People who separate from their Ex’s, get a divorce or a restraining order are wrong. Why don’t people understand that no one can take the place of your Ex, not even someone who has loved you for 26 years.
In fact you are supposed to do the opposite and be close with your Ex. You are supposed meet them daily, chat to them, laugh with them, dance with them, hug them and romance with them. You are supposed to prioritise your Ex over your current partner and must try to win them back.
Don’t forget that your Ex’s family will be your new Maayka no matter how toxic they are, you should continue to fulfil your duties towards them even if you get married 100 times.
If you have kids then you are supposed to take advantage of being your Bachon ki Maa/Pita as your kids will most likely want you to be together no matter how you are.
Akhir Ek Kagaz Ke Tudke Se Rishta Nahi Badalta.