I am not just talking about Anupama before marriage, I never blamed her for that. I was comparing with Anupama post marriage when she was still living with her in-laws, one of whom constantly abuses and gives her baddua even now (Baa), the other never does anything meaningful to stand up for her, and her totally badtameez ungrateful kids who kept kicking her out of the house but she kept wanting to return to them. And what relation does she have with Baa other than ex-MIL? Or even Vanraj, to put up with his crap and show "insaaniyat" ka rishta for so long. No abused housewive cheated on by her husband for so many years would behave like that with ex-in laws and ex-husband. And I'm not bringing in any romantic angle here, just talking about the comfort level and the things she did for him and what she continues to put up with. He deserved a slap after the temple incident, not her accepting his bouqet.
I literally said Maaya was wrong and cheap too, didn't defend her, and said she was becoming like Anupama in terms of taking taunts and abuses quietly and still going back to the abusers. Don't know what you're saying about "Maaya's journey", I never mentioned any such thing nor asked for it. Maaya is meant to be a negative character. So if she lacks self respect, it's pitiable and laughable. In fact I criticised her and her current behaviour is definitely deplorable.
But Anupama is meant to be the show's main lead, the protagonist. It's far more of a problem that she hasn't been shown real growth in any manner, and still lacks the self respect to cut off ties with her abusers and loves to be an unpaid maid for them. It's been a while now right since the divorce? Where is the growth, she's only gone backwards, she was more fierce before her marriage with Anuj. Maya lacks self-respect these days (based on the story) and Anupama, her whole life.
Edited by poobaniparvati9 - 2 years ago
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