Member's topic: life experiences that you'd like to share with others.

Hello Members.

We all are learning our way through the practical world now. Teenagers are in college, 20s and 30s are either studying or working. Some are managing home, some are tending sick person. Everyone is going through different phase of their life.

I want to request all of you to give some life lessons that you guys learned and think others should learn about it too from your experiences. Its better to learn from other's mistakes and life.

I am not sure I'd get many replies but still I want some heart to heart life lessons so at least someone will learn something and implie in their life.

Sab ke sab utne hi paani mei hai aur dusro ko gyaan dete firte hain- this is what I have learned in some good and bad years of my life. So I have stopped giving a sh*t to what people think. Only you can walk in your shoes and know what’s best for you, not your chachi, maami,fufi or anyone else. And yeah well I have wasted some precious years of my life on some f*ckbois who only know how to waste a woman’s time, so all my beautiful ladies and gentlemen out there, find a partner who would fully commit to you and won’t have hovering eyes, until then don’t settle for less, stay single and happy 😎

* Meet people with open mind.Don’t assess them based on others experience or opinion.I have seen people already form a pre-conceived notion about others without meeting them because they’ve heard stories and gossips about them.Don’t do that.Always go by your own experience.😊

* And always have a little empathy towards others..Always.It helps others.🤗

Originally posted by: MyselfJ

* Meet people with open mind.Don’t assess them based on others experience or opinion.I have seen people already form a pre-conceived notion about others without meeting them because they’ve heard stories and gossips about them.Don’t do that.Always go by your own experience.😊

* And always have a little empathy towards others..Always.It helps others.🤗

1. Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket.
2. Don't keep sacrificing for others. You may do 100 good things for someone but they will complain about one thing you didn't / couldn't.
3. Don't try to please everyone. You will lose yourself in trying to do that.
4. Keep yourself your first priority. It's good to help others but not at the cost of your own good & wellbeing (well not unless u meet that person who can do the same for you).

Never rush into things or compare yourself to others. Or do anything under social pressure. Just go with the flow and your gut feeling. Don't do things just because others are doing it and you feel left out. Take your time in making life decisions.

Keep your contact very limited with toxic/ negative people if you can't totally avoid them.

You are on your own.

Your life is your responsibility.

Don’t live in the delusion that friends, lovers, community etc will support you when you need it.

You can only trust your parents and sometimes, if you’re lucky, your life partner.

Never clean your stove with harpic.

Never play Easter Egg game.