GHKPM WU & EDT #109 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Nja91

A selective hearing of Sai's dialogues doesn't justify Sai V being together. The question never was that she loves V or not. the question is should she be with a man as horrible as him. Should she believe his so called apology? Should she trust him when he says he will fix things? With his track record he cannot be trusted. Despite "love" he has only ill treated her. Sai is kinder than anyone of us might have been. She still believes he will be mature, be a good father to the kids and is forgiving him. Everyone who says that Sai V should reconcile should ask themselves if they could really accept a spouse who spewed nonsense at them, assumed them dead and married another person. Would anyone be able to reconcile with a man who cheated you to this degree in front of your eyes too- going on honeymoon, sharing bedroom, etc etc etc.

I take Sai aaba talk as what Sai is thinking. If you hear it, she is clear that she wants to be with Virat & not doing so because it’s morally wrong to break someone’s family, however fake it is. She doesn’t talk about betrayal by Virat or mistrusting Virat. So no matter what others feel that’s Sai’s perspective. That’s not a view of any woman should think or do. She told P too that she knows Virat loves her. So that’s what she believes even though we as audience may disagree.

Bottomline is she said she does NOT want to be with him.. she said NO. Multiple times. Despite everything V has done if Sai is still expected to reconcile, then nothing to be said .

She dreamed of a happy life with V but now she doesn't want him.

She cares about him being Ps husband because she hasn't forgotten his cheating otherwise she'd jumped at the opportunity to tell him to divorce P.

We can always agree to disagree. I didn’t hear any of this when she was talking to aaba that is her subconscious so obviously we are watching different show.

Originally posted by: Nja91

A selective hearing of Sai's dialogues doesn't justify Sai V being together. The question never was that she loves V or not. the question is should she be with a man as horrible as him. Should she believe his so called apology? Should she trust him when he says he will fix things? With his track record he cannot be trusted. Despite "love" he has only ill treated her. Sai is kinder than anyone of us might have been. She still believes he will be mature, be a good father to the kids and is forgiving him but not forgetting anything. Everyone who says that Sai V should reconcile should ask themselves if they could really accept a spouse who spewed nonsense at them, assumed them dead and married another person. Would anyone be able to reconcile with a man who cheated you to this degree in front of your eyes too- going on honeymoon, sharing bedroom, etc etc etc.

And I want only this after proper redemption from virat and vinu accepting his aayi. It may take time but as sai clearly mentioned love happens only onetime I want her to try to work on her marriage (relation) with virat not for virat but for herself and kids.

And pakhi should not be in the picture anywhere when sai enters virat life again which I think is impossible in the show😒.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Bottomline is she said she does NOT want to be with him.. she said NO. Multiple times. Despite everything V has done if Sai is still expected to reconcile, then nothing to be said .

She dreamed of a happy life with V but now she doesn't want him.

She cares about him being Ps husband because she hasn't forgotten his cheating otherwise she'd jumped at the opportunity to tell him to divorce P.

Personally I would have preferred if Virat had reacted this way after he met Sai in Kankaval, figured out Savi being his daughter, Vinu had connection with him & not P. But Sai mistrusting him & refusing to accept for all the reasons she is justified for. Mainly for marrying P even if it’s marriage in name only. They could have made Virat realize his mistake & really change. Then tried winning Sai over.

But that’s not what makers planned. You just accept makers narrative keeping your real views aside & decide whether or not you want to watch it.

In between also accept that different people have different opinions about same things. As Virat used to say tumhara sach mere sach se alag ho sakta hai.

I'm sorry but I completely disagree. Why should she try. Onus is on V. Kids mein Vinu is obsessed with P as mumma and Savi doesn't understand anything yet. Kids can get a good upbringing without Sai having to sacrifice her self respect. Her choice to marry Satya has to have some reason. A loveless marriage is no big deal if there is trust, friendship, respect, understanding . Love toh usi mein hai. There's no use of "love" when theres no trust, understanding. V does not deserve Sai. Sai needs peace, a true companion. Kids are resilient. They will be fine. They can get their parents without parents living together also. Expecting a woman to sacrifice her respect also just to accommodate others is utterly unfair and kinda regressive. Constantly saying she loves V doesn't mean anything. She also admits she loves V but she still does NOT wanna be with him. And theres a valid reason for it. So thats it. Shes tried enough. Now its time to cut him off. And she's doing so.

Sai has said a plain and simple NO to Vs proposal. Thats it.

And NO means NO.

And I an glad she said no. She's doing the right thing.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I'm sorry but I completely disagree. Why should she try. Onus is on V. Kids mein Vinu is obsessed with P as mumma and Savi doesn't understand anything yet. Kids can get a good upbringing without Sai having to sacrifice her self respect. Her choice to marry Satya has to have some reason. A loveless marriage is no big deal if there is trust, friendship, respect, understanding . Love toh usi mein hai. There's no use of "love" when theres no trust, understanding. V does not deserve Sai. Sai needs peace, a true companion. Kids are resilient. They will be fine. They can get their parents without parents living together also. Expecting a woman to sacrifice her respect also just to accommodate others is utterly unfair and kinda regressive. Constantly saying she loves V doesn't mean anything. She also admits she loves V but she still does NOT wanna be with him. And theres a valid reason for it. So thats it. Shes tried enough. Now its time to cut him off. And she's doing so.

Today's sai virat scene, reminded me of pakhi virat's cafe scene.

Pakhi was begging him and was ready to leave samrat. While virat was caring about the happiness of others and his responsibilities.

Now, sai is in the same place.

For a change, i want to see a desperate deal phase pakhi like, virat after saiya's wedding.

Hulk mode is boring and then only a love vs duty, traingle will continue.

Virat constantly being in Sai's life desperately, just like pakhi did during deal phase.

Sai struggling between love and duty.

But, yes if they wanna go ahead with saiya and Pakrat, then we can't say.

But, promo says something else.