Originally posted by: sns23
I am torn about this - not sure what Dev’s perspective will be. He has always put Vidhi’s needs above his own - but in this case, the reality is he is going to start parenting late in the game - he is already in his mid 40s. How much longer should he wait? He’s seen how much Abhi and Chitra have missed out on with their dad. So will be be wrong to want to have kids sooner rather than later (if kids are something they want?)
The flip side to this is, vidhi should be emotionally prepared to step into the role of a mother. While this is something that one can never be truly prepared for, it shouldn’t be something she regrets later in life.
I am a firm believer that any marriage needs time to mature and develop a strong foundation, before it is thrust into the chaos of parenting. But their relationship has been complete chaos from the beginning. Maybe they need something to cement it 🤷🏻♀️ since the kasmein and vaade are clearly proving to be a shaky foundation.
In any case, not sure how the coin will land on this but I’m sure that it’ll be portrayed well.
(Is it bad that I’ve already discounted the MBA 🤣🤣 in any case, in an ideal world - if didi does want to focus on mba - she’s got a decent enough support system to help her balance things)