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Originally posted by: vizard

What's the maximum age difference before it would make someone a pdo?

If someone is of legal age, 18 or whatever it may be in their country, then what should be the maximum age of their partner before they are labeled as pdo?

Just because someone became of legal age doesn't mean she should be married off to someone old enough to be her father or married off in general. Legal age doesn't equal to matured enough to be married and that too to someone that old.

What's the difference between a 50yr old going after a 17yr or an 18yr old? The only difference is the law cannot do anything if it's 18. That doesn't make it morally right. There is not much maturity difference between a 16,17 and 18.

If the young person is educated enough with enough life experience like 25-26 decides to get married to a 40yr old or a 50yr old then it's fine. Their brain is developed enough for them to make their own decisions. At 18 that person is not even done growing both mentally and physically. Also what kind of 50 yr old wants to get physical with an 18yr old? if he can go for an 18yr old he would have gone for a 16 or 17yr old if he could. That screams pedophilia.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Just because someone became of legal age doesn't mean she should be married off to someone old enough to be her father or married off in general. Legal age doesn't equal to matured enough to be married and that too to someone that old.

What's the difference between a 50yr old going after a 17yr or an 18yr old? The only difference is the law cannot do anything if it's 18. That doesn't make it morally right. There is not much maturity difference between a 16,17 and 18.

If the young person is educated enough with enough life experience like 25-26 decides to get married to a 40yr old or a 50yr old then it's fine. Their brain is developed enough for them to make their own decisions. At 18 that person is not even done growing both mentally and physically. Also what kind of 50 yr old wants to get physical with an 18yr old? if he can go for an 18yr old he would have gone for a 16 or 17yr old if he could. That screams pedophilia.

The law cannot do anything because they haven't done anything wrong. Pedophilia means an attraction to prepubescent children. An 18 year old is a legal adult and can make decisions for herself. I don't think that term applies to Aamir as he married a legal adult. The rests are just personal opinions and moral principles which differ from person to person.

Originally posted by: vizard

The law cannot do anything because they haven't done anything wrong. Pedophilia means an attraction to prepubescent children. An 18 year old is a legal adult and can make decisions for herself. I don't think that term applies to Aamir as he married a legal adult. The rests are just personal opinions and moral principles which differ from person to person.

If a 50yr old can marry an 18yr old then why cant he marry a 16 or 17yr old? Emotionally, mentally and physically there isn't much difference between 16,17 and 18. Just because someone becomes of legal age at 18 doesn't mean they suddenly gets matured enough to get married in general forget getting married to a 50yr old.

What exactly is a difference between a 17 yr old and an 18yr old except them getting legal permission to vote and drive?

I don't know in which part of the world it's perfectly normal for a 50yr old to marry an 18yr old. Even the west will froze upon it. There is grooming and borderline pedophilia involved in it. That's not normal at all. In the west atleast we can say an 18yr old have more life experience than an 18yr old in indian subcontinent. They start working from high school itself and will have to move out of their parents house by 18 and fetch for themselves whereas an 18yr old here from a decent household will be sheltered from the outer world and wouldn't have much knowledge about duniyadari.

Also if a 50yr old woman was the one that married an 18yr old guy and all of this happened i am pretty sure she wouldn't have been labelled as a bachari that got trapped by an 18yr old gold digger. She will be the one that will be blamed for putting herself in that position and the 18yr old will get away with the justification of 'boys will be boys'.

Originally posted by: spnfan

If a 50yr old can marry an 18yr old then why cant he marry a 16 or 17yr old? Emotionally, mentally and physically there isn't much difference between 16,17 and 18. Just because someone becomes of legal age at 18 doesn't mean they suddenly gets matured enough to get married in general forget getting married to a 50yr old.

What exactly is a difference between a 17 yr old and an 18yr old except them getting legal permission to vote and drive?

I don't know in which part of the world it's perfectly normal for a 50yr old to marry an 18yr old. Even the west will froze upon it. There is grooming and borderline pedophilia involved in it. That's not normal at all. In the west atleast we can say an 18yr old have more life experience than an 18yr old in indian subcontinent. They start working from high school itself and will have to move out of their parents house by 18 and fetch for themselves whereas an 18yr old here from a decent household will be sheltered from the outer world and wouldn't have much knowledge about duniyadari.

Also if a 50yr old woman was the one that married an 18yr old guy and all of this happened i am pretty sure she wouldn't have been labelled as a bachari that got trapped by an 18yr old gold digger. She will be the one that will be blamed for putting herself in that position and the 18yr old will get away with the justification of 'boys will be boys'.

I'm just saying you can't call him a pedophile for marrying a legal adult. He didn't marry a 16 or 17 year old so there's no point in talking about what he could or would have done. You can't punish someone for crime they didn't commit just because you think they might be capable of it.

As I mentioned, rest of your statements are just your own opinions. You can't force them on others. You don't get to decide how a legal adult should live his or her life. You can be strick with your family members, relatives, and friends on this matter, but even with them, ultimately they have the freedom to decide. Unless, you believe in taking away their freedom or maybe you want to change the legal age from 18 to 25 or 26 since that's when the brain stops developing.

If 18 year olds are old enough to make other life changing decisions then they are old enough to select their partner.

Anyways, apart from that pedophilia comment, I don't really have any issues with the rest of what you're saying.

As far as old women marrying young boys, the only issue that I tend to hear is the fertility problems. Though I'm there other things said but a lot was said about Aamir as well.

Originally posted by: vizard

I'm just saying you can't call him a pedophile for marrying a legal adult. He didn't marry a 16 or 17 year old so there's no point in talking about what he could or would have done. You can't punish someone for crime they didn't commit just because you think they might be capable of it.

As I mentioned, rest of your statements are just your own opinions. You can't force them on others. You don't get to decide how a legal adult should live his or her life. You can be strick with your family members, relatives, and friends on this matter, but even with them, ultimately they have the freedom to decide. Unless, you believe in taking away their freedom or maybe you want to change the legal age from 18 to 25 or 26 since that's when the brain stops developing.

If 18 year olds are old enough to make other life changing decisions then they are old enough to select their partner.

Anyways, apart from that pedophilia comment, I don't really have any issues with the rest of what you're saying.

As far as old women marrying young boys, the only issue that I tend to hear is the fertility problems. Though I'm there other things said but a lot was said about Aamir as well.

I didn't force any of my opinion on anyone. I simply asked a question that how is a 17 yr old's life decisions any different from an 18yr old? If a 50yr old is going after a 17yr is wrong how does he going after an 18yr old becomes right? Also how many 18yr old girls in indian subcontinent have the maturity or understanding to make a completely independent decision of getting married to a 50yr old? There is more than enough chances that her parents forced her into the marriage or she was brainwashed into it. Also if that girl is being labelled as gold digger by everyone why cannot be the guy be called a pedo?

What i am asking is if a woman was in place of aamir and she died will be also be put in a pedestal like him after death? On one hand everyone is like another man shouldn't be treated the way aamir was treated when he was alive and then they all want that girl to rout in jail forever. They both did wrong and they both screwed by. Just because he is no more he ended up being more in the right than her.

Originally posted by: spnfan

I didn't force any of my opinion on anyone. I simply asked a question that how is a 17 yr old's life decisions any different from an 18yr old? If a 50yr old is going after a 17yr is wrong how does he going after an 18yr old becomes right? Also how many 18yr old girls in indian subcontinent have the maturity or understanding to make a completely independent decision of getting married to a 50yr old? There is more than enough chances that her parents forced her into the marriage or she was brainwashed into it. Also if that girl is being labelled as gold digger by everyone why cannot be the guy be called a pedo?

What i am asking is if a woman was in place of aamir and she died will be also be put in a pedestal like him after death? On one hand everyone is like another man shouldn't be treated the way aamir was treated when he was alive and then they all want that girl to rout in jail forever. They both did wrong and they both screwed by. Just because he is no more he ended up being more in the right than her.

Have no much idea about the Amir guy..

As a matter of fact if all his previous wives were minor then you can rightfully call him pedo..but in his case it isn't so ..

All of Leonardo DiCaprio 's recent girl friends were of below 25yrs age and the recent one just turned 19..yet hardly labels him as pedo...

I believe casually using the word pedo ain't right

Originally posted by: MuratHayat

Have no much idea about the Amir guy..

As a matter of fact if all his previous wives were minor then you can rightfully call him pedo..but in his case it isn't so ..

All of Leonardo DiCaprio 's recent girl friends were of below 25yrs age and the recent one just turned 19..yet hardly labels him as pedo...

I believe casually using the word pedo ain't right

Leonardo is being made fun of for his choices of gf for a long time now. You can find multiple people calling him out for it and comedians joke about his obsession with younger girls on award shows in front of the entire hollywood. Also Hollywood itself is famous for its pedophilia. Multiple child artists have spoken about it openly throughout the history of Hollywood and some world famous directors and actor's name have been involved in it. The paparazzis put a countdown for some famous actresses to turn 18 so that they can post inappropriate photos of them and openly sexually objectify them. Some papaz laid down on the floor and took pics of Emma Watson's legs on the night of her 18th bday. Something that would have been illegal just a day before. So a person that is capable of going after an 18yr is fully capable of going after younger than 18. They are simply waiting to not get in any legal trouble.

That aamir guy's wives got younger and younger as he got older and older.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Didnt that guy called her and her mother prostitutes publically? If an 18 yr old marries a 50yr old she is a gold digger but why no name is given to the 50yr old?

It's not like the guy got married to that girl at gun point or viseversa. He is the one with more life experience she isn't. He was the one that wanted to show off his 18yr old wife everywhere. She is too young to handle the attention and fame and bullying coming her way and screwed things up. Now she is being crucified because the phedo couldn't handle the hate. If that girl does something to herself i am pretty sure she ain't gonna be a saint like the guy after death.

True. The girl was only obsessed with him because he was powerful and haid fame and money. I wish her parents were that much sensible to not put her daughter in a pit of fire .

I haven't heard much about her lately but she was always at crucification of media.

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Originally posted by: MaxMayfield

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Thank you. I have heard about it but never watched the show. I will give it a try.