Popcorn Club #5 - Page 122

Originally posted by: Spideyweb

Yr all this happened in a dream yesterday....it was mentally tiring one despite no violence...i also remember during the last part of the dream i was with my cousins and jeejus and bhabhis,, the lift was so small n we were tightly packed and it was so hard to breathe.. my jeeju after seeing my condition told me that dr ko dikhaade... After this dream ended i suppose...

that night we were all in kasauli hotel room...i was alone as i had a solo room...that night this dream had come.🙈

.funny thing is it was such an enjoyable experience with them ..i know they all love me thats why its baffling why such a dream came..

Next morning on waking up i shared this with bhabhi n one bro...they told me such a thing of rejection must be running in ur subconcious mind thats why you had it....deep down they maybe right because i did have issues with self importance and all...A slightest thing can land me in dejection...As humourous as i am, im too sensitive but i dn talk about it since men are expected to be hard...But then its ok humour comes to my rescue everytime n it keeps tristesse at bay!!

Well dont know why im telling so much to you penguin 🐧..

Originally posted by: vibecheck

bold - i'm a therapy penguin 🤣

ohh, okay. the way the post was worded gave me the impression that something had happened here that made you feel rejected or ignored, but i'm glad that it was just a dream. sometimes dreams can be stressful and leave you feeling drained or stressed or with any of the several negative feelings on the spectrum, but remember that at the end of the day, they are merely dreams. they don't always have a head or tail or even reasoning for why they appear, so i suggest that you don't always try to find explanations for them for your own sanity 😆 as for talking about your feelings and being sensitive - you have to find people that you can trust and be vulnerable with. we should all have people like that in our lives. if nothing else, you have this place. we'll always try to be understanding and you'll definitely not be made fun of or called sensitive or anything like that for showing your non-funny, vulnerable side 😊

Thanks penguin - nice to know there r non judgemental ppl too 😁...

There are many things i wanted to share but perhaps that will be with someone one on one in a chat......

You are a good therapist pengu😁😍

Originally posted by: infinity101

No one is expected to be hard here Spidey, pour your heart out whenever you feel like ❤️

Thanks infinite creature 😁😍..

Originally posted by: Spideyweb

Yr all this happened in a dream yesterday....it was mentally tiring one despite no violence...i also remember during the last part of the dream i was with my cousins and jeejus and bhabhis,, the lift was so small n we were tightly packed and it was so hard to breathe.. my jeeju after seeing my condition told me that dr ko dikhaade... After this dream ended i suppose...

that night we were all in kasauli hotel room...i was alone as i had a solo room...that night this dream had come.🙈

.funny thing is it was such an enjoyable experience with them ..i know they all love me thats why its baffling why such a dream came..🙈

Post edit karte rehte ho.... Now I look like a stalker... Anyways.... There is no such rules that men can't have emotions or emotional baggage or whatever..... No human is perfect and everyone has feelings and the need to express that in a safe environment.....

U can be sensitive and even that is fine... U can express yourself and be a great example to your peers and youngsters that men can be emotional/ sensitive/ sensible and all that is ok....

Have you seen that sis wala Movie??? Ek villan??

The guy turns psycho as his emotions were not dealt with properly.... U dnt wanna end up with serious issue, do u???

Then be your whole true self regardless of stupid rules and expectations of society.

Have feelings. Share them... Own them.

Of course be sensible as well. 🤭

Originally posted by: infinity101

Oh boy, I don’t know whether I should share this here but I don’t know I just feel like doing it because I have never told anyone about this in my family all these years. I was molested as a kid by my distant relative. And it happened at least 2 times while we were visiting their house. It was very scary for me, as a kid you don’t understand when someone touches you inappropriately at places they shouldn’t have their hands on, but at that time I was too scared to tell anyone since we shared a good equation with their family and I was too petrified to share this with my parents.He attempted to touch me a third time as well but I started crying, he got scared and finally stopped, never dared to do it again. After all these years I have obviously moved past all that but those horrible memories are still etched on my mind and I do feel terrible that I might not be able to share this with anyone ever. Don’t know why I just felt better writing about it somewhere finally. This world is full of creeps. My grandpa’s friend who used to come to my house to teach me math used to sit too close to me for my comfort. Back then I didn’t think much about it but now that I think my blood boils!! No wonder parents are scared for even their toddlers everywhere. Even oldies are sexual predators! Sometimes I hate this world!

omg Infy. I just read your post here all cuz I saw you replied to something else of mine and I have sorta left … Honestly ….Words escape me (which is rare) when I hear of such things… no one should have to go this. Esp at young age as you said when one doesn’t even know :(.,,,. This is precisely why I was disgusted at Sajid ka every moment on BB and when people say things like we only care about what he does on show.

I am sorry and at same time glad you have sorta healed (one never truly does I l know ) but what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Stay strong and may God bless you with an amazing man one day and only surround you with nice people. Birds of a feather flock together after all. Take care ….🤗

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP

omg Infy. I just read your post here all cuz I saw you replied to something else of mine and I have sorta left … Honestly ….Words escape me (which is rare) when I hear of such things… no one should have to go this. Esp at young age as you said when one doesn’t even know :(.,,,. This is precisely why I was disgusted at Sajid ka every moment on BB and when people say things like we only care about what he does on show.

I am sorry and at same time glad you have sorta healed (one never truly does I l know ) but what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Stay strong and may God bless you with an amazing man one day and only surround you with nice people. Birds of a feather flock together after all. Take care ….🤗

Originally posted by: infinity101

Hey Jasoos ❤️ Why did you leave like that? Thankyou for your sweet words my dear. Yes I am surrounded by lovely people and I feel blessed, but at the same time I want you to come on our current active thread and play the game with us 😳⭐️

Jab koi boley ki Mainey mahol beegaada to have a different pov to phir best hota hain to leave hain na :). After all mera If addiction is only for masti :). So don’t worry about that. Hum idhar udhar aur jagah baat kar lengey. I don’t want to be responsible for ruining that … ever :). Don’t worry. And don’t continue this convo either on that front :)

Not just words (not that I can do anything) but life mein if you ever need to talk. I will be there.. this is something I cringe at when I hear such things and try my best to support …. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP

Jab koi boley ki Mainey mahol beegaada to have a different pov to phir best hota hain to leave hain na :). After all mera If addiction is only for masti :). So don’t worry about that. Hum idhar udhar aur jagah baat kar lengey. I don’t want to be responsible for ruining that … ever :). Don’t worry. And don’t continue this convo either on that front :)

Not just words (not that I can do anything) but life mein if you ever need to talk. I will be there.. this is something I cringe at when I hear such things and try my best to support …. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

u are stupid spider....

Post edit karte rehte ho.... Now I look like a stalker... Anyways.... There is no such rules that men can't have emotions or emotional baggage or whatever..... No human is perfect and everyone has feelings and the need to express that in a safe environment.....

U can be sensitive and even that is fine... U can express yourself and be a great example to your peers and youngsters that men can be emotional/ sensitive/ sensible and all that is ok....

Have you seen that sis wala Movie??? Ek villan??

The guy turns psycho as his emotions were not dealt with properly.... U dnt wanna end up with serious issue, do u???

Then be your whole true self regardless of stupid rules and expectations of society.

Have feelings. Share them... Own them.

Of course be sensible as well. 🤭

Thanks for sharing thoughts..you are much wiser than me it seems.. respect you for that...👍

Ya ek villain i have seen in the theatre although it was such a great movie that i dn remember a single scene except shrada standing in the sun n sidharth singing something that why do i get hurt seeing you in pain 😆 Do you know Rafael nadal? One of the best ever in tennis- He is considered to be a bull in terms of his power and stamina...He is an unstoppable force on the field but outside of the court he is very sensitive and vulnerable to fear, anxiety etc...It made me realise you don't have to be super hard to achieve something in life 🍨

Originally posted by: infinity101

Hey I understand ❤️ All of you people have been very supportive here and honestly this is the first time I am hearing such comforting words regarding this incident kyunki maine kabhi nai bataya to anyone in my family or friends and for the first time I shared something like this on internet directly. I felt better but I have moved past that, I know it would stay with me forever but it doesn’t affect me as such, hope it won’t in future as well. But you are an amazing friend and once again I really appreciate your support 🤗

infy. It’s sometimes easier to share on here then for real. But sharing is huge part of process as it’s truly considered an important part of healing process. Most people don’t even realize that sharing takes courage. A lot of it for such a thing.

you are an amazing person yourself. And I am glad to have made a friend like you on IF 🤗 The good luck is mine :). To have made some really good friends. That will always be. No matter what :). Ty 🤗