TERE BIN- Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali # DT 57 - Page 35

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

An over-thought philosophical answer is that her response could differ depending on where she is on her sexual awakening journey.

Stages of Merub's sexual awakening:

1. Resistance

Until E20, Merub would get flustered but come back with a tart repartee. Examples include kaan main kyun ghuss rahe ho scene, kaha bhi nahi jaata aur saha bhi nahi jaata scene, baal ko haath kyu lagaya scene.

2. Shy acceptance

E21-E23 really exemplify this. In the lawn date, choori and gajra scenes, she accepts Murtasim's touch, looks shy and gives a coy smile.

3. Exploring power dynamics

E29-E30. Merub gets affected when Murtasim looks at her with his intense bedroom eyes. In E30 after the Rumi-Qalandar-Mansoor line, Murtu looks at her intensely. She is affected - e.g. check the gulps. But in this stage, her response to being affected by Murtu is different - instead of a tart repartee or getting shy, she engages in a game of one-upmanship. She teases him and lays it on really thick in order to Murtasim worked up instead.

Aage ke stages to future episodes dekh kar hi deduce hongi.

A more facetious explanation of why Meeru was flirty/seductive and not sweet/shy:

After 30 episodes, maybe Merub main bhi full aag lagi hui hai [i mean just effin' look at Murtasim bandi kab tak bardasht kare] but Meeru has too much ego to be the one who concedes [remember Murtasim's line keh yaa main jeet jaonga ya woh haar jayegi]. Maybe her plan now is to work up Murtu so damn much keh woh banda khud hi meeru ko bole ke mujhe maaro ya contract phaaro 🤣

🤣🤣🤣

I would give good money to watch that.

and yes I love love your explanations!!

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

An over-thought philosophical answer is that her response could differ depending on where she is on her sexual awakening journey.

Stages of Merub's sexual awakening:

1. Resistance

Until E20, Merub would get flustered but come back with a tart repartee. Examples include kaan main kyun ghuss rahe ho scene, kaha bhi nahi jaata aur saha bhi nahi jaata scene, baal ko haath kyu lagaya scene.

2. Shy acceptance

E21-E23 really exemplify this. In the lawn date, choori and gajra scenes, she accepts Murtasim's touch, looks shy and gives a coy smile.

3. Exploring/testing power dynamics

E29-E30. Merub gets affected when Murtasim looks at her with his intense bedroom eyes. In E30 after the Rumi-Qalandar-Mansoor line, Murtu looks at her intensely. She is affected - e.g. check the gulps. But in this stage, her response to being affected by Murtu is different - instead of a tart repartee or getting shy, she engages in a game of one-upmanship. She teases him and lays it on really thick in order to get Murtasim worked up instead.

Aage ke stages to future episodes dekh kar hi deduce hongi.

A more facetious explanation of why Meeru was flirty/seductive and not sweet/shy:

After 30 episodes, maybe Merub main bhi full aag lagi hui hai [i mean just effin' look at Murtasim bandi kab tak bardasht kare] but Meeru has too much ego to be the one who concedes [remember Murtasim's line keh yaa main jeet jaonga ya woh haar jayegi]. Maybe her plan now is to work up Murtu so damn much keh woh banda khud hi meeru ko bole ke mujhe maaro ya contract phaaro 🤣

I just loved it!
It would be so entertaining meerab sitting in bed , telling dude I got the game now!
so here is contract tear it and move fwd! I am not tearing it and u know reasons! So you do the honour and proceed to next level!

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

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Well murtasim is lost in love

And meerab is lost in other people business 🤣

Have said this in previous post, will post it here again...

To all those saying meerub by that "tum bhi" she actually wanted to know if murtu would say nibba things like anas!

It was more like her monologue saying mariyum is lucky to get someone who loves her, so she asked the same thing to murtu and that "tum bhi " here referred anas.

NOT ROHAIL! she wasn't even thinking about rohail! I agree she probably wasn't thinking about rohail! It was purely a comparison with anas's loves towards maryaum

But but but does murtu know about anas ...or this whole anas nibba talking thing??? No na?? So he might have taken that 'tum bhi' as comparison to rohail. Which is nor wrong from his side if he do so!

As rohail did claim to love her infront of him. Kutte ki tarha chilla kar keh raha tha pyaar karta hun blah blah!! Toh murtu ne uske 'tum bhi' ko rohail se jor liya kyu ki usse anas ku nibba talking ka nah pata hein!

Plus meerub bibi did another thing wrong here which is

Meerub :- kiski

Murtu :- rohail ki

Meerub :-

" is liye kyu ki woh mujhse sacchi mohabbat ka dawa karta hein"

Wowww meerub??? Tumhe woh sacchi mohabbat wali dava lagi??? You really think sacchi Mohabbat is that cheap? That 250 rupi WB? Woh keh sakti thi "kyu marogi usse kis haq se...yeh kya har jaga marne ka laga rakhti hon! " Something like this....but look what did she say! Usne yeh bolke murtu koh aur insecure kar diya! Murtu ab shayed yeh soch raha hoga, joh meerub kal tak mere mohabbat ko question kar rahi thi, usne rohail ki mohabbat ke daave ko bhi sacchi maan liya!! Usko woh daava sacchi lag rahi hein.

See neha, Main keh rahi hun its not just Meerub’s action! Its more her dialogues that irks people now....irritating both audiences and murtu :) bechara uske shabd ke attack se hi adha maar jayega!!!

Uske muh kholte hi joh shabd nahi nikal ne chahiye woh nikal jatey hein. Or joh jaha kehni chahiye waha kuch nahi bolti.

Uski bolne ki approach hi galat hoti hein, ki log galat samajhne mei majbur ho jatey hein. Usko baat karne ka, kaha konsa shabd use kare taki samne ki insaan ki kidney 10 pieces nah ho jaye dard se yehi nahi samajh ati :)

Bloody nooran 🙃

gunni kis soch se pride and prejudice se iss nooran ki comparison kiya tha tune , tune hi kiya tha na aur someone else???

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

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Now geo also taunting us with hand hand chemistry :)

Originally posted by: Neha_S

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the OG..

the current state of TB is making me miss Farah Wali…I love love their confession- how he literally made her admit her love- the entire teasing was so cute

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Have said this in previous post, will post it here again...

To all those saying meerub by that "tum bhi" she actually wanted to know if murtu would say nibba things like anas!

It was more like her monologue saying mariyum is lucky to get someone who loves her, so she asked the same thing to murtu and that "tum bhi " here referred anas.

NOT ROHAIL! she wasn't even thinking about rohail! I agree she probably wasn't thinking about rohail! It was purely a comparison with anas's loves towards maryaum

But but but does murtu know about anas ...or this whole anas nibba talking thing??? No na?? So he might have taken that 'tum bhi' as comparison to rohail. Which is nor wrong from his side if he do so!

As rohail did claim to love her infront of him. Kutte ki tarha chilla kar keh raha tha pyaar karta hun blah blah!! Toh murtu ne uske 'tum bhi' ko rohail se jor liya kyu ki usse anas ku nibba talking ka nah pata hein!

Plus meerub bibi did another thing wrong here which is

Meerub :- kiski

Murtu :- rohail ki

Meerub :-

" is liye kyu ki woh mujhse sacchi mohabbat ka dawa karta hein"

Wowww meerub??? Tumhe woh sacchi mohabbat wali dava lagi??? You really think sacchi Mohabbat is that cheap? That 250 rupi WB? Woh keh sakti thi "kyu marogi usse kis haq se...yeh kya har jaga marne ka laga rakhti hon! " Something like this....but look what did she say! Usne yeh bolke murtu koh aur insecure kar diya! Murtu ab shayed yeh soch raha hoga, joh meerub kal tak mere mohabbat ko question kar rahi thi, usne rohail ki mohabbat ke daave ko bhi sacchi maan liya!! Usko woh daava sacchi lag rahi hein.

See neha, Main keh rahi hun its not just Meerub’s action! Its more her dialogues that irks people now....irritating both audiences and murtu :) bechara uske shabd ke attack se hi adha maar jayega!!!

Uske muh kholte hi joh shabd nahi nikal ne chahiye woh nikal jatey hein. Or joh jaha kehni chahiye waha kuch nahi bolti.

Uski bolne ki approach hi galat hoti hein, ki log galat samajhne mei majbur ho jatey hein. Usko baat karne ka, kaha konsa shabd use kare taki samne ki insaan ki kidney 10 pieces nah ho jaye dard se yehi nahi samajh ati :)

Bloody nooran 🙃

gunni kis soch se pride and prejudice se iss nooran ki comparison kiya tha tune , tune hi kiya tha na aur someone else???

Meerab ky pyaar ka level hi yehi hai, that nibba nibbi cheesy talks which anas did, that 2 rupees wala white board. Meerab ko innn saasti baaton aur harkaton sy mohabbat py yakeen ataa hai. Murtasim chaye lakh bar apny maa ky against jaye meerab ky liye, hazar bar usko protect karey usky liye stand ly, par Sachi mohabbat toh aisy cheesy baaton aur uss WB sy hi nazar ati hai

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Plus meerub bibi did another thing wrong here which is

Meerub :- kiski

Murtu :- rohail ki

Meerub :-

" is liye kyu ki woh mujhse sacchi mohabbat ka dawa karta hein"

Wowww meerub??? Tumhe woh sacchi mohabbat wali dava lagi??? You really think sacchi Mohabbat is that cheap? That 250 rupi WB? Woh keh sakti thi "kyu marogi usse kis haq se...yeh kya har jaga marne ka laga rakhti hon! " Something like this....but look what did she say! Usne yeh bolke murtu koh aur insecure kar diya! Murtu ab shayed yeh soch raha hoga, joh meerub kal tak mere mohabbat ko question kar rahi thi, usne rohail ki mohabbat ke daave ko bhi sacchi maan liya!! Usko woh daava sacchi lag rahi hein.

Will read and comment on rest later but on the sacchi mohabbat point, I agree with you.

Let's look at E25 when Murtasim and Merub fights in the gaon wala house after Haya eye test:

Murtasim: I love you

Merub: No, you don't

So, in E25, Merub tells Murtasim ke she doesn't find his mohabbat sacchi. Now juxtapose it with her calling Rohail's claim as sacchi mohabbat ka daawa in front of Murtasim in E32. Ergo, Murtasim gets further triggered.

Edited to add:

Basically Merub ke dialogs me random words ghussaid diye nooran baji ne (abhi, tum bhi, sacchi, etc.) aur phir merub ki mitti paleed aur kardi. These words could have easily been edited out😡

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Mahi that is a very good point. What is the point of separation track when there is nothing worth separating. Even Murtasim is at the stage like yeah you want to leave then just please leave, but stop talking shit because I can't it anymore. I think he can deal with no love from her side right now, just Meerab please stay silent darling because her Meerabish is killing him.

( Long post ho gaya but Padhlena time nikal ke tab shayed samajh aye kyu main itni irritated/frustrated ho rahi hun story se ab )

I've been saying this for a long time now, yeh joh ek ke baad ek misunderstanding writer throwing on them.

Haya the kamini 3rd angle ghar par rehke chein chin rahi hein (murtu ki dewanee)

Rohail the cheap ashique (Meerub’s dewanaa)

Now this including family member's issue + family honour issue ( maryum issue)

Also now even has dragged this eternal enemy issue!!! Yeha bhi meeru ko galat dekhayenge!

All these .......alll of these issues/misunderstanding ek steel strong rishte par bhaari par jaye..heela kar rakh de, toh inka toh abhi tak rishta hi agey nahi barte huye dekhaya writer ne! Ek taraf se rassi pakad kar beitha hein, ek tarfa rishta hein mainly ...meerub toh abhi bhi confused stage par hein!!! Toh yeh ek ke baad ek tufan kis base par yaar?? Agar aisa bhi dikhate ki ek ki baad ek tufan inko paas le arahe hein! Their relationship is progressing....toh bhi maan lete...toh yeh kya story hein???

Separation ka toh mujhe ab koyi logic hi nahi lag rahi, itni tragedy ko sambhalne ke baad even if they confess now and consummate. Phir 2 din baad Separation! Yeh do din ka pyaar Separation ko utaar aney ke liye kafi hein?? With all these tragic memories???

And agar yeh sare problems confession se Pehle dekha kar writer yeh samjhana chahti hein look their love won against all these problems, yeh dhaga samaan rishte ko leke itne sare musibaat ko par karke utaar aye ab yeh log apne pyaar ko samjhe hein, inka rishta majbood bana hein ..tab toh again after all these Separation track seems illogical!! Jo couple iss tuti futi rishte ko leke itna kuch samna kar sakta hein, pyaar ka confession kar sakta hein pyaar ko samajh ke. Woh pyaar accept karne ki baad koyi bhi bare bare tufan ek saath samna karne ki himmat and capabilities to rakhte hi hein!!!

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Not watching anymore ! Yeh epi kafi tha mujhe trauma dene ke liye...pura din ab yehi trauma yaad ayegi

And yes kumu I'm just shocked aj se 3 saal pehle yeh show aya...and tab pemra or any reviewers didn't feel the need to call this out!

How disgustingly they glorified this rape scene here...also just rape??? He literally behaved with her like she's some slave!! Not his wife. Rape kiya, utha phir kaha ab niklo kamre se. Tum mere saath kamre share karne ki layek na ho 🙃

Woooooowww you couldn't bear her presence in your room, couldn't even give her that much audha...yet you forcefully had sex with her???took pleasure from her body????? Itni hi hawas ki janwar??? Chiiihhh!

And as per madhu and gunni this guy got his happy ending....