into anything. They still had an option to follow them slowly and keep police informed about near by check posts. we can take risk on ourself. Like if i want to die saving some one it's totally my choice.
But if i am risking some one else's life like in this case akshara's kids in her womb that should involve some common sense and when neil said he will not let anything to happen to those kids she did not even tried stopping him too as she wanted to save those kids by hook or crook.but that's not a normal behaviour.
Because as a mother she has to be selfish for her kids but here akshara was shown as selfless women who just put her and abhi's kids at risk to save kids and now she is been shown as selfish mom who is again putting her kids life at risk by taking him to USA. She could have saved those kids by following that car i am not saying saving them is wrong but approach they took is clearly wrong as they took risk which costed 2 lives. Yes blame should go on neil and akshu. But unfortunately neil died and blame went only on akshu. Not justifying what abhi did is correct on that white day but akshu was wrong too. Both are wrong with dealing that situation.
It's getting very hard for me to understand akshu's situation now.
if you watch the second clip and see ak ready to jump out of car the moment she reached there , forget about neil any normal person would advice or stop a pregnant lady to not go there, and considering neil knowing ak he went there solely to ease ak pain and guilt. it completely a ridiculous idea of preg lady trying to save those girls . it was pure luck she and abhir survived .in normal situation a civilian should not even try to act so carelessly without any proper plan or backup , much less a preg lady.
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