TERE BIN- Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali # DT 59 - Page 15

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Yes very true. Just imagine if it was a not so nice looking and unfit cousin ( Zooby shakal type) doing all this badtameezi. I admit… I have to admit… I would’ve been WAY more understanding of Meerab’s resistance 😆

Unfortunately or fortunately that is true of murtasim

In fitor wahaj was the lover/bf and Faisal q was the husband. He was obsessed but also wanted her to be happy The husband was a flirt and had double standards. Almost everyone took the lovers side

I did too. Wahaj was really handsome ( and acted well for the part) in Fitoor, and I liked his dressing there. He was well styled.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Unfortunately or fortunately that is true of murtasim

In fitor wahaj was the lover/bf and Faisal q was the husband. He was obsessed but also wanted her to be happy The husband was a flirt and had double standards. Almost everyone took the lovers side

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

Is this the reason Meerab tells Haya “She can not divorce him but he can” ?

This dialogue was related to rules of divorce?I used to think why can’t she divorce him, if she doesn’t want to stay with him.

But she can ask for a divorce.

Im not sure if its related to islam or its her who doesnt want to be the one to break it..

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

In Pakistan, since in probably 90%-95% of the cases, maulvis make families take out the talak-e-tafweez [delegated divorce] clause which delegates women the power to give verbal talak, khula remains the only viable option where women have to ask the man to give them talak.

An interesting fact is about Bushra Ansari who plays Maa Begum. I saw an interview of hers some years ago. She got divorced at an old age once all her daughters got married. She said that she is the one who gave her husband talak and how her father even back then in the 70s or 80s when she got married was wise enough to ensure that her right to give talak was not taken out by the maulvi from the nikahnama.

I have never heard of this in my life (I think I know why.... people don't want others to know 😆) . 😲

Do Arabs do this as well? Is it a cultural thing?

From a website, there are 4 main methods of divorce in Islam:

•Granting of Divorce by the Husband – Talaq

•Separation by way of consent between the parties – Khula

• Dissolution of Marriage – Faskh-e-Nikah

•When the power of Talaq is transferred to the Wife – Tafweedh-e-Talaq

https://www.familylaw.co.uk/news_and_comment/talaq-khula-faskh-tafweedh-the-different-methods-of-islamic-separation-part-1

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Oh so khula is slightly different from talak?

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

YES on the haq part. Every time she dismissed his haq on her he would get mad. In E2, he calls her. No salam dua and just says "Kahan ho tum". She very non-chalantly says "Meri marzi main jahan bhi hoon" and he gets really pissed off. And yes, the birthday party scene. I mean Murtasim acted like a possessive psycho boyfriend then a psycho family friend 🤪

I also AGREE on him not realizing his feelings.

• In E2, at the birthday party, recall the scene where Murtasim is holding Merub by her wrist and Rohail puts his hand on Merub's to stop Murtasim from taking her with him. Rohail's line and Murtasim's reaction in E2 is identical to the scene in E20 when Murtasim is holding Merub by her wrist and Anwar puts his hand on Merub's to stop Murtasim from taking her with him. One key difference is that, in E20, after Murtasim shrugs off Anwar's hands, he says: "Merub sirf meri hai".
• If we see these scenes in E2 and E20 as mirrors, we will see that the haq is not verbalized in E2 but in E20, Murtasim verbalizes this haq. This possibly gives credence to the theory of that the feelings were there before (sub-conscious, unannounced) but after their shaadi, they grew and became apparent aur ab woh chilla chilla kar bol sakta hai

Mirrored dialog of Rohail vs Anwar in E2 vs E20:

• Rohail: iss ka haath choro [E2] Anwar: Merub ka haath choro Murtasim [E20]

Mirrored Murtasim's reaction #1 to Rohail vs Anwar in E2 vs E20:

Mirrored Murtasim's reaction #2 to Rohail vs Anwar in E20:

If it was love or not i guess we will never know.. it was not the writer’s intention.. but he did consider her as « haq » and not just « zimedari »

This is where i can differentiate his feels for her and haya.. haya is a responsibility for him.. but meerab was always special, his own, his right..

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

In Pakistan, since in probably 90%-95% of the cases, maulvis make families take out the talak-e-tafweez [delegated divorce] clause which delegates women the power to give verbal talak, khula remains the only viable option where women have to ask the man to give them talak.

An interesting fact is about Bushra Ansari who plays Maa Begum. I saw an interview of hers some years ago. She got divorced at an old age once all her daughters got married. She said that she is the one who gave her husband talak and how her father even back then in the 70s or 80s when she got married was wise enough to ensure that her right to give talak was not taken out by the maulvi from the nikahnama.

honestly dont know about these laws on nikanama.. but i have seen a similar scene in kuch unkahi.

women should get their rights and its nice that they are showing it on tv and educating them.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Unfortunately or fortunately that is true of murtasim

In fitor wahaj was the lover/bf and Faisal q was the husband. He was obsessed but also wanted her to be happy The husband was a flirt and had double standards. Almost everyone took the lovers side

Me 🙋‍♀️

i couldnt watch the show since hamza did not get the girl 😂

Looks like people werent really happy about the SH review.. both hassan and amna got “trolled” LOL and they are both trying to clarify.. and blaming fans 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

https://twitter.com/hassanchoudary/status/1647536754189037568?s=46&t=vWydrv1kM9_fbNX9eLsWcw

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Twitter walon kuch bhi 🤣